My son kicked my sister's car after they had an argument,and she decided to go bilistic on him and start beating on him(she's bi-polar) I was two hrs. away and could'nt get to him before she clled the cops on him. When they were told that she hit him I was told they would investigate, but that I was to go nowhere near her. So what would all you do wait until the next family get together and kick her a** or what? The cops are'nt doing anything and she hit my son!!!????
2007-05-23 07:39:11 · 20 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If I were you I'd give him a smack too, what's he doing kicking her car. And what are you doing condoning it. Yeah she shouldn't have hit him, but he is 15 and should know better. This is something he started not the other way around. You can't baby him for ever or he will never learn right from wrong.
2007-05-23 07:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by chinamigarden 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First off, I know you dont want to hear this but, your son should stay away from her. Bipolar disease is no joke. My aunt has it and most of the time she can not control her outrages. It is his fault for arguing with her in the first place. I dont know what they were arguing about but he should know better that she has the disease and cannot control her fits. I would make sure that she is taking her medication and that your son understands the effects of bipolar disease on people and I would not let your children go around her unless you or someone you trust is around at the same time. I dont feel you should kick her ***...its your sister and you are well aware of the disease and its effects on your sister. Im sure she didnt mean to hit him...i am sorry you are having this problem but you should know how bad of a disease bipolar is.Also, I hope you are focusing on your son also! If my son kicked my sisters car hed be in a world of trouble...make sure he is getting punished for that! he is not bipolar and has no excuse!
2007-05-23 14:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by JesseNevaehsMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your son sounds like he has a temper issue, so I wouldn't go overboard making your sister out as the only one that has behaved badly. You probably have a temper as well since you're thinking about kicking her a**. What a family!!
I think you should just tell your sister that hitting your son is not an option and if you need to keep the two of them apart do it.
2007-05-23 14:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sean 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get your sister in trouble?
Sounds like your son is bi-polar also. Hes the one you should be questioning find out why he kicked her car in the first place Maybe she taught him a lesson.
2007-05-23 16:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she has a medical problem then ull probably give her a break, or just ignore her, make her realize that by doing that she lost u and ur son as her family and friends and that will hurt her later on. she needs to apologize but also...u should let ur son know that kicking sumones car is not a very good idea just bcoz he got into an argument. i fight with my family all the time and we just ignore each other untill we are over it.
2007-05-23 14:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your sister is bi-polar, she obviously has some issues. I wouldn't kick her ***, but I also wouldn't let her around the kids. Your son probably doesn't want to be around her, and its obvious that you don't either. I would just break the ties with her. If she's insane, let her be insane on her own watch.
2007-05-23 14:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your not bi-polar also? You seem to have violent tendencies. Maybe you should get that checked out. You should address the situation in a calm and mature manner, with some tact and dignity.
2007-05-23 17:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by BOATINCHICK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ya I would want to too, but she's your sister and you know she's bipolar, doesn't he know that??He's 15, he's old enough to know those things. I think you should try and fix the problem if they argue a lot. Don't do anything until the police say something. Otherwise in my opinion, it's his fault, but I'm not trying tto say that in a mean way. try and talk to him and her and get both sides too, and don't get mad.
2007-05-23 14:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Meli 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? If she is an adult, I would contact the prosecutor's office and insist that they do something. If she is bipolar, she obviously is a danger to herself and others (because she hit your son - a child).
I would also get your son into counseling right away and wouldn't condone his behavior. He should never resort to violence (nor should you) and he needs to respect other people's property - even if he's mad at them.
Think about setting a good example for your kids and figuring out what life lesson you want them to learn from this.
Good luck! :)
2007-05-23 14:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know your 15 year old son would just love having momma fight for him. Personally i think you should focus your attention on trying to teach him how to be a gentlemen, and let your sister deal with her own problem.
2007-05-23 14:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by hutmikttmuk 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋