Mom angry at me?

Question

My mom is really angry at me. She even cried because she says that I don't help out the house and basically do nothing for her.

She's making a really good food right now. I know she's really mad at me, I apologize but she didn't except. I'm really hungry, I didn't eat lunch and I wanted to eat the food she's making right as my dinner and lunch.

How can I eat when she's mad at me? That's her food she made. Should I just go to sleep?

Answer 1

Go make yourself a sandwich. Then tomorrow when you get home form school start doing housework and carry that trend on forever. if you do a half hour a day then it will help out large....... make her supper tomorrow night. Try spaghetti it is easy..... Make an effort.

Answer 2

Don't feel bad. She is the mother and you are the daughter. She shouldn't have cried in front of you - it only lays guilt on you. Your mother is just probably feeling very overwhelmed by all of the things that she needs to do to keep the house, the family, and herself in order. Go downstairs and eat with her - compliment her food, help clean the dishes, give her a hug and tell her you love her. Tomorrow, start helping her more around the house and make it a point to continue on that path. When you're bored and have nothing to do, why not vacuum or clean up your room a little bit?

Answer 3

Is she cooking for both of you, or only for herself? If she's cooking for herself, then you don't eat what she's cooking no mattter how hungry you are. You look at what else is in the kitchen,and maybe cook for yourself. Open a can of soup, eat a bowl of cereal, whatever. And then wash your own bowl and put everything away. If you're old enough to write here, you're old enough to help take care of yourself.

If she's cooking for both of you, you're lucky. But it's time to listen to her, and figure out what you can do to help out around the house. Clean the bathroom, etc. -- stuff that everyone uses, no just yourself. And don't just do it one time and act like you deserve a medal. Make it a job that you do every week so that your Mom doesn't have to do everything. Even 15 minutes a day of help can make a huge difference to a Mom. And in the meantime, tell your Mom you're sorry and will try harder...it will be worth it.

Answer 4

Right now, go in the kitchen and help her with the food. Set the dinning room table and make the drinks. Don't ask her for permission, just do it!

God Bless

Answer 5

You have to eat, no matter whether your mom is angry or not. If she is witholding food from you because she is angry with you, then you are being abused. That is abusive behavior. If you feel bad that she is angry, perhaps you can offer to wash the dishes or something, but you still need to eat.

Answer 6

Clean your room. Then go eat your dinner. When dinner's over, do the dishes.

Answer 7

oh honney ur spollings will bring u thru the day. just tell ur mom "sigh poop, mom i rully LUV u so plz 4 give me." i an shgiore that will do the trick, this is NOT a a pril foolz joak i promice

Answer 8

I'm dealing with the same too but my mother doesn't let me help her. She's so mad at me that she doesn't even want me to help her. She would just get more mad. Idk what to do anymore. But if I were you, I would continue to help her out. Surprise her even. Just show that you really love her so much that you are willing to do anything to help her out.

Answer 9

you eat-- your mom fixed that for you..... mad or not......
she will not let you go without supper-- thats what we
do.... provide...... and share the love......