Family - November 2007

i want to move from the town i live in to the city. my fiance has postponed it several times... but there is nothing keeping him here(we have custody of his kids and all). Work sucks out here (i can't get one) and everything is 20 miles away. We spoke about it but he want s to wait until after the wedding (in june). i have no friends or family here and either does he.... i ran out of ideas...

2007-11-09 04:34:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question b4 but the answers didnt make much sense.

Well here's the story, my brother and my best friend are going out. I didnt want them to, but they said it was none of my business and it was going to be okay. My friend her name is Ashley, she begged me to let her go out with my brother, so i was like alright fine. I didnt want them to go out because she always switching boys. And my brother is my twin so i didnt want him to get hurt. They have been going out for a while now, its been going good. But she started telling me about another guy! I told her we cant be friends anymore so, i already lost my best friend. But who needs her. I told my brother what we was going to do, he was pissed. Dont tell me im going to lose him too. Ahh// help me.

2007-11-09 04:14:05 · 21 answers · asked by WestLand 5

Most females I know, including me (I am 30) are alot closer to their mothers, and their fathers are someone they only talk to at family visits. I personally love my mother alot more than my dad. Daughters will never call to just talk to dad. The same was especially true when we were teens (teen girls when I grew up).... so Daughters, do you love your mothers better than your fathers?

2007-11-09 03:44:24 · 22 answers · asked by sugarpie2 5

to go toward our trip to St. Lucia in 2009? We're not looking for money but since our family says it's hard to buy for us, should we let them know of our intentions?

2007-11-09 03:40:37 · 5 answers · asked by Andrea K 2

if masturbation and porn makes you happy, do you have to feel guilty about it?

2007-11-09 03:23:04 · 2 answers · asked by a_very_good_player 1

My husband and his brother work together. They are the only two boys in the family. And his wife my sister in law and I stay home with our children. We get along, like talking and stuff but I really don't care for her as no one in the family does. But we still treat her like we would want to be treated. You know you always have one in the family that is just goes on about what they have as for money and possestions and I hate that. But anyways, at the boys work they got for the first time a women worker. This is a mans place so this is different. My sister is law said that her husband says theres a hot women there now and just joking around how everyone likes her, haha, but you can tell it bothered her. Well, my husband said that is brother has been none stop flirting with her. Every time she comes in the office picking on her, he was smoking with her and she had his warm her hands, playing aroung like but defently flirting. And she flirts back. She is in the middle of a dovorce.

2007-11-09 02:33:14 · 23 answers · asked by mamato5Boys 4

This is my mom's second baby and there is 12 years between me and the new baby! I don't want to, but I feel jealous, and left out... please don't say talk about it!! Me and my mom have a close relationship, and we always talk, but we're kind of drifting apart. Help!

2007-11-09 02:33:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel so sad... I keep worrying about my father dying when I turn twenty because right now he is 55 and I'm 12.... I'm so scared... I'm also never allowed to see my big brother (who i just found out about) and he cant go to colledge cuz his step dad ditched him and his mom for a stupid prostitute...

My mom told me that she was pregnant with me before she met my dad... this is all so confuzing...

I'm so afraid....


I love my parents so much... I care about them most in this world....

So much stuff are going on... Thats just the beggining...

GEEZ...


I would seriously rather kill myself just to let my parents live more longer and better life...

I am so hurt... Before I came to my new school, I had no friends and I didnt learn how to read and stuff until I was in the 2nd grade... I was like , "Whats a add and substract?"

All really do now is listen to emo songs like Untitled by Simpleplan... I feel like my hearts fallin into peices...
I'm too sensitive..

2007-11-09 02:26:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if my boyfriend leaves me?he tells me that he's gona be ther.But how am i suppose to know that.His father left him when he was a baby.I also tried saying to give him/her up for adoption he tells me no because he wouldn't of liked to bbe given up for adoption.he would kill his mother or father that gave him up.Knowing that they are not dead and just gave him up.I told him its not his descion its mine.I have to sit there through nine months and have to hear my mother and families opinions of me.I'm so clueless.

2007-11-09 01:30:53 · 32 answers · asked by cookie 1

Since his teen years our relationship heas been difficult, marked by conflicts. He didn't wasnt to follow my rules and for several times I had to be hard on him. This created resentment that persists today.
He's an engineer, still single, doing great in his life,. But he' s not trustworthy, doesn't listen to me. I don't feel I can trust him. When he says he'll do something he keeps his word, but when I want him to do something I wasnt I'm not sure he'll agree. For several times I told him to act as I wanted and he just said no,

Now, we are going through a family problem and it's important he does as I'll tell him. I also have a daughter and I can trust she'll follow what I say, I'm sure she will. But I can't trust he will. If he agrees to, I know he will, but he may just say I don't agree and I'm almost sure he won't actually agree.

This is not right, I'm his father, he should always do as I tell him and be trustworthy.

.,

2007-11-09 01:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

family?
the other son/daughter in law will be mean and rude .. but still she will vow to stand by them.

me? if i give her anything she RETURNS it .. its short sleeved .. if its long sleeved.. i have no use of it ... etc etc ...!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-09 01:24:43 · 7 answers · asked by barley 2

I certainly did. I have broken several glass things and punched a punching bag until the skin came off my knuckles.

2007-11-09 01:13:36 · 11 answers · asked by ameeker 3

My bf and I were at his mothers home the other day for a bday party for his son from a previous marriage. As we were leaving I overheard his mother ask the ex-wife if her son goes to an all white school? While the little boy was sitting on the steps. I'm black and they are white. I came back to the door so we can leave, then she held up a paper plate whispering to the ex-wife about it some more. While waiting in the car, my boyfriend said that his mother hopes I was not offended by the comment and she was worried. We went back inside and she told me more then I heard in the conversation. She said the black school by her house singled out white kids. The ex-wife she told that to lives 45 min away from her in a nice area of town. We live in Virginia by the way for a job offer my b/f got. She says she not racist, but my bf tolf me when we 1st started dating, he changed my name to sound white for his mom. What do you think of this? I am not going anywhere near his family anymore

2007-11-09 01:09:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom speaks little english...and im a little shy at times...what could we talk about??

2007-11-09 00:42:36 · 4 answers · asked by Bertolini 1

2007-11-09 00:13:40 · 19 answers · asked by Kristian S 1

How did you do it? You were the child always placed last, 'Allowed,' to sacrifice your wants and needs for you siblings, contribute your teenager paycheck to the family, your school accomplishments ignored, mother or father siblings because parent(s) at the bars. You had to stand up to the 'monsters,' parent(s) had for friends and brought home.
What procedures/coping devices/mental tricks did you use?
Has your own family suffered because it took you so long to 'practise being a parent?'

2007-11-08 23:59:35 · 3 answers · asked by peter s 3

I feel real sorry for this kid, every time it's the hols she appears in our square (car park of block of flats) on her bike, alone, no friends or family I can see.

She speaks to the caretaker and I said hi to her yesterday (she's about 12, overweight, and quite obviously unhappy).

Poor little mite is (I think) dumped by busy parents on to granparents.

It's so sad.

Is there anything I could do, I'm a guy (married, no kids) to put a little sun into her life?

2007-11-08 23:45:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is just 16 yo. He got kicked out of high school for making troubles (fighting with schoolmates, breaking school property, basically because of conduct etc.). We do not know what is wrong with him. We are trying to look for new school, also for family counseling. How can we understand him? How can we help him? What if we are not able to find a new school? We do not want him to bum around. Can he enroll from vocational school or culinary school, etc. even if he does not graduate from hs?

2007-11-08 22:23:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i feel a little bit weird about it

2007-11-08 22:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by invaderzimsbestfriend 1

Well i am 17 i go to college and i am redoing my first year their. I don't know anyone in college that would not be allowed out on a friday night, neither do i know anyone there who has to be ' allowed out ' by their parents. Most people i know are free to go out any night they want, my parents are always telling me i cant go out on college nights even though all my friends are out, and if i do manage to b allowed out 1 night i have to be back by half 9!!!!! And i get phone calls if im like 5 minutes late. I have been 'grounded' tonight and i think its very unfair on a friday night, and the reason for me being grounded is because i left them a note one weeknight saying i went out ad when i would be back,and apparantly this isnt good enough :S I hate not being given enough independence and it just makes me wanna get back at my parents and do bad things. Do you think my parents are to strict, and should i really still be getting grounded when im 17 and in college? its embarassing :( rik

2007-11-08 22:08:08 · 18 answers · asked by Rik M 1

My brother is almost 27 and hes been doing drugs and drinking since i was little and i have never really dealt with it. he's threatened to kill himself. i dont know how much longer i can do it. ive grown up in a hard home and i know how to deal with sober people but not drunks. me and my brother always end up gettin in physical fights rarely ever verbal ones and i dont know what to do anymore. please is there anyone that has gone thru what i have. it there anyone like me?

2007-11-08 21:53:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi am21 years old,i have 1and half years daughter and a husband but not wedded yet.Amalso planning to have another baby as i proceed with ma travel and tourism course so that after i give birth i can get enough time to work.He says we can weed when he is ready financially.He loves me so much thats why i decided to stay with him.He is 36 years old.Do you think its a nice idea

2007-11-08 18:35:26 · 9 answers · asked by josephine mideva 1

How do you feel about the way your parents raised you? What do you wish they had done better and what are you greatfull for?

2007-11-08 18:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom left my abusive dad about 4 months ago, and at first it was fine, everything was great. But recently, we moved and got our own apartment, and now it seems like she wants to control everything. We literally get in an argument every night about stupid stuff which just escalates. Such as, I wanted to get my best friend a Ps3 for christmas, I have worked hard and saved up my money while going to full time college (I'm 16.) And she's saying that this is senseless and if I'm going to spend money ridiculously then i should just quit. What do I do? She never used to be like this.

2007-11-08 18:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by jeanlenoir 2

My mom and her siblings have been at war for a while now. It's a big long story that I'm not going to get into. My mom keeps my sister and I out of it, but still keeps us informed on what is going on. We still have alot of contact with our extended family. My mom sent me an email today, that my uncle sent to my grandfather about me. He was basically spreading lies about me, to my grandparents, about how I'm supposedly in an unhealthy relationship, and I'm a drug addict and a whore. My mother told me to not mention my knowledge of this email to any of my extended family. With the holidays coming up, how do I cope with a crazy family? I can't walk in all cheery, knowing that my uncle has poisoned my, and my boyfriend's name. Please help.

2007-11-08 17:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

elderly lady age 75 living alone my mother in law gets up in the morning and has a yackult drink for breakfast, for dinner has half a sandwich and half for tea, she is capable of cooking but wont cooker never been used. eldest daughter does her shopping and pays her bills, mother never goes out sits at a table all day, will not get bathed, or any other personal hygeine i today going down to get her in bath because my husband wont bath her which is understandable. i feel she is really under weight any suggestions what to do.

2007-11-08 17:10:02 · 6 answers · asked by Lynn C 4

I am in my late twenties (28) and I love living at home with my parents and other adult siblings. My parents encourage us to stay at home and save money as long as we want to and have enough left over for fun stuff like nice cars and vacations etc. They tell us that as long as everyone gets along and respects each other, there is no need to move out. Living so close to where I work and go to school is also another reason to stay at home. My parents wouldn't dream of charging us rent or any other fees for living in our own house. You wouldn't believe the abuse that my parents and my siblings and I endure almost on a daily basis because people are clearly jealous of our living arrangements. Why else would people make snide remarks? Even girls I encounter claim that my living at home is a social impediment, not to mention a turn off to girls! I am responsible with my finances and I have a good relationship with my family and that is a turn off? What is this world coming to?

2007-11-08 16:55:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do about family members who want to be messy and like to talk trash about you

2007-11-08 16:38:01 · 11 answers · asked by Princess of Tyler 3

how to deal with the fact that you are ugly? How do i deal with fact that Im ugly..

2007-11-08 16:20:50 · 12 answers · asked by bluemoon 1

I never imagined my father cheating. And he's home every night and all weekend, all the time (I've been staying with my parents while in town on business for almost a month). But I've noticed he's making phone calls every night around 10p after my mother is in bed. He speaks gently and softly, but I've heard the words "ok sweetie" "we'll talk tomorrow" "I love you" and little laughs. I'm freaking out and can't sleep. Do I confront him? Tell my mother? (This would kill her.) What? I tried to check his cellphone when he was asleep but it's locked at night and I can't turn it on. Please help. I'm 38. My parents are 66. Thanks to anyone with help.

2007-11-08 16:10:13 · 46 answers · asked by NYGuy 1