Family - May 2007

2007-05-23 08:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by Russ 3

what can you do when you have a relative staying with you,that wont help clean unless you ask?the house we live in is my aunts and uncles not ours.im trying to keep it clean on my own but i work and come home and have to clean.he shows no signs of moving out.need help

2007-05-23 08:36:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mothers wants to read my year book it contains my life I think this shud be someone's personal ,private stuff.Now she complains that if hs doesn't see it I dont go to prom.What shud I do??
Oh and also it contains perverted stuff.SAl the wrongz I did at high skool we joked about it there.She is strict.

I told I don't know where it is but i mean prom is coming up how long can I keep telling this lie? Please help me....

2007-05-23 07:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son kicked my sister's car after they had an argument,and she decided to go bilistic on him and start beating on him(she's bi-polar) I was two hrs. away and could'nt get to him before she clled the cops on him. When they were told that she hit him I was told they would investigate, but that I was to go nowhere near her. So what would all you do wait until the next family get together and kick her a** or what? The cops are'nt doing anything and she hit my son!!!????

2007-05-23 07:39:11 · 20 answers · asked by momof5 1

HELP!!


-Kati

2007-05-23 07:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well it started when I realized I was failing 4 classes and my mom had just gotten me a phone. I decided to raise them and not show my mom my grades but I was really low in classes , so I pretty much had to do a lot of work. One day my mom found out and got mad and dissapointed. Now school is over and I managed to pass 2 of the classes I was failing and still failed two. My mom is stil giving me a hard time and everytime we fight she manages to tell me that it's because I don't appreciate her and that I aappreciate my friends more. That hurts me, but eventhough I've tried to talk to her, she won't understand me and I get mad at times because I know I did a bad thing, but I tried my best in fixing it, and I manages to fix some of it, but she still won't let me do anything, I think she's being harsh, isnt she??WHAT CAN I DO SO WE CAN UNDERSTAND EACHOTHER AND QUIT FIGHTING???

2007-05-23 06:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by Meli 1

I am currently a 21 year old college student, I am considering moving in with my boyfriend but my grandmother doesn't approve and will not go for it. This basically means I won't have to pay for the apartment, but it could also affect my studies since i have just decided to become a biology major which requires a lot of work. My grandmother wants me to get my own apartment, which i think is a good idea too..but she will be spending more money. She already pays for my school, car note & insurance, cell phone bill and credit card bill. If I move in with my boyfriend and she finds out I will be completely on my own. So should I just get my own apartment to make her happy??

2007-05-23 06:43:50 · 22 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4

My step-dad hates me. He tells me that my feelings dont matter and other things. My mom keeps telling me she cant stand it and she is going to leave him. I dont understand why she is even with him when he TRIED to kill her!!!and he brought drugs into my house and everything. He even tried to beat me and other things. My left him last year but got back with him cause her bf took to to Harrisburg and left me there until 3 in the morning I didnt know where to go.I feel like I did something wrong. and my mother is sending me to conseling because of him! I didnt even do anything! HELP ME! I need help....

2007-05-23 06:30:17 · 7 answers · asked by Jazmynnn :] 2

I have a half-brother somewhere is this world but i dont know who he is. He's by my father, and my dad doesn't "know" the womans name he had my half-bro with. He has no information about my bro and that means neither do I. I dont even know if he is alive but i want to know. I believe it's impossible to find him now. What do ya'll think is there still hope? Actually all i know is that he's my half-bro and he is around the age of 18 or 19.

2007-05-23 06:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by blabber_mouth626 3

I have had my son from birth 11 years ago, My son father is really good and I do trust him with his father but not to live.

I know that he will do a good job with him no doubt but the thought of him leaving I can't bear I do have 3 more kids out side of him, but he is my 2nd oldest. His father thinks that he is old enough to be brought up by a man in some way I believe him and I know he is right but I can bring myself to say yes.

I mean he don't have a job he do things on the side (if you know what I mean) but I don't want my son brought up around that it would be different if he had a job but he don't and he alway told us he would come over and get him on weekends but he don't and all I did was make up things for him but now he's mad and he told me to never talk to him he would just cont. to send money threw child support and not give me extra money but it all good because I work 2 jobs anyways. so what do you think?

2007-05-23 06:11:20 · 17 answers · asked by msgris2000 2

I overheard my hubby talking about me real bad with his brother.His brother said alot of things he had no business...alot of mean things like I'm stupid and crazy and he should leave me..Im so upset and hurt that brother in law was talking about me like this and hubby was encouraging it.what should I do?

2007-05-23 06:06:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, my baby's mama 11yr old, is having a hard time listening to what we tell her. How do i go about disciplinig her. Her mother has already gave me permission to spank her, but I'm having a hard time doing it.

2007-05-23 05:29:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, im 18 i have a daughter name kaydence and her father michael, michael and i are split up, i have a new boyfriend and he has a new girlfriend-which also has a kid.

My boyfriend ryan does eveything for me and kaydence she is starting to talk and shes calling him da-da. Michael which i know he loves her bit he dosent do anything for her, he is controlling and emotionally abusive. His girlfriend brittanie bought kaydence's diapers and wipes when it is michaels job to do it, he only wants kaydence when something is going on like a party or somthing, he never wants her, just to have her while she see's ryan eveyday and loves him while he loves her.
Ryan likes the fact of kaydence calling her dad.

Should I let Michael have her on Fathers day or Ryan? plz help.

Oh yeah, Michael refuses to pay child support

I Know they both love her


Who should i choose??? help!

2007-05-23 05:24:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to be a sophmore this coming year and yes I have a job. I have had this job for almost bout a year. Having siblings of four, I am the baby in the family. My older sis moved out, my bro stil lives at home but pays rent, and my other sister who is a year older then me stil lives at home but with no job like the rest of us. All of a sudden my mother has deicided to start charging me rent. Is that right of her to do that?? When is the right age for when parents SHOULD start charging you rent?

2007-05-23 05:09:46 · 19 answers · asked by becca 2

i am stuck in the middle!!!!! i have 2 older siblings and 2 younger ones!! for me, it has not been the best. i was blamed many times for what my siblings did, even my older brothers LOL. but it hasnt been all that bad. i am one of those persons who always lives in the middle( not kidding here)!! i am ALWAYS in the middle, i have noticed LOL.

2007-05-23 05:05:55 · 44 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4

I live with my parents, but don't talk to them much about what's going on in my mind, life.

I work full-time as an Accountant and am out of the house from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m.

However, in the evenings I get bored and lonely sometimes. I just eat dinner, help in the kitchen some and then am on the computer or read.

I am planning to move on soon and am only living at home temporarily.

I do attend a Divorce Support Recovery Group one evening per week.

What else can I do to prevent the loneliness and boredom?

I know that I should be more open with my parents, but they offer their opinion and I don't always want that.

I am dealing with guilt because my child is not living with me and nasty, threatening voicemails from my ex-husband which I try to ignore.

My parents put pressure on me to vacation, spend money and go out and meet someone. I will do this, but in my own time.

My brother is of no help because he tells me that I am bipolar which I am not.

2007-05-23 04:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My significant other's daughter has an abusive mother, his daughter who's nine actually went to the school nurse and counselor Monday to report some bruising and two different violent situations. The school called him and they both called Children's Services. They're in the middle of a custody battle, but a court date has not been set yet. What are the chances Children's Services won't do a lot, if they notify the mother, this will give her a chance to clean up and do things right etc...but we both firmly believe this will make the mother mad and will escalate causing more damange to her daughter.

2007-05-23 03:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5

how does it feel to lose someone u love?....especially in the family?
....whats the point of having a family anyway? pls help me answer these questions...im doing an essay!! pls pls pls.

2007-05-23 03:36:30 · 14 answers · asked by blah blah 1

I have 7 brothers and sisters, and my mom lives with me.. I am finding it very hard everyday to see how my mom is slowly losing herself....She is 79 yrs.old,she's been through alot in her life,she has a big scar on her back from when she was working in the rice fields in Japan (16yrs.old),when the USA bombed Japan..she married my dad and came to the states,raised 8 children,dealt with my dad's drinking,hasn't been back to Japan since she left,almost 50 yrs. later...My siblings live about 30 or 40 miles from us,and no one calls or comes by to see her,almost like they forgot about her,(to busy with their own lives)of course atleast 5 out of 7 of them would call on mothers day,and certian holidays..Dementia is where she's at right now...I'm heartbroken watching her everyday,it doesn't get any better,I am 43yrs.old,i have custody of my 4yr.old granddaughter,so if I want to go anywhere ever, i have to get a sitter for both of them...The funny thing is ..my mom never liked me growing up.....

2007-05-23 03:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by tamichon 1

Can i get some advice please folks?

My sister-in-law, just emailed me to tell me about her little nephew's illness. He is literally a baby - 8 months old - and has been receiving treatment for leukaemia.

For the past three weeks, Dylan has gone into the hospital for 24 hour chemo treatments and then home for a few days and to go back to the children's hospital for more chemo. Though he was in great spirits and almost back to his old self, something has happened......

The chemo is tearing the lining in his little body causing pain and bleeding. The doctors have put him on morphine and now he has the 'runs' and is very very uncomfortable. He may not make it.

I wish I could give my brother, my sister-in-law, and her family a huge hug but they are in the States and I'm in the UK.

How can I help her to cope?

2007-05-23 02:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by Wildamberhoney 6

2007-05-23 01:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by sn_rivera 1

My step son was incarcerated while living with gramma. Hes was in there for quite some time and upon his release, he was ordered to live with his dad and I and wasnt allowed to go back with gramma. They released him with an ankle monitor. Well since hes been here, he has snuck different girls in my home in the middle of the night, has sex with them in the same room with my 10 y/o in there(they shared a room), has gotten in several problems in school, and continued hi little gang crap even though those were conditions of his probation. His P.O was giving him TOO much slack. Anyway yesterday, he got into some trouble in school for being involoved in some sort of gang activity. When the administrator called to let us know, I referred him to my step sons PO b/c I am so fed up with his problems.When my step son heard this, he ran a way from school and cut off his monitor and now we cant find him. Was I wrong?

2007-05-23 01:47:24 · 13 answers · asked by Blue 4

i'm a lil curious cos i was having a convo with my friend about it and was wondering if they are full blood like your brother and sister?

2007-05-23 01:27:59 · 22 answers · asked by laughing_stock 1

she's verbally and mentally abusive; on the other hand, she's smothering and overprotective! But I'm 34. We've NEVER had a good relationship.

She recently told me that when I was in college, she wished I would've gone to school closer to home, so she could have been on campus with me EVERY DAY. Uh, why?! Maybe some kids want that but who NEEDS that? I told her that wasn't normal AT ALL. And my mother protested vehemently. Then my aunt agreed with me, and if I recall, my mom didn't respond much. Bu I'm sure inwardly she still disagreed.

Before you ask, yes, she was severely neglected and abused as a kid on into adulthood (mainly by her own mom). So I understand her REASONS. Her sense of reality is distorted. But how can we bring it back into focus?

I recently told her she needs help, but she refuses. However, being around her makes me a tad sick. I just try to stay away so she won't drive me crazy too. But that's wrong...Help!

2007-05-23 00:53:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean like it dosent hav to b like that but.........??

2007-05-23 00:29:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he got a nice size check and owes her for a car and hasn't been around and just got a new car

2007-05-22 23:41:40 · 7 answers · asked by mathesfamily13 1

i want a brother or sister(adopted) because i get really bored alot of the times and i have nothing to do but do video games(which has gotten boring over my entire lifetime!) and i dont know how to tell my parents because i dont know how they will react!?!

2007-05-22 22:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom gave an idea to prepare a weekly dinner list and present it to my wife ..
But Im not sure my wife will accept it or not
Shall I listen to my mom and press the button for WW3 ?
:)))

2007-05-22 22:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dear Sir and/or Maam

I'm writing this letter in regards to my sister. She was recently in a child custody case

& I do not believe that justice was served.. In the following

I will tell you 3 stories at which I believe will shock you and prove what I say is just.


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The first story is of her oldest child. A daughter. The daughter is 9 years old

and an honor roll student who this year recieved a merit "O" award for being on the honor

roll the whole year. My sister became pregnant with her at the young age of 14. The man

whom is her father was at the time 18. When she informed

him of the pregnancy he went to tell his father and the mother of his other children. From the

information we later recieved we learned from his brother that on his way back from Tulsa to

Okemah he took an entire bottle of Pills, he then drove over to our house spent about 15-30 minutes

speaking with my sister,then left and had a wreck 3 blocks from our home. The next morning his brother

showed up at our door and told us about it and was asking if we knew if he took anything. He told us

that he had overdosed and they had to pump his stomach. he and his father showed up at our door to ask what

the options were for the baby. My mother told them that abortion was out of the question because

we do not believe in them and that my sister was keeping the child.They then offered to pay her any

amount of money to abort the child After being turned down They left and we didn't see

him for 4 more years and that was only because my sister filed with the Dhs child support

and they requested a dna. The DNA came back 99.99 %. Still we did not see him again until

the day of her 5th birthday. He called and asked my sister if he could see her and my sister

let him. Over the next 4 years I would say that he has visited her 4-5 times a year.He sued

for custody once but was only granted visitation every other weekend at the daughter's decretion. If she said

He could not force her.
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My second story is of her 4 year old son. My sister married a man

in the year 2004. They had their son in the year 2003. During the year my sister was pregnant by this man

he was arrested on several misdameanor drug charges. They divorced 6 months later because this man could

not give up his beer. Since then this man has taken her to court at least 5 times. Each time he was

only allowed standard visitation.(My sister later remarried a man in the Navy and moved to Virginia

after she got the all clear sign from her attorney. This man couldn't afford to fly out for visitation.

So upon returning from Virginia my sister and her attorney agreed to let this man have her son

every other week for the whole week for the next 4 months to make up for the visitation he missed.)
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My last story is concerning my sisters youngest child a 1 year old daughter who

belongs to her current husband(soon-to-be-ex). My sister and this man married in

2005. My sister moved to Viringia with him since that was were the Navy stationed him.My sister later returned

to Oklahoma and remained married but, they are now filing for divorce. He is being sent to

sea for 4 years of sea duty.He is only fighting to sign rights over to his parents He himself will not be raising this child.

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Now here is the twist in my story. My sister and her first husband were scheduled to go to court

to redo their custody since the first man had made up his time missed seeing

that my sister was only in Virginia for about 5 months. Well we were then informed her current husband would be going

to court with her that day too before with her first husband and then her oldest daughters father would be following. When we

got there it was a closed court room. The only ones suppose to be aloud in there were the man suing

for custody, his attorney, my sister and her attorney and the judge. Well it was not that way.

the 3 men were allowed to combine their cases and fight her as one and testify for each

other. So in the court room were my sister, her attorney,all 3 men and their attorneys

and This Judge. They called in 2 witnesses both were supenade by her first husband. They were her sons

teacher and his school superintended . The superintended testified

that her son always looked cleaned, well dressed and well taken care of when my sister brought him to school.

His teacher contradicted that and said that he was dirty. Then all 3 men

were allowed to testify where they bashed her. The judge and/or my sisters attorney

caught them all in at least 1 lie and her first husband was caught in 3. He also refused to submit to a

drug test. They brought no papers, no statments ,no physical proof of neglect, abuse, or misconduct

on my sister. In fact once just a few months ago her first husband and his attorny went to court alone with dhs

to pull records and prove her unfit and dhs testified that all reports made on my sister we false

and they found her to be a fit mother capable of caring for her children and the judge they went infront of

(diffrent from the judge in the current custudy case) had it dismissed

So all this judge has to go on was the word of these 3 men who don't pay child support regularly. 3

men who ganged up on her.He never took in any of her witnesses or put her on the stand. He closed

court and ruled that all 3 fathers were granted temp-custody until they returned to court a month from now

On ground of what the boys testomy implied.They all accussed her of being bi=polar yet they had no

medical records to back this and none of them are doctors. This judge is taking a 9 year old girl from

the only home and parent she has known and letting a parent who sees her 4-5 times a year take her to

Arkansas. He is doing this without a transistanal councler. If the childs best interest were being

served wouldnt tramitc situations be avoided. He is taking a 4 year old boy and giving him to a known

drug user. He is giving a 1 year old little girl to a man with very immoral conduct and that will

have to sign custody over to his parents so that he can go out on his military order to sea for 4 years

so this man wont even be raising his own child.On top of that fact he hasn't seen her in about 4

months.Not only that he is seperating them from their siblings and family.From a mother who has cared for them

on her own, a mother that doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs and has no crimanal record.If he was concerned for the child

why wasnt someone who was in their life everyday appointed guardingship until court decided like my mother or I?

Does this sound like the best interest of the child is being met? Does this sound like justice

is being served? Does this sound like my sister's Civil rights were served? Im sure most people I'm

sending this to will agree it does not!

2007-05-22 20:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by just me 1

it's always some pity party and she knows how to push my buttons,,but I'm going broke.

2007-05-22 18:22:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous