Family - May 2007

hello everyone, i have a difficult situation in my life, my parents are ill and i have to study, work to support myself and pay my college and everything, and i dont have much time for myself, which is very sad because i am 23 and i cant remember the last time i went out... i always have to do 10 things at the same time and i feel such a pressure.... ok the fact is that i do everything that i have to do at home, help my father ( since my mother cant do anything) and we fight a lot... i really love my parents and i would do anything for them but when we fight i usually get so frustrated ( because i feel like no one appreciates me enough) that i tell them some really nasty things, i really feel bad about it, i know my words hurt them and i always regret being so explosive, i should keep my f.....g mouth shut... i feel really bad about myself, am i just frustrated or am i a really bad person? i always regret those things that i say during our fights, it makes me sad, i dont know what to

2007-05-21 10:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He wants rides to friends, wants to heist my cell phone, wants laundry, and $ hand outs all the while he will only mow half our large lot now.

2007-05-21 09:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by kim 7

I moved in with my boyfriend of 4 months and I just found out I am pregnant we are very inlove we have no problems but his daughter (13years old) who live with him 4 days a week told him that she is not coming home until I live. She doesn't know that I am pregnant but she is the only child and we know she is not going to like it. She left and my boyfriend didn't heard from her in 2 weeks finally he called her at her mom and she said "When she leaves our house I am coming home, dad" I feel so bad for my boyfriend what to do now?

2007-05-21 09:32:47 · 46 answers · asked by donatella_millian 1

2007-05-21 09:24:53 · 33 answers · asked by david_bowie67 1

I hope that everybody will agree with me on this and not the rest of the family.

My 15 y/o daughter asked if her bf could go with us on out trip to Disneyland this summer. She stated that he would be able to cover his own cost for meals and tickets and that since we have 2 rooms at the Disneyland Hotel, it could be my wife, her, and our other daugther in 1 room and me, my son, and him in another room. She further reasons that she knows me well and that the 2 of them will never be out of sight (she is correct on this).
She is a good kid and so is he. It dont think it is a trust issue as much as it is a "being old fashioned" issue.
I thought the wife would back me on saying NO.
She didnt see anything wrong with it.
Brother and sister also said they thought it would be fun.

Does anybody else think this is a bad idea?

2007-05-21 09:12:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i said some mean stuff to and about my mom but i want to say sorry how should i do that i dont wanna be like sorry and walk away
and i dont know what else to say because im shy im not really a talker and who can make a long speech of how i wasw wrong


i was talking about how my mom doesnt do alot for me and my mom got sad and she thought she was a bad single parent and she got angry with me b/c i dont know i have a smart mouth

2007-05-21 09:03:29 · 25 answers · asked by Chelly 1

So my fiance and I are have been together for 2 years and we have set a wedding date 2008. I love his family for the most part, His dad and mom are wonderful to me. But his brother who has been dating the "devil" since high school just got engaged, and they plan on getting married before us! She is seriously the devil, she controls my fiance's brother and won't let him talk 2 me when she is around, She also ruined a family vacation last year by indirectly cussing me out through a bathroom door 4 no reason, ignores me when I am in the same room, wouldn't congradulate my finace and I on our engagement and treats the family like SH*T! but the family tries to just forgert things when they need to just put her in her place!I really cant stand her and we all wish he wouldn't marry her.She has been such a horrible person to me.I know she is just super jealous and envious, but that doesn't make it alright for her to treat me like this.After all of this I certainly dont want to attend the Wed!!

2007-05-21 08:51:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I left home I decided to go from Catholic to Lutheran for my own reasons. This has caused a major rift in my ultra-Catholic family. When my parents don’t bring it up, everyone gets along fine. But every so often they lay into me about how religiously wrong I am and how disappointed God is in me. They are impossible to reason with and it never ends well. A couple weeks ago it happened again and I got so angry with my mom that I hung up and we haven’t spoken since. In the past I would be the first one to call back and play peacemaker, but I’m tired of that because it’s the same cycle over and over. I am expecting my first child and I don’t want to shut them out, but I’m angry that they keep sabotaging our relationship for such a silly reason. So do I eat my pride and make nice, or do I wait for them to make the first move since they’re the unreasonable ones? It’s been 11 years and I’m tired of this.

2007-05-21 08:45:17 · 25 answers · asked by ♫ Sweet Honesty ♫ 5

I'm in university and I have a little sis in elementary school, my mom really misses me cause she sends 14 emails to me every day. Sometimes my mom starts freaking out for no reason and she takes it out on my little sis and she's only 8. My sis gets scared and she calls me and starts screaming on the phone. I tell my mom to just bug off and deal with the fact that I'm out of the house(and to quit freaking at my sister) but she doesn't listen to me.What do I do?

2007-05-21 08:24:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ya so, im captain of my soccer team this year. Anyway we were playin around and **** and my team was like lets go spray paint the crusaders field. I was all for it, we got some spray paint that was supposed to go away after it rains. So we go down there, its like 12 on Monday night last week, ok. So I snuck out of the house with the guys and we sprayed some cuss words and stuff on the field, we DIDN'T say who it was from. well aparently someone saw who was doing it and reported us. I got home went to bed. i got up at like 7 and got in the shower. like 5 freakin minutes later the old man opens my bathroom door. i was kind of like what the **** get out og my bathroom. well he comes over to my shower door opens it, he has his belt off. he grabbed me, WHILE I WAS NAKED. turned me around and hit me like 5 times with it. Then he was like, get back in the shower we'll discuss this later. I accusually cried. He has never done that. and norm. if he had threatened me or tried to spank me I would of laughed in his face. But ya'll dont know so I'll go ahead and tell you, that **** hurt like hell. On top of it, it was really embarrasing. I cant look at him in the eye. Its been like 2 weeks. I dont know what to do, i mean i know he wasnt abusing me, but its just, it hurt. idk what do/should i do?

2007-05-21 08:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its almost my senior year and i would like to find him.
Please Help

2007-05-21 08:10:30 · 5 answers · asked by newyorkbabe24 1

2007-05-21 07:32:56 · 6 answers · asked by KELITAJONES 1

Im not working the mother is, she a good mother i cant lie but her priorities doesnt put her child first. What can i do if i think my child is being exposed to weed. The mothers family babysits for her they all smoke! it was said that they dont smoke around her yet her clothes would always wreak of cigarettes, today i went to pick her up and the niece was smoking weed in the room with her. im trying not to end up on the evening news. I keep my daughter 4 days out of 7 i hold on to all of my reciepts. but what can i do?

2007-05-21 07:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by Poppa 1

The reunion is in June and I already can feel I am getting tense over it..when I talk to my step mother who I generally get along with great..I can see there are going to be issues..she will tell me about the issues between so and so..cousin, uncle..whatever is doing this or that..its silly..HELP!!!!

2007-05-21 07:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by wartytoadjody39 3

I am in my 40s. My much younger sister is very carrying, tender, and supportive when we are face to face. When we are apart (we live in different states) she can be very mean, degrading, and doesn't want to maintain contact. Almost like two different people. Can this be a dual personality disorder?

2007-05-21 07:21:32 · 26 answers · asked by modern_man_100 1

NOT MY CHILD. But she lives with me, I take care of her and basically raise her. She's my niece, 7 years old.

Her mom (my sister) does not live with us but comes over often to see her daughter and take her out and buy/pay for school, etc... Her and her husband are divorce and have other people in their life now.

One morning I go downstairs and my sister tells me her daughter just said she hates her mom and she likes her step-mom better. So of course my sister gets very upset.

I want to know should I:

1. Talk to her and tell her what she said was mean and wrong and disrespectful. & no punishment.

2. Talk to her, punish her with no TV for a week.

3. Say a little something about it and let it go.

Ignoring it is not an option. I understand her mom is obviously not there for her and my neice probably feels a bit of resentment against that, but her mother does visit, call and take care of her financially. whether or not a good or bad mother, she is nonetheless her mother

2007-05-21 07:01:18 · 31 answers · asked by Blah 2

Me and this guy were very close! I almost thought we'd end up together. But then I changed. I still want to be friends with him, but I know that there isn't much of a chance for that. I just need to know how to make things less awkward with him. Cuz being at the same school we always see each other, and our lockers are right next to each other. I know I hurt him, but is there a chance for us to ever be friends again? And what can I do to help it along?

2007-05-21 06:56:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father is a racist and he doesnt aprove of our relationship for obvious reasons. Anyway, I agree with her, I dont really want the baby around that but my mom and grandparents really want to see the baby. How should I handle this situation?

Oh, I should probably add that, my mom is paralized and my dad wont bring her to our house.

2007-05-21 06:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine who has two little kids, Is in jail....he fought and went to trial, they charged him with "attempt lewd and lasivious molestation". He says he is innocent, People that know him back him, But noadays you never know...He will be in jail for a few yrs. When he gets realesed will he be allowed to be around his kids?

2007-05-21 06:36:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is a weird question but my husband and I are killing ourselves trying to figure out what Charlie Browns teachers name was!! Did she even have a name??

2007-05-21 06:28:08 · 4 answers · asked by :::eZ:::BrEeZy::: 1

My daughter (from first marriage) just got married and my brother-in-law (brides step uncle) stopped payment on the check he gave her for her wedding gift! All this because my said current husband was pissed he didn't get to walk her down the aisle (neither did her father)! My daughter's other step-uncle didn't even send a congrats card! I am currently taking care of their elderly father who is also living with us as well as took care of their mother when she was on her deathbed. Is this anyway to treat a bride or are they just as immature and I imagine? I already told the husband that no more of his "family" gatherings would be happening at our house. I'm not overreacting am I?

2007-05-21 05:05:26 · 6 answers · asked by TMU2362 2

Of course I said no!! We always had a good relationship with each other. He's been in our lives for over thirteen years.. My family member hasn't been with him in over seven years. But when they were together he use to say little things to me but I took it as teasing. I didn't think about it until a month ago when he ask me how do I feel about him? I told him he was family, and he then went on to say that he has feelings for me and wants to hook up. When I said no he said he hopes things don't change between us, and that I should keep this to myself. To this day he stills tries to hook back up with the family member he has a child with. She doesn't want anything to do with him they do get along for the childs sake. So my question is do I tell my family member?

2007-05-21 04:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by Boopalot 3

Regarding the story below in my details.....should I tell the girl I am tired of fighting with her and that we should both act like adults for the kids sake and that her & my fiance can deal with this? Or not even do that?

2007-05-21 04:54:18 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

I Have Tried ANCESTRY.COM WELCOME To Family And All Is The Same Trying To locate My Great Great Grandma Help Please She Is Dead And So Is My GRANDMA AND MOTHER UNCLES HELP PLEASE

2007-05-21 04:36:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-21 03:46:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will be extremely grateful for all suggestions for gifts suggestion for my mother - I want a get well gift as she is in Hospital having a hip replacement and a birthday gift as it is her birthday on Monday.

Thanks I can't buy her -
1) Flowers - she has said no she doesn't want any in the hospital, as there isn't much room by her bed as it is.
2) Book - No go - she is currently working her way through my Jodi Picoult collection and says she really doesn't need anymore
3) Clothing - spent all day Sat and Sun looking and couldn't find anything I thought she'd like.
4) DVD's - again she just watches mine.

As you can see I am now a little stuck - please help!
Thanks in advance.

2007-05-21 03:33:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22, almost 23 and my biological father NEVER once paid child support, nor supported me, nor helped me in anything like college or medical bills. He only came to see me a few times when I was a toddler. My mother never ordered child support from him.

AT THIS POINT IN MY LIFE CAN I SUE HIM FOR THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT HE NEVER GAVE ME MY ENTIRE LIFE?

IF SO, PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I WOULD HAVE TO DO IN ORDER TO CARRY IT OUT SUCCESSFULLY?

2007-05-21 03:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-05-21 02:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-21 01:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous