Family - April 2007

My husband and i dated for 3 years,and married for a year,he has a daughter of 7 years and im taking care of her as my own ,the thing is i feel ready to start our family but he always say to me its not easy to have a child he knows that from expirience cause the mother of the daughter left when she was 3months
I am 27 years old and feel ready to have a child of my own,we are both working and earn about 3000 euros a month im also scared that maybe that money wont be enough when we start a family
I am really confused and the time is going,he always says to me we need enough money first but i dont believe we will ever have,because every month the bugdet goes up,i do talk to him about this but now im tied,because he just feel as if im pushing him
So my question is when is the right time and age to start a family
Sometimes i just think he is being selfish because he already has his own

2007-04-04 08:55:27 · 18 answers · asked by babes 1

I have a friends, he keeps saying he loves me, and says he was my servent in his past life !

2007-04-04 08:50:15 · 7 answers · asked by bunnie 2

2007-04-04 08:24:10 · 21 answers · asked by mnunez1709 3

ive never recieved a sign or anything from my mother since she died, will I get a sign? and will I inherit her illness she had

2007-04-04 07:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by Belinda W 1

My grandmother moved in with us and it will be 2 years she has lived with us in September. My grandma left her house to us and it was in shambles. Things were all over the place there was bearly a hallway to walk in. Dust was everywhere and we had to clean it out (luckily we had the help of my aunt). When cleaning it out we found all these new things that had never been used. 15 sets of dishes, 20 pots and pans, 100's of clothes, and so on. Now that my grandma has moved with us it's the same thing again. She has at least 3 packages a week coming to his house and her room is full of boxes with things she has yet to use. My father's stepfather left her with 13 houses and she has no money whatsoever from that. She just charges everything which is going to be a problem because when she goes my parents might have to pay off the charges. Is there some sort of person we can get to manage her money for her?

2007-04-04 06:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been thinking about it recently and im really confused about it and i feel like a part of me is missing but if i see him it will change my life forever and it might be a mistake so im confused about it and i need some helf figureing this out =[

2007-04-04 05:47:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am related to a little person and she keeps doing the nasty with my dog! I don't know why she does this but it really disterbs me when I see her fornicate with my dog fufu. is there any susgestions to help get my counsin to stop doing it with my dog?? My counsin is 45 if it helps.

2007-04-04 05:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by mandy 1

My mom is thinking about sergery but she needs shots frist and i don't know how to dill with it

2007-04-04 05:18:20 · 4 answers · asked by stephanie shadow91 1

If she starts 3 to 6 months later after graduation do I have to keep paying child support. She will be 18 just after graduating high school in NC.

2007-04-04 04:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by atvrider2522 1

My brother got a asama attack and he's in the hospital I haven't talked to him for about 6mnths now . He stopped talking to me becasue he's wife doesn't like me . Should I go vist him in the hospitol how about if his wife is there??? My parents are makeing me to go and I do but at the same time I don't I don't know what to do ! ! ! !

2007-04-04 04:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by What Happen 1

I hate them for real

2007-04-04 04:08:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanted to play the following joke on my brother, but my wife thinks it's sick.

What do you think?

Our mom died in 1989. Back then I had an answering machine that used cassette tapes, and I saved a lot of them. As a result, I have a recording of my mom leaving a message, saying sarcastically: "Hello. This is your mother. Since I haven't heard from you in so long, I thought you forgot you had a mother, so I am calling to remind you that you do. Call me. Love you."

I was going to call him, and play the message into his voice mail...

I mean, he would KNOW it's not a call from the dead... but my wife doesn't think it's funny... just sick.

Well?

2007-04-04 03:41:03 · 24 answers · asked by aspicco 7

2007-04-04 03:35:56 · 32 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6

2007-04-04 03:34:56 · 2 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6

Who is considered a dead bet dad?

2007-04-04 02:35:36 · 11 answers · asked by Tami N 1

2007-04-04 02:32:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husbands uncle has died, he did a lot for his family when they were young ( above the call of duty )
I have been with my husbane for 12 years but only met him once at a wedding
Do you think I should go it is 3 hours away ?
We have 2 young children

2007-04-04 02:23:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

at first when my girls were small they always wanted to do things with me and i never said no i always played with them or read stories to them practice there sports with them
in fact they were my best friends but since they hit 16 and 18 they just seem to want to talk and do things with there mom
i feel like im on the outside looking in. my wife works part time
so she has more contact with them i dont know what i can do
to get them be close to me again i dont know what i did that was so bad that they dont want to talk to me anymore they
treat there mom better.

2007-04-04 01:50:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a cousin that is so annoying. She always follows me wherever I go and she does stupid things that irritate me. She's younger than me but she answers back to me already. How do i get rid of her?

2007-04-04 01:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by willie 1

ok my husbands sister and her daughter has been with us for four days and Im at my limit my daughter is being humiliated by an unpleasant ,boastful child and its not being checked by my husband or her mother (his sister) we have taken them wherever they have wanted to go and my child has remained polite and well-behaved. the niece has tried to make my daughter go into the deep end of the pool even when I have have told her that shes not allowed and my little one has said that she said so too..The niece then went to the deepest end of the pool with a friend to exclude my child.PLEASE advise !personal experience would be very helpful..

2007-04-03 23:54:44 · 15 answers · asked by gadriel 3

ok my step daughter, has only just spoken to me and she used to say she loved me and wanted to talk to me but since her dad told her that i will become her mum oneday she doesn't want to talk. she is only 5 but is this normal. some help please

2007-04-03 23:42:48 · 9 answers · asked by cleo 1

my sons father wont pay child support, he only calls his son maybe once a month and has only had him over for the weekend 6 times in the last year. for most of that it was because his new girlfriend did not like our son and would not have him at her house. (my son is 4) now he is not living with her so he wants to have him over, but he refuses to tell me where he lives. i have told him no because he wont pay child support or tell me where he lives or make an agreement to have him on regular basis AND STICK TO IT. he says that im stopping him from seeing his son and that he will hate me for it when he grows up. i dont want to stop my boy from seeing his dad but its hard to see his dissapointment when his dad says he will see him and then cancels at the last minute.

am i doing the right thing? will my son hate me when he grows up?

2007-04-03 23:15:11 · 13 answers · asked by princess_cheeks09 4

It gets boring to always just watch DVDs and have dinner at home, especially on the weekends.

2007-04-03 22:26:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I am getting married soon and have been discussing the future with my fiance. We both have very good, high-earning careers but will want to have kids too. We plan to take out a big loan to buy the house of our dreams…this is ok providing we both work and pay off the house loan (mortgage). However, although I want my dream home, I have always dreamt of being a stay-at-home mum too. We definitely want a child. Although my job would give me maternity for a year…I know deep inside I want to stay with my child until he/she is old enough to go to kindergarden..i.e. 3 years old and 3 years at home. The problem is this: If we decide to do this, we would not be able to go for our dream home and this would be very very disappointing. I know it may sound greedy, but I want my nice home and to spend the first 3 years of life with the child too - I think it is important for the baby. We don't plan to have kids right away but we need to think about this when buying our house soon. Help please!

2007-04-03 21:58:54 · 12 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4

im 19yrs old, and live on my own, completely independent. i pay my own bills, pay my rent, do my own grocery shopping, laundry, everything! my parents divorced when i was 5, n my mom left me, but took my sista later on. my dad took me to a shrink at like 3, n i have no problem but severe depression n severe anxiety w attacks. he would beat me cuz i didnt wanna go to church, he aint christian eitha. he always got ppl to stick up for him, n they tell me that his problems r my fault. he sent me to school one day w blooody nose, n didnt care. he made me out da bad guy. he started to ruin my future till i took control last year. he n i dnt agree on anythin, he pro-bush, im anti-bush, he rich, im poor.he dont support me bein independent at all.talks bad about to me to his coworkers.blames me for everythin.he racist, but im only halfwhite, he htes my mom. i aint talk to him in 3months n he want pitty, he messed up my comp n wont fix it, n gamme beatup trash furniture n say "oh,well".

2007-04-03 21:42:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

they often make fun off me they tell ihave no maturity.its always like this every time every body i meets i hav e similar or worse condition iamin aconfusion how to deal with people wthis also deppress me it affects my studies also it is a long lived problem of my like ie from my choild hood onwards ihave consulted aphychiartist also he had given me somemedicines also but this could not help my situationplease give me any usefullsuggestions

2007-04-03 21:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by anish_tvm122003 1

I am really really bad tempered.
I get on my mother's nerves for 3 days as minimum wearing her down.
I know I must not do it but I cannot help acting against my true nature.
I wanna say I am sorry the next minute but I can't.
Am I seek? or Should I blame my mother for missing something out when I was a kid?

2007-04-03 20:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughters boyfriend is here everyday when i get home from work he has no job . He helps her around the house but when i come in he's just sitting their doing nothing and it drives me crazy

2007-04-03 19:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by Janette R 3

2007-04-03 19:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by blkhawk1000 2

My mother and father separated 3 years ago. Mum left because police called. Now my dad who is 49 has a 23 year old girlfriend - I hate her - and don't want anything to do with her. My mother went nuts when she found out she says what is he teaching us boys (we live with dad). She sleeps over. Is this sick?

2007-04-03 19:10:30 · 15 answers · asked by Liz G 2