how should i apoligize?

Question

i said some mean stuff to and about my mom but i want to say sorry how should i do that i dont wanna be like sorry and walk away
and i dont know what else to say because im shy im not really a talker and who can make a long speech of how i wasw wrong


i was talking about how my mom doesnt do alot for me and my mom got sad and she thought she was a bad single parent and she got angry with me b/c i dont know i have a smart mouth

Answer 1

Since you are shy and not a talker, you should write a letter, buy a flower, and give it to your mom. You can sit next to her until she finished read the letter.

Your mom will say something and if she did, just show some remorse and hug her. It takes time to build your confident to apologize to others.

You do not have to make a long speech; you just have to show how truly you are sorry for what you said and that you promise not to say it again.

You can take my advice but in your heart, you should find a way to say sorry to your mom. All I know is that she is waiting to hear it from you. She still loves you no matter what.

Answer 2

You should start by saying you are sorry. Then show her if you can't find the words, with your actions. Let her know that you understand that because she is a single parent, there is/was alot that you had to do without, but that you always knew she loved you.
Being a single parent is tough. Even more when you don't have anyone to lean on at times. Try to understand her point of view. It's hard at first, but once you do, you'll understand all the sacrifices that she made to love and care for you the best that she could. That's real love.
Baby girl, just tell her everyday that your sorry for what you said. That you understand everything she's going through. And love her just as much as she loves you.

Answer 3

*Well I think you need to ask her if she has a minute to sit with you so you can explain yourself and your behavior.*

.Then when you two sit down together say something like:

"Mom, I know I said some rude and hurtful things to you the other day...and I didn't mean what I said, and I never meant to hurt you. It's just I've been really upset because ______ and I guess it all just came out the other day, and I took it out on you. I know I was in the wrong. And I just wanted to let you know that despite what I said to you, I do not think you're a bad parent, and I do have a lot of respect for you, for raising me and doing your best to make sure I have everything I need in order to be happy and healthy and to have a good life. And again I am sorry for lashing out on you, you have done so much for me, and if it wasn't for you I would not be here right now. I had no right to treat you that way at all, and I am very very sorry for the way I acted, and I hope you can forgive me for it, and we can move past this."

.....I think that about sums it all up, don't you?

.....good luck and keep me posted.

Answer 4

we all make mistakes, you and your Mom included.

The best thing is to talk to her soon, and directly and just be upfront. Say you're sorry about what you said and that you were just frustrated with a situation and you didn't really mean it.

Tell her you know it's tough being a single parent (it is!) and that you know she's not perfect (she's not) and that in the future if somethings she's done (or not done) is bothering you, you'll talk to her directly about it, rather than behind her back or by making insults.

It may be tough to be that direct, especially if you're shy, but trust me, it will make the situation better, and make your Mom respect you more. Plus the more you do things like this, the better your communication skills will get, and that will help with the shyness.

Answer 5

well i understand completely what u mean. I mean come on everyone has their momens where u say "oh i hate my mom/dad" and its like ur parent gets so mad and filled w/ anger that u kinda can't get the right chance 2 squeeze in the words that im sorry. but with my mom im the EXACT SAME WAY!! and i just told her im gonna love u no matter what and some of the stupid stuff i say is only said out of anger and i really dont mean it and then say im so sorry and i reaaly wanna gain ur respect back and then see how it goes from there.

Answer 6

Just simply go up to her and give her a hug and kiss and say you love her and apologize. You might not know it, but when it comes to mothers, its the little things that count.
Just comfort her and tell her she is doing a good job.
Being a single mom is very hard work. If you have a roof over your head, clothes to wear, food to eat, and a bed to sleep in, I think shes doing a very good job.
Next time you feel like you have to blow up in front of your mom, take a step back and think before you talk.

Answer 7

say, "mom, I'm sorry for what I said the other day; I think you're a really good mom; I just get frustrated with some of the stuff going on in my life and I wrongly take it out on other people. I did not mean what I said, and I will be more considerate in the future." that should do it.

Answer 8

No offense you wouldn't of talked bad about your own mother if you were shy. Your mother deserves the biggest apology ever! Do you know how hard it is to be a single mother? No you don't.. Don't you dare talk bad the person that brought into this world. You better buy her flowers and write her a a big letter.

Answer 9

Maybe you should try writing her a letter or a poem, because I know how hard it is to be a single mom sometimes you never feel like you have enough to do for your kids! Let her know that you were out of line and how much you appericate all that she has done for you and tell her much you love her and if it weren't for her you wouldn't be were you are today!

Answer 10

I talk bad about my mom all the time. I feel bad afterwords too. I don't know what your relationship is like with your mom, but I don't even let my mom hug me... And she tells everybody. I would sit down and have a really constructive talk with her. Let her know you're only trying to help her be a better person. And tell her if she thinks you need any "fixings", just to tell you. it might help your relationship. And maybe you can talk more smack about your mom, and maybe she won't feel so bad