Ya so, im captain of my soccer team this year. Anyway we were playin around and **** and my team was like lets go spray paint the crusaders field. I was all for it, we got some spray paint that was supposed to go away after it rains. So we go down there, its like 12 on Monday night last week, ok. So I snuck out of the house with the guys and we sprayed some cuss words and stuff on the field, we DIDN'T say who it was from. well aparently someone saw who was doing it and reported us. I got home went to bed. i got up at like 7 and got in the shower. like 5 freakin minutes later the old man opens my bathroom door. i was kind of like what the **** get out og my bathroom. well he comes over to my shower door opens it, he has his belt off. he grabbed me, WHILE I WAS NAKED. turned me around and hit me like 5 times with it. Then he was like, get back in the shower we'll discuss this later. I accusually cried. He has never done that. and norm. if he had threatened me or tried to spank me I would of laughed in his face. But ya'll dont know so I'll go ahead and tell you, that **** hurt like hell. On top of it, it was really embarrasing. I cant look at him in the eye. Its been like 2 weeks. I dont know what to do, i mean i know he wasnt abusing me, but its just, it hurt. idk what do/should i do?
2007-05-21 08:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Apologize sincerely for your illegal acts of vandalism. He whalloped you in the old fashioned way because you really and truly crossed the line and angered him. You're a bit too old for a traditional spanking, and maybe he really felt that a stern lecture wasn't going to get through your teenaged brain.
But that sore butt surely did. Don't behave stupidly in the future, and I'm sure you'll never see such a thing again.
2007-05-21 08:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jarien 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, yeah it was abuse but if it really was a one time thing you'll gain your trust in him again. Be careful who you tell though. It he continues you have to report it if you want to be safe. Can you tell your mom? Or see if you can go see a grandparent over the summer or other relative? That could give you a much needed break. Sounds like your dad just lost his temper with you because of the stupid thing you did with your friends. I understand you're having a hard time with it but you'll need to dig deep and get over your embarrassment so you can go on with life. Get a break but be honest with your dad. At a good time sit down with him and talk to him about it. If he's a good dad he'll understand.
Good luck!
2007-05-21 08:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by fourzenuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think he should have gone in the shower after you, but you def. deserved to get your *** beat! What you did was dumb and I guess he just couldn't control his anger about his "little girl" going out and damaging someones property. You should day you're sorry and say you won't do it again. If he's anything like my mom he's positive he did what he thought was right even though it wasn't...so don't expect an apology from him. Bummer. Watch your *** next time, literally.
2007-05-21 08:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Donnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A wise father wouldn't have reacted this way. He should be calmer and more respectable when correcting you. From now on you'll be more cautious about what you wear and that's enough to prove to him that he was wrong and it was just an innocent mistake.
2016-05-19 00:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a Wimp over it and talk to your father about it. Talking did not work so its time with the belt.
If you tell someone in authority about it. You will probably be sent to a foster home and no Soccer leadership for you.
2007-05-21 08:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by sulla_thegod 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like a 5 year old!
2007-05-21 08:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a case of abuse and you should tell your Mom or another adult about this. You're Dad might do something else bad and by then you might already be too secluded.
2007-05-21 08:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by PersonalShopper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you just gotta know now that your dad means bussiness this is what he wanted i bet you'll think twice before doing it again.
just understand that he thaught it wasw all he couls do to teach you a lesson.
2007-05-21 08:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be f*cken mortified! i think his anger just got a little out of hand!
2007-05-21 08:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did NOT have a right to do that you need to tell someone NOW
2007-05-21 08:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by rockerchick 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋