how to deal with the fact that you are ugly? How do i deal with fact that Im ugly..
2007-11-08 16:20:50 · 12 answers · asked by bluemoon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
People who believe they are ugly tend to see everyone else as being better looking than themselves.
The strange thing is, other people who believe they are ugly look at YOU as being better looking than THEM!
Young people are judgmental - until you graduate from high school you will feel "ugly". Once you get out into the "REAL WORLD" you will realize that there is no such thing as ugly. Everyone is different and everyone is beautiful.
In the meantime, you should seek out therapy to get help in dealing with your feelings. You can also get some surgery in the future if you want it.
Believe me, you aren't ugly. There's been only one person in this world who I thought was ugly - and she is a woman who had like 1,000000 plastic surgeries. She didn't look human - and that's why I thought she was ugly. Other than that, I see the beauty in everyone.
2007-11-08 16:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dina K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you look in the mirror tell yourself you're the most attractive person you know. Repeat this as many times as possible throughout the day and do it every day. Eventually you will know you're attractive.
Who are you comparing yourself to? Why is that person so much better than you? You are a unique individual and you have much to offer this world. Not everyone can look like a supermodel. But that doesn't mean that anyone who doesn't is ugly.
Sit down and write out a list of 100 things that are positive about you. For example, you help others, you forgive poeple who hurt you, you . . . This is your list, you fill in the blanks. At first this might feel uncomfortable but keep pushing yourself to write. Don't stop until you have 100. Just for fun you may want to find more.
There is no way you can feel ugly when you have so many unique gifts. Treat yourself well. Ugly is in the eye of the beholder. And I'm guessing yours is the only set of eyes that see you as ugly.
2007-11-08 16:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... beauty is only skin deep... it fades with age, and quickly at that. Just look around if you don't believe me. All the pretty popular girls in high school will get fat and blobby and wrinkly. How many of them were ever worthwhile human beings? The world is full of good-looking idiots!
What really matters is what is on the inside. If you are a good person, and you love & care about people, and you have good morals and wisdom... that matters. Find something you are good at, excel and it and be proud of it. Everyone has a talent. Everyone has a value. Some of the most brilliant people in history were not exactly good looking.
2007-11-08 17:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define Ugly ? Do you look like the Elephant Man or Woman ? That woman who wants to look like a cat (cannot for the life of me remember her name) Now if your better looking than them your not ugly your average,not that i think they are ugly but some people do.It sucks when you see all these new models,singers they have the lot (Looks,Figure,Voice You Name It They Got It) But hey shite happens we average people out number the lookers 1000.00 to 1 .Cheers.
2016-05-28 21:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by lessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it is hard to think that you're beautiful or handsome, because you get to see your face everytime you look into a mirror, just take it positively, think that God have not given you the face that will attract people, yet he has given you something more worth it. like, very nice attitude, being smart, being funny, attributes that cannot be change, and yours forever, unlike having a pleasing face..
i hope it helped!
2007-11-08 17:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me guys like and still go out with "ugly girls" I have seen it with my own eyes and who cares how you look just boost up your self esteem and say f*** the world!!
2007-11-08 16:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Bleedingheartz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i myself was a ugly piece of crap just maybe 2 years ago, all i did was be funny. now im (as im told by ppl) haaawt! and if ur not a funny person, do what you do best. and this applies to ppl who think just cause they're smart, they aint gon be good lookin, smart ppl can be hot to... i myself prefer smart girls.
2007-11-08 16:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ganesh T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you're ugly?
2007-11-08 16:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by db 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk. how bad? can u get a killer body? mabey just nice skin on ur face? white teeth really helps. be confident, and realize if they dont like u right away but then like u, its for u, not for sex. unless its a booty call randomly , sorry
2007-11-08 16:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by llllllllllllllllll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u b urself. some people wood like u some wont.
2007-11-08 16:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋