Family - April 2007

What do you do if you're gothic and your family won't accept that fact?My parents think im going through a phase.Okay,so what if it is a phase?Can't they just support me?Some of my siblings treat me differently because im gothic,and now my feelings for them aren't the same.I don't cut myself,but I get depressed easily,and my older sister and younger brother(17 and 13 respectively)call me Emo all the time and it drives me crazy.What do I do?Im tired of my family and people I know at school treating me weird.I don't even wear black lipstick,all I wear is black eyeliner and black nail polish on my nails and toenails!!And I can't even dress gothic because of my parents!Im 14,and I have to wait until im 18 to dress gothic.It's driving me crazy!Please help!!

2007-04-08 05:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by BakaNekoShojo 1

That my parents are STILL sleeping right now (it's NOON where I live) even though it's Easter...what am I supposed to do? I can't leave.

2007-04-08 05:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay I have 3 siblings all from 2 have the same father one doesn't and I have another different father,just cuz we don't all have the same dad but the same mom would we be halfway related,or a little more than halfway?my mother says we are all a little more than halfway related but I think she's just trying to make me fell better

2007-04-08 04:49:59 · 12 answers · asked by Bloo 2

2007-04-08 04:05:56 · 5 answers · asked by mamadumplin712 1

i know that some of you are going to say, "hey it's just about the kids" or you're just going to tell me to "grow up". Yeah, WHATEVER!! When they aren't your kids some bonus points from them are always nice though!! i am ALWAYS the one coming up with cool ideas and presents, fun things for them to do... and when they ASSUME it's his idea he takes all the credit. How should i handle this problem?

2007-04-08 02:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother has been married for almost 5 years to my sister in law. I am 20 years old and she is nearly 30 and she is very immature.
I can honestly say she is a horrible person. She came from a low-middle class background and she married my brother because of money, and for the past 5 years all she does is waste money and spend it on stupid things because she thinks shes a queen. She does not work and she is very materialistic. Besides that she looks "down" on me, she always trys to make snide comments about me and has ruined my relationship with my brother. She thinks she is "better" than me just because she 20 designer bags. She is very conceited and stuck up! Looking at her behaviour, i think i would never want to be like her. I am in University and i am studying for a law degree as i want to stand on my own two feet when i am older. My sister in law on the other hand, has no qualifications and she does not want me to succeed in life as she always wants to be better than me.

2007-04-08 01:05:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 this year, and l seriosly want to get out of my house because of my parents. They can be happy,but there's always that unsolving problem that my parents fight about. My mom get's drunk, and starts insulting his family. My father get's out of his mind and hits her, punches her, throws her,pushes her, and they're gonna start killing each other. Im tired of this, watching the two people i love killing themselves. This is a problem that can't be solved. She said she was going to stop insulting and my dad said then he would not hit her. But when there's alcohol, things change. And my mom loves alcohol, and she gets out of control. Its traumatizing watching parents kill. I want to get out of thehouse, i live in chile(south america) and i don't know where to go,what to do,but i know i want to leave. Please don't giveme advice of how my parents should change, b/c it's something they've tried long ago,but theproblem is always going to be unsolved,help me to what should i do when i leave

2007-04-07 22:23:36 · 20 answers · asked by Hanna s 1

2007-04-07 21:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is 8 and im 15, I guess I got so fed up with him hating me and disrespecting me... I hit him by accident when we where playing a game with his cousin, he over reacted as he fell down to the ground.I tried to help him up but he was screaming and kicking me, I got angry and so I kicked him. He went inside the house as he was murmuring, I threw a racket and hit his left leg but it was just partially, but he fell down again over reacting, I tried telling him that it was just an accident.But he is always like my cousin now- who is 10 and acts the same over a tantrum but I dont want my brother growing up becoming like me.As my brother kept on screaming and saying words I did not even hear from him, I became really angry and that I hit him on his head, I told him in anger "I am so angry i'm gonna kill you" he told me he doesnt care, again I tried telling him that it was an accident but he doesnt listen as he told me to shut up in a scream so loud.So I punched him a couple of times to his head and to his stomach, but those punches were out of control. I couldnt control myself, there was my stress with it I guess, and I seemed pleased by how hard I threw them at him, as hard as saying a simple sorry to him, I lost control of myself... I tell myself that these things that I cannot foresee, I will live by this a cursed memory in which will remind me of my cruel self that I tried to shift.

Or will try.



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2007-04-07 20:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by wyan rogero 1

I'm a high school freshman, and my cousin is a junior. The guy I like is a senior.
Just recently, my cousin moved closer to me and now goes to the same school as me. We've always hung out a lot, and we are really close, but I have always felt like she is better than me at everything....literally, everything. Now the real problem. She is dating the guy I like. Since I go over her house almost every day, I always see them kissing and holding hands. I know I might be a little young for him, but it still makes me want to cry whenever I see them together. I feel so inferior to her....she's good at everything and I'm good at nothing....and I guess this thing with my crush is just the last straw. I've taken a backseat to her for so long....What do I do??

2007-04-07 17:30:31 · 5 answers · asked by Dr Fernando 4

My brother thinks he knows everything about life at 22 years old what do u think of this?

My brother thinks he knows everything about life at 22 years old what do u think of this he is very arrogant because he thinks he know how peoples minds work and how to manipulate them he hasent got his high school diploma he smokes alot of marijuana, how do i get him to get his ego a bit in check and stop thinking he knows it all i am only 20 and even i know i dont no everything infact in the big picture of things i might not know nothing

2007-04-07 17:22:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time I come home from my friend's house like drive home. I throw my bag on the floor and i either see them cuddling in a movie or cudding in the candlelight or something else romantic ahh too lame to say them all. It's kind of weird one time I came in and they were having a candlelight dinner. Its a little bit freaky. Are they? and what should I do

2007-04-07 17:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by robbie s 1

We started to suspect after we would catch him on his cell phone talking in an affected way. We only heard him talk this way with my mother. Then we would hear him have arguments, saying things like your not going to mess up my family. Finally we got on the internet and used his cell phone number and ssn to get the calling history off his cell phone. We looked at the number he called often and late at night into the morning.We got up the nerve to call the number and a lady answered. When we asked her how she knew our father, she said she rather not tell. How do we let our father know, we know everything. Including the lady's name and her daughters name. I can't even look at him. i have no respect for him. All I can think about is the hurt my mother would feel if she knew. I don't even know if she knows. There is not doubt he is cheating. I have meny more examples but not enough room to type.

2007-04-07 17:01:47 · 16 answers · asked by qushy2 1

I feel uncomfortable with my 54 yr old boyfriend being in my daughters bedroom while she is sleeping. She was uncomfortable too and said when she woke up he was standing beside her. He told her if she needed a ride to work to call him. I just feel strange about him being in her room.
Am I just being paranoid or is there something weird about this ? My daughter is very petite and very pretty and maybe I am just being over protective. I was already gone to work for several hours. We watched a movie and both fell asleep, so he was still at my house and I left him sleeping when I left for work really early this morning at about 0530.

2007-04-07 16:58:34 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I really love my father more than my mother, byt I don't hate her. She always falls for my brother's sweet and sensitive acts, but I'm nicer than him. Plus my dad loves me more than my brother. Should I tell how I feel about this to my parents? Children should be treated equally.

2007-04-07 16:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by The Mermaid 2

I visited my married daughters' home for dinner, along with my husband and my parents. I went upstairs to check out a phone in one of the spare bedrooms, as I plan on buying them a new one for their anniversary.
When I came downstairs, my daughter yelled and chewed me out in front of everyone, and said it was an invasion of her privacy.
I reminded her that when she comes over to our house, she and her husband go everywhere without asking, and I never question them. She said that was still her house because she grew up there.
I think she is being a *****, but I will listen to any and all advice given to me. Please help!!!

2007-04-07 15:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by HEIDI L 1

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2007-04-07 15:25:24 · 15 answers · asked by c-dawg 2

My lil sister wont talk to me in front of any of her friends & doesnt like it when I come to pick her up from anywhere, idk, could it be b/c I ugley or something??

2007-04-07 14:10:43 · 8 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3

Great. Me and my parents got in another big arguement. I was working on putting songs in my ipod when my ma told me to get to bed. So after a bit i got off and checked on my project, which was stapled. it was stapled by my dad, the wrong way so as i was removing it to fix it i got it ripped out of my hand by my dad and now my finger is bleeding. Then he dragged me into my room, after which my mom hit me a few times for swearing and making me pay her for swearing i finally tried to keep them out of my room to go to bed. Now i am typing this.

2007-04-07 14:07:12 · 11 answers · asked by Paul H 3

i hate when people ask me that...i know that me dad is older then most parents that have kids my age...but what can i say to those ignorant people that say things like...why is your dad so old...or your dad looks old....what am i supposed to say....like i used to care about what they said but now i don't really care...but i'd still want to say something when they ask me that....my dad started his career before having children...this happens more then you would think. i used to avoid any time that i would have to go out to public with my dad..but now i don't care what people think..because it's their problem if they make fun of me not mine...ya but anyways what should i say..

2007-04-07 14:06:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She comes over and at times disrespects my stuff. She takes my ferrets out of the cage without asking as Im telling her "dont take them out, dont take them out". Then she tests my limits and puts them back in the cage, while poking at them with her fingers through the bars. Then when she helps clean up her mess, she carrys about 7 glasses all stacked up on eachother and as they are tipping over with liquid in them, and Im telling her "put them down" she is screeching and laughing (ear piercing shreeks". She interrupts me and asks all these questions without even waiting for the answers...anad jumps from subject to subject without carrying on a normal conversation. I want to still have her over, but its getting to be too much ?? Does she have ADD?? Is she just not disciplined enough at home. Please help!

2007-04-07 13:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by B 5

2007-04-07 13:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by brandon_w_2001 1

i am a stay at home dad of 3 boys since they were born,my wife just left with her friends to go to a party and when i looked in her car there were 4 bottles of unopened vodka, i guess i will be coloring easter eggs with the kids by myself, she didnt show up for our 4 year old kindergarten sign up orientation because she was partying and for christmas while we were making ginger bread houses she was in las vegas partying, what would you do if your spouse acted this way

2007-04-07 12:59:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a 17 year old guy and my mom is driving me nuts, most recently with annyoing questions about the prom and it feels awkard all teh time.......i wish she would butt out and let me tell her stuff in my own time....by teh way i have aboslutely nothing to hide, i just dont like these conversations..............
anyhow is it normal for moms to do this and are there anyways to get out of these situations

2007-04-07 12:58:47 · 8 answers · asked by nascarfan 2

I have an older sister who is the favorite in my family...
she was told that she could only have 1 car and shes been through 3 already, and in 3 years... she has her own house that my parents paid for and take care of, she leaves it a pit, she played tennis when she was a teenager and my father said that we only got one sport to play and now shes taking golf lessons....
and it upsets me to see everything that happens and i barely get anything and am treated like a slave by him, and im always in trouble no matter what i do,
should i just forget about everything and just not think about it or should i talk to someone about it

2007-04-07 12:49:14 · 19 answers · asked by Airy09 2

im going to texas this summer with my dad..i can get it done there..but should i??

2007-04-07 12:23:25 · 15 answers · asked by K-Rad 2

I've moved out of state from Louisiana to Maryland and my family is trying to make plans for me to go back and live there. I don't want to hurt feelings or step on toes or make anyone feel UNWANTED! I just don't want the negative vibes left over since the hurricane (they want me to move on the north shore, which isn't far enough to me). I love seeing the snow and feeling the cool air and no more 8-10 months of summer. They don't want to accept these facts and twist it into something personal.

Is there more that I can add? It ISN'T personal! I just like it more away from the south. I'm happier overall living north than in the south!

2007-04-07 12:21:18 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

I have a 21 year old sister who is highly addicted to drugs and alcohol to the point that she no longer lives a normal life. She just exists for drugs and drinks. My family is torn about the situation and can not seem to find DECENT, low cost or free rehab programs? Believe me, I have called Crisis Hotlines and checked the internet. All of the free/low cost places also house ex cons, mental disorder patients and the homeless. I feel like I am helpless to provide her with any resources. She claims she wants help, but I don't know how to help her. To cope, I avoid her phone calls (she calls drunk and crying, which stresses me out). I am at my wit's end. Any advice or word's of encouragement?

2007-04-07 12:20:49 · 7 answers · asked by TwinkaTee 6

I'm a single dad and they're mom left us. I need help getting my daughter through this, she is my world!!!

2007-04-07 09:59:15 · 13 answers · asked by Manuel N 1

I haven't been able to work for about a week now due to being sick and having injured my back. I just found out that my sister has been telling people that I'm faking it & that she "knows" me & my boyfriend are having sex, and I'm probably pregnant. My mom just told me this, and she said that she told my sister that me & my boyfriend can't have kids because of some medication my bf is on.

My boyfriend's not on any meds, but we're not having sex either. If my sis talks to him before I do (he's at work right now), this could be a disaster. What do I do?????

2007-04-07 09:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by KC 2