My mom gave an idea to prepare a weekly dinner list and present it to my wife ..
But Im not sure my wife will accept it or not
Shall I listen to my mom and press the button for WW3 ?
:)))
2007-05-22 22:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hello
sometimes mom's are not always right.
but they want whats right for there baby.
your a grown man..explain nicely mom
i love u. explain your ideas.calmly..
your always my mom etc...now that your married she wants to show interest.
good... but it can go to far..just
Commnicate nicely.....If it were my mom
to break the ice try some flowers and start
talking...
it should work.
best
2007-05-22 22:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very respectable that you are considering your mom's advice though in this case, while she's just trying to protect you, your mom's strategy seems a little old fashion. Yet, I think it would be more helpful for you to be able to wear tampons without having to go behind your mother's back. Think about the specifics of why you want to use tampons instead of pads. Cleanliness and the ability to instantly be able to switch from chilling to being active without having to worry are a few of my personal reasons. Also remind her that your future husbands trust in your word, not the tangible evidence of a hymen should be the real determination of your virginity. Your mom may be upset at first, but be mature and persistent and she should get used the idea eventually. :) Good luck.
2016-04-01 03:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't if I was you, you have not really explained why your mom has done this. Doesn't your wife cook normal meals for you or something? either way, don't do it! Gently tell mom to butt out! It's your marriage, not your mothers! If you have any disputes over your wife's cooking then you should be the guy to stand up and tell your wife how to improve her meals, and buy her a cook book so she has an 'aid memoir!' lol. Have a good day.
2007-05-22 22:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, NO!
Why on earth would your Mom say something like this? Unless you are telling her things you don't like about dinner now?
You are married - Mom is done raising you - time to set the boundaries and live your life - with your WIFE!
Get some scissors and cut the apron strings! Doesn't mean Mom is out of your life, but you and your wife should be in charge of your relationship - NOT your Mom!
2007-05-22 22:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding right??? Does this kind of stuff fly where u live?
I sincerely hope that anyone does give me a menu for the week especially if the idea is his mothers.
Honestly you should discuss this with your wife, if you are having unsatisfactory meals . Of course how often do you prepare them for her? is this her main job or does she work outside the home too? I f she works outside the home you need to help out. If not , teach her to cook real meals (the stuff u like) but not because momma told you to, and don;t compare it to momma's cuz wives hate playing second fiddle to mom..Fortunately my mother in law cooks like crap
2007-05-23 00:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to mom and discuss with wife. Inform both that all will be helping out with the plans and all will be doing the best to help each other because the ultimate thing is that the dinner goes on well.
2007-05-22 22:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why - isn't your wife filling her responsibilities on her own? I mean some hubbies cook once in a while but are you saying your wife doesn't cook all week? What does she do take out the garbage, mow the lawn, maintenance the cars, and support the family?
I don't think your mom is the one with the problem if you've got role reversal going on in your marriage.
2007-05-22 22:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That depends are you expecting your wife to cook the meals or are you sharing the responsibilites. I'd say NO overall just because one, you mother is not your wife and two your wife might take that as an insult
2007-05-23 01:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by spjp p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she wants that she can present it to your wife and they can agree or disagree on it. If your wife says no, then back your wife up but still try compromise. Is your mom not able to cook her own meals?
2007-05-22 22:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never oick your mum over your partner, i know it sounds harsh but your mum will always be there but you have chosen your life with this person so you have to devote yourself to them. if you dont like your wifes food then talk to her and tell her things you do like and what you dont. She will respect you more then everyone is happy.
2007-05-22 22:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋