Family - May 2007

how do i tell my parents i spent £30000 that i received from an accident.im married with 2 kids & dread having to go to visit my folks in sept as dad helping us build our house & he wants me to take this money (that he thinks i still have)out of the bank to finish house.will they disown me

2007-05-21 01:40:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother abused me on a daily basis for as long as i can remember. it was mostly physical and verbal abuse but she also abused me emotionally. i had to listen to her tell me how much she hated me and that no one wanted me. she told me in graphic detail when i was just 8 yrs old how her dad sexually abused her. she has also took numerous overdoses in front of me. and when i was raped at just 14 she told me that i asked for it and got what i deserved and when i told her i wanted to kill myself she aksed if i wanted her help. im now seeking therapy. is it possible to report her to the police?

2007-05-21 01:30:13 · 15 answers · asked by anon 1

2007-05-21 01:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by kutan 1

My bro is now 10 and he is acting alot like me or someone my age and im worried he is influenced too much because we are close:

He talks alot about sex and thigns relating to sex.
He uses adult words and slang
He has tried alcohol
He has had sex (as far as he says)
He fights and loves fighting
He works out using my wieghts.

Should i be concerned for him or is he just mature for his age

2007-05-21 01:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by Chris C 1

I have been married for 10 years this year. We just bought a house, so money is kinda tight right now. Today is my birthday, & my husband informed me he didn't even buy me a card!! But, I found out that he took $70. out of our account on Friday. When I asked him about it, he said he went to the club & spent it. He also confessed that he had won $45. on Friday, but spent that also!!! The sad thing is he does this just about every year!! I ALWAYS make sure he has a nice birthday, why should I get ripped off?? Is this childish, or do I have a right to be mad??

2007-05-21 00:58:50 · 26 answers · asked by tracy1051 1

Do eat out the whole day and visit museums/malls or do you all just hang out at home and spend hardly any money. I want to know what is excessive and what is acceptable.

2007-05-21 00:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in school and i have to catch a bus and walk 10 miles to get to the bus stop. They wont take me 10 mins up the road because they are too lazy to get up. I make mine and my little brothers breakfast. I help him get ready.

I get home finally at 4 and then i go to work for 2 hours. I get home at 6 and start cooking tea for my mum while my dad is at work and my mum sits on the computer talking to friends.

Then i eat and clean up. I then get my brother a bath and finally at 730 i get to start doing my homework. I do that until 9 and get my brother to bed and then i finally sleep. Im usually exhuastednd its worse when i have to go to training and also take my brother as well.

I have a best friend and my parents dont want him to come over because they feel its too late to have him around. And on weekends my dad is grumpy. li I cant stop working because they say im lazy if i dont..yet my mum does nothing. She just spends all the money.

I have to pay board and i babysit all the time

2007-05-21 00:50:41 · 24 answers · asked by Chris C 1

Spare a thought for little Maddy.

Send a heart ( <3 ) and bring her back.

2007-05-21 00:37:44 · 31 answers · asked by Colin H 3

He buys his 10 year old son everything he wants without suporting our household. He hasn't worked in 6 months despite graduation from college at 39 last December 2005. He turned down 5 jobs in the last month and now he won't work because his prized child is coming to NJ from Arizona after not visiting sonce March. I hate the kid!

2007-05-21 00:09:22 · 15 answers · asked by itsjust me123 2

My mom used to be married to a guy (we'll call him larry). They had a son then divorced. My mom married another guy and had me. So her previous son is my half brother. His dad (larry) married someone else and had two children.

So am I related to either my half brothers real dad or my half brothers real dads kids?

2007-05-20 20:53:10 · 9 answers · asked by GZ 1

My husband's mother is always trying to tell me how to raise my children. I think it's because she was not in my husband's life when he was a child, so she tries to make up for it by telling us how to raise our children. He get's really mad when she does it and we have not anwered the pone for her in 2 weeks. But how do we tell her that we can raise our children without her help in a nice way? Seeing as how she wasn't a good mother to my husband.

2007-05-20 20:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 19:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by kelsi c 1

with a 19yr old male to the point of allowing the 19yr old male to move in with the family.

2007-05-20 18:35:58 · 15 answers · asked by Gary W 1

if you dont hate your mother nature..then why do you litter, drive cars, use hairspray, waste water, waste paper, not recycle, etc. why would you WANT to kill your own mother??

(also i dont mean to generalize..ofcourse im not talking to those of you who do love your mother and do not do harm to her..do not take offense if you are not the people im talking to)

2007-05-20 18:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do i convince my parents not to move??

i mean i LOVE the house i'm in and i LOVE my friends.
and i'm in LOVE with this guy and we're in a STRONG relationship that neither one of us is ready to break.

but how do i tell my parents that i dont want to move?? i've already argued with them and cried my eyes out... nothing works.

is there something i can say that MIGHT change their mind??

if you can...PLEASE help me!! :/

2007-05-20 16:19:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 13yr old went to spend the weekend at his friends house. This other boy usually comes to our house every weekend. But my son wanted to go over there house. Come to find out when I picked him up tonight he told me they went out to dinner last night at a fast food place. They never asked him what he wanted to eat so he got nothing as he had no money on him. They just let him sit there while they all ate. I am so mad. We take there child out with us every weekend and I would never expect him to buy his own food. I figure if you choose to take the family out and this boy is over that we should pay. I need advise as to what to do. I am very upset.

2007-05-20 15:47:25 · 11 answers · asked by Shirley D 4

A co-worker of mine says that she lives for her daughter. Her daughter is 12 and her only child.

Is it common for people to live for their children?

2007-05-20 15:40:49 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

i want to get a tattoo of my family crest ive looked my mom's surname up and my dads which one is the more accepted choice

2007-05-20 15:29:11 · 7 answers · asked by adam m 1

I think my parents might get divorced. They are constantly yelling at eachother, and today, my mom left with me to my grandmas house. This is what happened to day:I didn't want to pick up a dead mouse my cat killed. I'm squeamish. My dad yelled at me and called me a little girl. Dialog:
Dad:Why is my whole god damn family so god damn inept!?
(goes to pick up the mouse)
(comes back and throws the mouse in the trash)
Dad:Honey, why cant you just let me help him overcome his fear?
Mom:YOU CALLED HIM A GIRL! You should have said "Son let me help you." But, no, you have to call him a girl!!!
Dad:HE WAS ACTING LIKE ONE!
Mom:(Drops the pan on the floor that was filled with water.)
Mom:I'm leaving.
Dad:**** you. You aren't going anywhere in my car.
((my moms car is broken right now and can only drive short distances))
Dad:Where the hell are your keys?
Mom:I don't know. In my purse.
Dad:WHERE THE **** IS YOUR PURSE?
I had to leave much out. I don't have enough characters.
That wasn't the end.

2007-05-20 14:57:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my cousins are really cool to be around with...but they are always talking about me...they tell my best frien stuff about me...and every time i tell them something they go and they tell their mom..and their mom tell my mom...and our moms are sisters...and the whole story get all flipped around..and my mom always belives her...and nothing of what they say is true...and every time they tell me something i never tell anybody...and if i wanted to i could get them in so much trouble...but im not that kind of person...o yea we live lie 3 houses away from each other.....please help please...

2007-05-20 14:10:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

She lies and is very sneaky and mean to me!!!

2007-05-20 14:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by Taya77 1

Do the moms of all children have a website like "www.moms.com" or "www.find_out_what_your_ child_is_doing_now.com"? Whenever i get home from somewhere, my mom says I'm in trouble! I ask her how she found out and she says she has her sources. For every single grounding I get, thats her excuse for finding out the dirt!!!! Plz tell me the truth cause I'm just so curious!!!

2007-05-20 13:53:26 · 12 answers · asked by rebecca_noel 2

2007-05-20 13:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother-in-law wanted to feed my 5 month old daughter some ice cream and asked me if she could taste it. Her pediatrician told me that she may have a little lactose intolerence, so I was very hesitant. Then I looked over and saw that she was feeding her spoonfuls of ice cream. I told her that I didn't want her feeding it to her, and she said "Well, she likes it." Then she continued to give it to her. She wouldn't stop until my husband told her to. I've been irritated all day about it, and I feel like I can't stand her. Any advice?

2007-05-20 13:18:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i punched my little brother in the face, so he started crying and told on me. WUT A FREAKIN TATTLE TALE! so i got yelled at and can't get dessert for a whole day. my little brother is such a retard. wut should i do to get back at him?

2007-05-20 12:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Jerry H 1

my mom keeps giving me all these hard problems and my dad just sit's back really i dont want to live with either of them so please help me.

2007-05-20 12:55:01 · 17 answers · asked by Alyssa G 1

I'm in my 20s (under 25), and I still live at home (but pay for my room). I came home today after being out of town this weekend, and discovered that my 15-year-old brother knows about my porn DVD collection (mostly "movie" and "straight"), and I think he saw one (or more). I've wanted to move out for years, but don't wanna. I'm embarrased that he knows about the 18 DVDs. Should I just get a lock for my door?

I'm pissed because I knew that he would do that, and didn't want to leave for the weekend because my brother backed out of going with my parents and I (that wouldn't give me enough time to get a lock for the DVDs).

2007-05-20 12:01:44 · 14 answers · asked by Tony 6

My oldest son lied about me in court to help his Dad get custody of his younger brothers and not have his child support increased. After my ex won in court, he kicked my son out of the house.(This is my biological child, not his).Now I cannot see or talk to my babies.My oldest son wants forgiveness but I'm having a hard time.

2007-05-20 11:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by carleton 2

I dont know how to live in a family. i'm 6 years older than the kids...i think my mom and her husband group me in with the kids and dont REALIZE I'm not 11 years old!! i've gone from complete freedom to having none...it's really hard to cope in this situation especially because i have very different beliefs and i''m VERY independent. i need advise...what can I do to ease the stress and break free from them trying to control me....what role do i play in the house....how should i be treated???

2007-05-20 11:24:13 · 9 answers · asked by jme19914fun 3

I say,"Please be quiet," but she keeps saying,"Wait, I'm almost done,"she still isn't zipping her big mouth.

2007-05-20 11:16:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous