Family - April 2007

he has not been in her life much at all....we divorced here in texas,he lives in arizona....what can exempt her from going?he has no health insurance on her and no doctor for her either,she has all of that with me here in texas,she is suppose to get 8 shots in a month for 2 and a half months in the summer i dont think that would be contemp if it is a neccesary thing to have done for her health.plus he would have to file the contempt in texas and he is in arizona,because our divorce was here,and he has to have a lawyer ,pay court cost and ect.....she needs these shots in order to not have severe allergies anymore....and i dont see how i can be in contempt if she is the one whom does not wanna go as well her allergies need to be taking care of for her not to suffer with asthma and breathing problems

2007-04-02 09:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by TAM 2

I married my husband one year ago, and soon after that we won a long custody battle for his son. My husband has sole custody.
Heres the problem. My Mother in law acts like she has every right to him. I also have two daughters from a previous marriage. Their father is not involved at all in their life, so my husband is all they know as a dad. My husband and I also have one son together.
My mother in law treats my girls like they are nothing, and also treats her new grandson like he doesnt exsist. The only one she seems to care about is my stepson.
She has been known to bring gifts for him over to the house when all the kids are here, and doesnt for one minute think that it is inapproriate. Im not saying buy things for all the kids, but at least keep the gifts at her home and give them to him when he goes to visit.
He gets everything he wants and his way is the only way when he visits, therefore when he comes home he acts like he doesnt know how to act.

2007-04-02 09:22:47 · 16 answers · asked by Kimberly G 2

I've had a roommate for about 2 yrs that came to stay with me because she lost her job, car, apartment. She has a 7 yr old little boy that I've known since he was born. She is currently going to school on line but hasn't been successful in finding a job due to some legal problems. My boyfriend of 1 yr, has suggested to me that she move out so we can start our own life. By the way, he and I are both in our late 40's. I'm having a hard time with this because I feel I'm dropping her on her head. She is part of my family and it feels like I'm abandoning her when she's beginning to get her life together. The only money she has coming in to contribute is her $85 a week child support and she does get food stamps which we use. Can someone please, please suggest to me a compassionate way of approaching her?

2007-04-02 09:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by Sheri A 2

Is it possible to be with a guy and not have an 'awkward' relationship with the mother in law?

2007-04-02 08:28:35 · 30 answers · asked by masonv80 3

i am 16 my bro is 17 he has a girlfriend who is 16 but she is a little to bossy how do i explain this my brother does anything for this girl even got him into a play she broke up with him last night and then two hours later got back with him he was crying and on the side of the house the thing is its like this its unheathly its a negative relationship i like her but i know its not my biz but should i say something he has had many other girlfriends but this is the best one but i dont know what to do

2007-04-02 08:11:21 · 22 answers · asked by Lizzy 3

I took him to court and got a court order for child support, but he moved to Florida and I dont know where he lives I called the Department of Revenue and he has not paid anything..and they do not seem to be enforcing it..what do I do?

2007-04-02 07:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by PRETTYGIRL 4

its kind of a personal question but....my mom and dad are fighting a little and when they do my dad will swear maybe calling my mom a name. and when this happens my mom is mad because I don't say anything. I don't want my dad to hate me because my mom will say stuff to him back....what should i do?

2007-04-02 07:12:31 · 4 answers · asked by rebeccapolsh333 2

My hubbys family was having a fight (look at previous question). I told them all I couldn't deal with the stress since I am 32 weeks pregnant and having a difficult pregnancy. So... My father in law decided to tell my brother in law that I said I got sick last time I ate at their house and that their house is a mess. I never said those things. I can't figure out why he would try to put me in the middle of his BS. My sister in law (married to my brother in law) and I are very close so she asked me about it. I was glad she came to me and didn't just assume he was being honest but now I am so angry at my father in law. What would you do about it? How would you deal with it? I live across the street from him so I have to face the issue but I don't want to add any extra stress on myself by telling him what I think of the BS. How do I handle it nicely without telling him what I think of him? Thanks for any help.

2007-04-02 06:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5

My mother in law took it upon herself to bring my 1st born only son to take his 1st pictues. I called and asked her about it and she copped an attitude when I told her that it would have been nice if she could have asked me first and she said "I didn't have to ask you anything." I wasn't really upset until she said that. later that day I called my b/f to see where he was at and he sounded upset. I asked him what was wrong and he said he was fine but I can tell if something is bothering him. Later that night when he got home he was all funny acting and not really acting himself so I could tell then that he was upset but he has no reason to be. I am guessing that he's mad because I called and confronted his mother about the pic situation but I wasn't mean or rude to her, I just felt like she had no right to do that so I asked her about it. she was the one with the attitude. Now am I wrong. Oh and then he went with her to take my baby pictures. Nobody thought to ask me about it.

2007-04-02 05:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by lovemuffin 2

I've been married six months and in my mid twenties. I don't know its normal or not but i dont feel like trying for a baby yet as there are so many things i wanna do or enjoy before starting a family. am i been selfish?
How to convince my husband to wait for some more time? he is tired of birth control!
I love him very much and dont want to hurt him in any way but at the same time i dont think i am ready for a baby yet! it's all quite confusing and scary.

2007-04-02 04:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by comp90 3

How do you live with yourself? My 83 year old mother is manipulative, hateful, mean spirited (and her doctor said that) but has nothing wrong with her mentally that would cause her behavior. I am an only child - she hates my husband (2nd husband) and tries to split our family apart. My two adopted children can't stand her - don't want to see her, She's hurt them too much by saying things about my current husband. She talks to my ex-husband on a daily basis, to see if she can talk him into trying to get custody.

My Dad died in 2000 - he was the buffer between us. We never got along. My youngest son is bi-polar, and he was just released from the mental ward a week ago today. They haven't seen her since New Year's Day. I went over once when she fell - and then I remembered that she told me tht the next time she fell he would accuse me of it. There is so much more to the story than I have characters to work with. She is an alcoholic, addicted to prescription meds.

2007-04-02 04:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by PapillionWyngs 3

Ok, I recently met a man over the internet, he's a very nice single dad of two very adorable litlle kids 5y old girl and 3yr old little boy. For our first date he invited me "and" my 2 boy 12yrs and 5yrs to come spend the weekend @ his house and he took us to the beach. We all clikcked like puzzle pieces. I feel so strongly about this relationship and he felt it to. Like we were the missing puzzle pieces to his life and his family were the mising puzzles pieces to our lives. My 12yr old totaly accepeted him right away. He came to me monday morning and said mom don't let this one get away. It mad me cry, because for 10yrs he would totaly reject any man other than his fater that I tried to be with. He would go as far as fist fighting with the guys I was with. So 2 have "him" come to me and tell me that is a big thing . I've tried telling my new man this and he says it's because my son is older now. I don't think that is it at all I belive it has everything to do with this new family.

2007-04-02 04:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Elvis Presley!!!!!!!
Do you think that is why they gave me up for adoption ???

Also i heard that I was a twin so my sibling is out there somewhere .

2007-04-02 04:26:58 · 24 answers · asked by londonletch 2

2007-04-02 04:25:59 · 20 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6

I have a character named Auriel. What is her relation to her mother's cousin? (Liam) Is it uncle-neice? Are they cousins? If so, what kind? (2nd, 3rd, etc.)

2007-04-02 03:58:08 · 24 answers · asked by Lynelle H 2

im a sound sleeper and when i woke up my sister had already taken pics and my mom was in the room and said it was the right punishment.

i guess it was for trying to cheat of my sisters test in school.
and borrowing her money and forgeting to give it back.

is this a good punishment?

2007-04-02 03:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by Ben Bella 1

What a great song!!

2007-04-02 02:29:55 · 1 answers · asked by lilly l 6

i have had so many problems with my mum. and she was warned by the department of child safety that if she bash another one of us children we would be taken off of her. and then 2 years later she bashes me. what do i do. i have told the cops and i m now in foster care.

2007-04-02 01:09:58 · 11 answers · asked by SXC KRISTEN 1

I am a 33 year old mom of 2 wonderful girls. Here is the problem: Live at home with my mom, older sister, and a brother all whom think they are helping me with my girls but instead are trying to steal them from me. My mom got upset at me about a year ago as I got into a small yelling match with my older sister and decided to take my girls to my dads to cool off for the night, well my mom called childrens aid and they got involved because my mom was claiming that I was going to hurt my children which is total bullcrap. I have never done anything to hurt my children ever. Right now I have passed not one but two evaluations via a mental health profession both which state its not me but the enviroment I am currently living in as my mom controls everything. Childrens Aid wants to give me back full custody of my girls but my mom is fighting me for full custody. What to do right now cause I am so lost. Love my girls and want them. Just worried about how nasty this is going to get.

2007-04-01 23:47:59 · 10 answers · asked by killbear1973 1

i got low grades and i told my father about it. and it's as if he's not listening to me. like, he can't accept the fact that i got low grades.
And now, it's irritating me

2007-04-01 23:33:07 · 6 answers · asked by chakang_baliw 1

2007-04-01 22:59:34 · 21 answers · asked by emma l 4

my brother is smokeing to much pot we had to send him out of town to new yorkcity to live with our aunt, and now she calls me and saying he smokes to much pot and he is picking things from the garbage because he lost his job he is 22 now how do i tell him to smarten up we made him leave town to do beter for himself but its not turning out that way

what should i say to him to tell him to stop smokeing pot and come live with me

2007-04-01 15:30:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-01 14:54:29 · 7 answers · asked by Bryan M 5

2007-04-01 14:37:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is really angry at me. She even cried because she says that I don't help out the house and basically do nothing for her.

She's making a really good food right now. I know she's really mad at me, I apologize but she didn't except. I'm really hungry, I didn't eat lunch and I wanted to eat the food she's making right as my dinner and lunch.

How can I eat when she's mad at me? That's her food she made. Should I just go to sleep?

2007-04-01 14:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean the last names from your mom and dad, not only the one from your dad.

2007-04-01 13:27:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm about to be 20 years old and live with my parents. My father is EXTREMELY old-fashioned and very controlling. I can not go out at my own will without him knowing where I'm going, who I'm going with, and wihtout him giving me an EARLY curfew. I'm in a serious relationship withe a man who I am deeply in love with. Thing is, my dad heard rumors and does not like him at all. We have fought non-stop over this for the past 3 months even though I've been with my boyfriend for the past year. Its to the point where he told me to pick my boyfriend or my car. I gave him my car key to show that I am defending my love. I've tried talking to him but he won't listen, it's like he tells me, he only sees "black & white, there are no in-betweens". I don't know what to do anymore, I used to love spending time at home as well as out with my friends, I was always happy. Now its taking its toll on me and I cannot deal with things. I'm no longer a happy person.

2007-04-01 13:20:16 · 16 answers · asked by sexisuga05 1

Can one get married to a daughter of a cousin? Is there any law against it? Will there be complications?
I am just curious I am not marrying my cousin's daughter.... Just want to know

2007-04-01 12:57:05 · 11 answers · asked by Lifesucks2333 3

In my case...my second older brother is the first person in my family caught me smoking.No one ever caught me drinking yet.LOL.He is 10 years older than me.He didn't lives with us but lives in the apartment nearby our house.I'm damn scared at that time and threw my cigarette away and left the restaurant without say hi to him.When i got back,he was already in my room waiting 4 me.I'm lucky because he didn't told our parent about that.He said that he will break my neck if he ever see me smoking again.But i know he wouldn't do it.He's not a smoker, that's why he's upset about me being a smoker.

2007-04-01 11:50:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, we sold my daughter's mustang, because she split to be with a boy whom smokes pot, and has gotten kicked from school for doing so (I've written about it in previous questions...) No calls from her as of yet, and she let me know that she didn't want me calling her, so I've given her her wish. I know it's too late now, but was I right to sell the car? And her 18th birthday is the 19th. Should I call her for her birthday even if she, in the not so distant past will not answer her phone for me? Also, it's going to break my heart if I call her, and she doesn't answer her phone. Well, break whats left of my heart anyway. Also, was I right to stick to my guns about this boy? I just feel that my daughter was so much better than to get involved with someone like this kid. She's smart, and beautiful, and when he's in her life she seems to have a dark cloud over her, and defies her dad, and myself ever chance she gets. Am I right? I'd like any advice you all have.

2007-04-01 11:17:19 · 8 answers · asked by ks 5