Family - April 2007

2007-04-07 08:56:36 · 15 answers · asked by Tony T 4

my nephew girlfriend who's also the mother of his two children cursed out his mother something awful so my sister don't allow her in her house anymore only the children are allowed my nephew who I helped raise never comes to see me nor did he bring the kids to see me now that he's not allowed to bring the girlfriend to his mother house he wants to bring the girlfriend along with the kids to spend the night I told him she can't come cause I don't agree with what she did was I wrong for this,everytime he was suppose to come over all before this happened I never saw him I think he's just using me cause she's not allowed at 'his moms house I need your help with this one.

2007-04-07 08:55:42 · 7 answers · asked by raaunt 1

2007-04-07 08:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How should I tell my family I am moving? I am 27ish years old and have been living at home for the past 7 months since I broke up with my boyfriend. I feel like I am in a rut living here at home, and have only a part time job because I have been planning this move for a while.
My parents keep bugging me to get a full time job with health insurance and all that stuff. I've just been humoring them because I know I'll be leaving soon.
I moved out of state when I graduated from college and when I did they were upset with me and took bets on when I would come back. I know it'll be the same this time, I just dont know how to break it to them gently.
Please any suggestions?

2007-04-07 06:13:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We ( my husband and I ) can't afford to fly to their homes all the time and I work so I cannot take the time off work.....But we hate spending holidays alone...Any Recommendations? What do other couples do?

2007-04-07 05:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by calming 2

I've been involved with this white man for 5 years and we have a lilttle girl together. Now he wants to settle down with me and move in together. But...
From his past behavior and issues between us, I'm unsure if I want to settle down with him. However I want my child to grow up with both parents in the household. I'm confused. I've talked with family and Friends. Some say yes and some say no. Should I set aside my feelings and do what's best for my daughter?

2007-04-07 05:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by It must be said 3

when she first told me she said one person was the father, a week later she said she did'nt know who the father was; now she does'nt want to talk to anyone because people are less than thrilled with the situation. she;s 21yrs and single. i don't talk to most of my family (father and stepmonster, and my brothers) because of things she's done in the past . i was the only person that tried to tell her the things she did'nt want to hear about how hard it would be. Her grandparents just outright said they disowned her. after these things happened she wont talk to me anymore, but i found out she's talking to the grandparents. should i just wait for her to come around (she's due in august) even though she's burned me many times with her lies; and broken-up me with my family, or should i get a-hold of her?

2007-04-07 05:02:39 · 13 answers · asked by Janet C 1

My little sis is 11. I am posting this for her, here is what she says (direct responses to her not me):

I am 11 years old and I have tried to tell my parents I don't believe in the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus, and the Tooth Fairy. I have to be subtle because my litle bro is 9 and he still believes, as do a lot of my friends.
They say stuff like "Why wouldn't you believe in (fill in the blank)? I believe in (fill in the blank)". I have tried addressing presents to them from "Santa", telling them straight out, and all kinds of things, and nothing works. They still pretend that they all exist, even when my little brother is not around. They know I won't tell secrets- so why won't they realize I don't believe in SC, the EB, and the TF?

2007-04-07 04:52:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-07 04:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by foxxybabe0430 4

My parents are willing to pay for my college. Great right? Problem is they want to govern exactly where I go. It has to be a christian school , and even then one that they believe is just right. My choices, according to them is Pensacola Christian College, Bob Jones, (plus afew that I never will got to). All of them are Christian schools ,and all of them are ones I don't want to go to. I suppose PCC wouldn't be too bad, but I don't think I would get the best education there. I want to major in pre-med or in a visual arts major with a concentration in commercial arts. If I choose a different college though, I won't be able to pay and my only other option would be joining the military so they could pay for college. Don't get me wrong, I love the military. GO ARMY! But I just don't think that would be best for me. Scholarships are there, but I doubt I'd get one.

2007-04-07 03:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you see that when there is plenty of money for shopping then your wife is super happy.

But when theres not enough to shop with, she's corrilla davilla?

2007-04-07 03:00:53 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4

2007-04-07 02:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by ......... 1

i have this 80 years old elderly friend, i met him 2 years ago, he has no friend, no children and a widower, only one sister and a nephew but they never visit him. He is house bound because he fell recently, i do shopping 3 times a week and takes him to doctor appointment, i am 29 years old and i am really tired of doing all this, i have my own life to live, he wouldn't ask help from his family, he also refuse social worker, or nursing home, or any assistance, he doesn't trust people, even i was never allowed to go inside his home. I work full time, and i really don't have time for all this, i used to love him but his bitterness and skeptism (even towards me) has made me very depresing, I want to stop seeing him but don't want to be mean, what should i do?

2007-04-06 22:54:38 · 7 answers · asked by saegiie 1

I hate every member of my family so much. I don't even live with them anymore but whenever I get in contact with them I always dislike them.
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2007-04-06 21:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by Bergdorf 1

We are in the process of getting to court to get primary custody. CPS is in the middle of their 5th investigation my step son who lives in a bad situation with his mom. Each time CPS comes she puts on a show. He has been removed before however. His mom will not him call his dad, me or his siblings, and won't answer his dad's cal. We only see him on our standard visits. Once he snuck a call while his stepdad was sleeping, whispered the whole time and said their fighting scares him. My husband said if he feels he is in danger call 911. Apparently step dad was listening in and later him and his mom forbid him from calling 911 and he got in trouble for talking to us. Also he got in trouble for telling CPS the truth about things at their home. We have to take him back Sunday, he is scared to go. Our atty in out of town till MOnday, we are scared of taking him back. It seems like it should almost be illegal to forbid your child from 911, is it? Must we return him?

2007-04-06 20:58:36 · 5 answers · asked by okydoky 1

he keeps on trying to change who i am, and he's a sexist, and he expects me to do all the work in my house, and my brothers do nothing. !!!

2007-04-06 19:48:08 · 3 answers · asked by tmhangel 1

what would you do if you had a member of your family moved in with you. and you can't get them to leave. in my case its my brother. he is older. we both in our 40's he always on my phone or my pc. even caught him having phone sex with a woman. he is sick. he don't have no place to go. have you ever been through this before? are what would you do. he don't work and living off me. it's just me . well should i say it was. then he gets on my pc. when he does i never know when i be able get back on it. tonight i went to eat some left overs and it tasted bad. i think he did somethen to it. but can't prove it. it tasted real bad. i got sick. beside that i have women calling my home none stop. maybe 4 women. talking to him. he lying to each of them. and they don't know about the other ones. what would you do? HELP PLEASE.

2007-04-06 19:40:39 · 4 answers · asked by Skitter 5

My 16 year old son has been driving w/temps for about a month now. He is not using drugs or getting in trouble, but is defying my wishes, i.e., staying the night with his girlfriend. He started doing this last year with his x and I was against it then, but he did it anyway. I want him to get all the driving experience he can get before he drives on his own, but it seems the only way to get the message through on this issue, is to take something away that he cares so much about, like driving a car. I give plenty of freedom for him to spend time with her, but I feel very strongly that a 16 year old boy has no business "playing house" with an 18 year old girl. It seems I am always the ogre in these matters as the other parents never seem to have a problem with it. I'm trying to find a way to get him to comply with my wishes without provoking him to rebellion. Also, I wonder if my (noncustodial) x-wife would be able to interfere with any measures taken regarding the driving.
Thanks

2007-04-06 19:38:08 · 2 answers · asked by Mr_Majestic 1

Hi, a fellow colleague accused me of taking her observation result which she tried to photocopied.
Initially, I was using the photocopier, then she cut in when i was using it halfway saying that she wanted to use it for a while. I let her use it. however, the machine was cranky and broke down. At the same time, she went off, putting her observation result slip in the machine. I

went off because i know the machine was spoilt and could not be used anymore.

when she went back ,the slip of paper was gone. since i was the last to see the paper, I was accused of taking it
Everybody is looking at me from a negative angle now.

What should do? feeling miserable! :(
Help!

2007-04-06 19:35:58 · 4 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2

2007-04-06 19:35:06 · 7 answers · asked by tostosh 1

Whether it be here on Y! Answers or around town, all I receive is criticisim for not being a stay at home mom. I did stay at home for the first year but I decided the best interest for my family would be to finish my degree. Shouldn't all moms be working together? We do alot whether we are a SAHM or a working mom. Let's please stop with the criticism!

2007-04-06 18:14:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Grandchild complains of parents' lack of attention since the birth of younger sister (now 2), to the point of feeling unloved. Is depression a possibility? Should I be concerned? Situation at the child's home is such that anything I say will get the child in trouble with parents.

2007-04-06 17:59:39 · 6 answers · asked by mumsarge 2

I just want answers from people who have actually lost a birth or adoptive parent to suicide. How do you deal with death now? My father commited suicide when I was a teenager, (i lived with him and my stepmother) and I have noticed that I am really nonchalant about death. It doesn't seem to bother me like it should. I feel bad for the people that were close to the person who died, but as far as I am concerned, it doesn't even bother me, I won't even shed a tear, and I am a big crybaby.

2007-04-06 17:53:48 · 9 answers · asked by OpalMine 3

She doesnt let me out anymore and i only did it like 3 times. I miss hangin out with my buddies but ive been stuck inside for a month now. I need somthin to get me outta here!!!!!!!

2007-04-06 17:50:15 · 4 answers · asked by ....<> 1

my grandfather is dying and i hardly know him. My grandma divorced him when my mom was a teen and he remarried and he doesnt even spend time w/ his blood daughter but he spent a lot of time w/ his step kids and grandkids , he is not a bad person its just he married someone very mean and she would never let us see him and now he is dying and i dont now him..... and i have never had a grandpa ever.. pray for me and my family plz and give me some advice plz god bless u all

2007-04-06 17:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by ♥AbeRcRoMbiEhOTTiE♥ 1

2007-04-06 17:34:53 · 19 answers · asked by Smboy74 1

When my grandfather died a few years ago, I was 14. My neice was only 4. How do you explain something like that to a child so small without it coming out to harsh but still getting the point across?

2007-04-06 16:57:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My little one is six and time is flashing before my eyes. Everytime I turn around he is doing something so smart and
"big boy" like. Is it horrible to want him to stay little forever?

2007-04-06 16:12:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

see im the black sheep of my family and i feel like SUCH a outcast! i mean everybody thinks im dumb and lazy and living off my good looks they think im dumb cuz my cousins are in a magnit school and i have horrible grades and they always compare me to my cousins IM SICK OF IT! what can i do?

2007-04-06 15:52:32 · 12 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1

My older brother blames me for everything! Im 12, hes 14. Being only 2 years apart, we dont like each other very much. My mom said that if I dont get my act straight, shez gonna go back to spankings instead of grounding. One day I started acting up in front of the family at a dinner party. My mom took hold of me and took me to her bedroom. She said she wasn't kidding when she told me to bend over. Before she even got the hairbrush out I started crying. I begged my mom to change her mind but it was allready made up. She bent me over her lap and pulled down my pants AND underware. she spanked my long and hard. Then she let me pull up my undies and my pants and go back out. She made me go to bed early and sleep on my sore butt. My brothers kept making fun of my "new" dicipline. Mom said this will start happening more often. Do you think I had it coming? this happened today. I aint really asleep like she told me to. I better be careful. It happened like 5 mins ago.

2007-04-06 14:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous