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2007-05-23 01:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by sn_rivera 1 in Family & Relationships Family

do i get a lawyer, where do i get paperwork? do i have to go to court? Help!!

2007-05-23 02:02:20 · update #1

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I had this done when my child was 5 because I was getting married- and he was upset that he didn't have the same name as me -- for me- the father was not living around here-- and didn't visit him- and he did not have his last name.
1. go to the court -- clerk of court or something- and ask for a form for a name change.
2. you will need to send a certified copy of the name change to the biological father -- he will have a certain amount of time to say he doesn't want it changed.. otherwise, i believe it goes though.
3. go to court and tell why you want it changed.. like--- if you want him to feel like part of a family unit because you have a different last name or something-- you tell them that- etc.
easy to do-- costs less then 100 when I did it.

2007-05-23 13:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0 0

I don't know exactly how it works, but I believe you need a lawyer. I live in Florida and recently saw an interesting posting in the newspaper's classified section. It was a woman who had filed a petition to change her son's last name- he originally had his father's last name, and she wanted to change it to her last name. Apparently the father left her and had no contact with the boy since he was 6 mos old and he was now 3. It seemed that this posting in the paper was an official notice of the name change request...... sounding like they were trying to perhaps notify the father of the change since he didn't keep in touch with the mom. So..... it can possibly be complicated, so a lawyer might be best. Good luck.

2007-05-23 02:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0 0

the excellent element to do is to be truthful. this could be a time in his existence whilst he's going to start evaluating himself to different infants and word that particular issues are diverse. that's in basic terms that age. Todd Parr has some very alluring and uplifting books for infants on the techniques we are diverse and an identical, which incorporates one at different varieties of family individuals. in basic terms tell your son that he has a father (do no longer use 'daddy' right here), yet that his father gets very ill each each now and then and it makes him act undesirable, so he has to get extra effective in the past he can look after his son. And in certainty, you have no real to maintain them from assembly. Your ex could desire to definitely sue you for visitation or perhaps partial custody. Your superb protection is a sturdy offense. enable them to fulfill on an identical time as you're there to maintain on an eye fixed on issues. Your ex has respected your desire to maintain them aside so far, so why shouldn't he admire the obstacles you positioned from right here on in. Bipolar illness isn't a character illness and it does not unavoidably make somebody a bad parent. If he's prepared to get extra effective and shop on with surgeon's orders for medicine and scientific care, there is not any reason he won't be in a position of be an stunning father. If he does have this affliction, that's in all probability that the different problems you defined stem from that.

2016-12-11 18:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Depends on your state laws. Normally, both parents must consent. At a certain age, the child can request it. (I did this at age 14). You usually need extenuating circumstances to do this with out a father. You probably dont need a lawyer, but it would save you a lot of hassel. Go to your county courts online & research it--most counties have sites. You can go to yellowpages.com for attorneys. Good Luck!

2007-05-23 02:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Melicita 2 · 0 0

You will have to get the father's permission, fill out paperwork and go to court...

2007-05-23 02:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the father has to okay it in court

2007-05-23 02:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0 0

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