I am a 33 year old mom of 2 wonderful girls. Here is the problem: Live at home with my mom, older sister, and a brother all whom think they are helping me with my girls but instead are trying to steal them from me. My mom got upset at me about a year ago as I got into a small yelling match with my older sister and decided to take my girls to my dads to cool off for the night, well my mom called childrens aid and they got involved because my mom was claiming that I was going to hurt my children which is total bullcrap. I have never done anything to hurt my children ever. Right now I have passed not one but two evaluations via a mental health profession both which state its not me but the enviroment I am currently living in as my mom controls everything. Childrens Aid wants to give me back full custody of my girls but my mom is fighting me for full custody. What to do right now cause I am so lost. Love my girls and want them. Just worried about how nasty this is going to get.
2007-04-01 23:47:59 · 10 answers · asked by killbear1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am currently trying to move out but she is making it very hard. Hell she had the nerve to tell me no matter what childrens aid says she thinks I am mental and the girls need to be with her instead of their own mom. Oh their dads HA! One is in the picture and is helping my mom sue me for custody., the other one has no rights to his child. I agree this is very toxic but moving out is not going to be an overnite thing especially when if I even went to a shelter my girls would have to stay behind cause childrens aid wont let me take them there. Nice ppl they are telling me to move out too but they arent going to give me a letter to get emergency housing. No I dont have relatives that will help me or any friends for that matter. Currently on ODSP due to a back injury. Hell forgot about the miscarriage that I had to go thru alone on March 3rd of this year. My mom doesnt care if she hurts me just as long as she can take my kids from me then she will be happy.
2007-04-02 00:27:36 · update #1
Get full custody of your girls, leave and never go back to someone who causes you trouble, grief and heartache. You and your daughters will be much better off without those type of people in your lives. You need to show those type of people that you're sick and tired of their bullshit and it's stopping now and if they don't like it, they can kiss your ***.
2007-04-02 00:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 16:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to cooperate with Children's aid. Get into your own apartment and prove to them that you can be a responsible person. Your first step is to get a good job.
There is nothing worse than a controlling parent. You will never be good enough as long as you stay in her home.
2007-04-02 00:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out, as soon as possible. You have it in writing - it's the environment you currently live in that's your problem. So fix the problem. Move out and build a life for yourself and your kids away from your toxic relatives.
2007-04-01 23:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't believe your mom would do that to you, then you need to live somewhere the environment is healthy for you and your daughters it would be unwise for them to live with your mom considering what she wants to do, know it can be nasty and hurtful for you because she is still your mom but hey think what's best for you and your daughters, you're a mom too. I know you'll know what to do. God bless.=)
2007-04-01 23:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by gab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to seek help from the catholic nuns..you may say i am weird of typing this...but,it doesn't hurt to ask for help..bring your documents from the mental health profession,that statement will show the sisters that you're not insane..i say to seek help there cause the sisters help battered ladies or homeless people,i am sure they will help also for your problem..especially dealing with your kids which you are trying your best to gain full custody for the kids..of,course their are other groups to seek help,but the catholic nuns is what i have in mind..just show your interest in seeking help from the sisters,and the catholic nuns will show their compassion for you to seek custody.......for what i read on your add on your side of the story really hurts to know,that your own biological mother is going against her DAUGHTER......OOH GOD............PLS,SEEK HELP FROM THE SISTERS.......GOOD LUCK ON GAINING CUSTODY
2007-04-02 02:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by virgo7134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's daddy?
U're their mom and the grandma is fighting custody?
U should move out on ur own!
2007-04-01 23:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by AL75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own place. What are you doing at home at your age anyhow, especially with kids. Stop whinning and grow up and support yourself and the kids and ask the father(s) to help you do it, AND to help you get a place of your own.
2007-04-01 23:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out ASAP.In case you have problem I know an institution called Karma Nirwana who fight for women with domestic problem and provide support for you and your childern.Get in touch with them.
2007-04-02 00:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you should move out. ♥^-^♥
2007-04-01 23:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋