Family - April 2007

some way to set up something for donations. I am a 21 year old female who had to leave the only home she knew to keep her family safe. I have no where to live, no furniture, and no money to get one. I have tried to get assisted living and welfare but they won't help me. If there is just some way to get back on my feet. I had to leave because there was nothing else for me to do. I had no other choice. Please those of you with rude comments do reply. If you know an easy pretty self effiecient way to set this up please let me know.

2007-04-09 03:25:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi,

I am married lady,25 yrs. working woman , CA.I am only child.
My inlaws are very social and kind of joint family. I find difficult to stay with them as mother in law's mentality is like housewife . she keeps herself occupied in household corus. Half of the time some or other relative is there at home. Even on holidays we cann't schedule our programme as most of the time relatives are at home. I dont get rest or feel like at my home. I spend very less to save for future ,however i feel they r spending lot. what to do? my hubby is not ready for separation and i find difficult to stay with them. what to do?
my hubby is kind of sidasad. he says time is only remedy for all the problem. I have married since last 4 years. My mother in law is not bad at all, but as I told I am working and that too C.A. , so need to spend more time on profession and she is homely purely housewife type. She doesn't understand need to stay home peacefully on weekend. I am planning for child next year.

2007-04-09 01:29:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She does everything for me and all I do is yell at her. I can't stand the fact she has everything I always wanted and NEVER gonner have?

2007-04-09 00:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by CC_Boobcock 2

2007-04-08 23:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a 6 year old boy, me and his dad split when he was 10 months old, afterwards we argued loads and to be petty he didn't see our son. maybe once or twice a year. i have been living with my current boyfriend for 15 months and he has been such a great dad to my son, i couldn't ask for a better dad for my child! recently though my son has been seeing his real dad again and has stayed at his twice now. both times on his return home he has been very withdrawn and not his usual bouncy ball self and he has been very defient to me and my partner when we ask him to do things or when he's been told no. this is very distressing to me and his step dad as he is a very good boy and we have seen a bad change in him when he's seen his real dad. i understand it must be a novelty when he goes and stays with him as they give in to any demands he has and they make such a fuss of him compared to the everyday routine we have at home. we don't want to stop the visits but we don't want his good behaviour to disappear because of the visits. my partner is finding it very hard as he loves my son as if he were his own. any advice??

2007-04-08 23:34:27 · 20 answers · asked by emz777uk 1

what can i dooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo she was an angry face bad tembered she beat us ussually so me and my friends do that and i am afraid tel my father what can i doooooooooooooooooooooooo????

2007-04-08 23:33:55 · 2 answers · asked by Nabilyon 1

The house next to mine lives a single mother with her 2 children (6 and 14 years old), they all live on welfare. everyday the mother screams at the kids, and the kids scream back. I've talked to her before on how their noise is runing my life, but nothing much has been done, she is still screaming, from 7am to 9 pm daily, they have no communication skills. I am sick of being 'nicely' asking them, can you give me some 'evil' strategies (legal ways) to stop this inconsiderable family ruining my life?

2007-04-08 23:26:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-08 20:00:43 · 7 answers · asked by jason c 1

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in September of 2006 and since then we have not been in contact since. I have not heard a single word from her. We were in a relationship for 2 years and 15 days and when we broke up I lost contact with her and her family.

But this past Wednesday, I received a call from her father. He left me a voicemail, saying he "was just wondering how I was doing, if I was still going to school in the city, talk to you later."

I called him back a couple hours later and he didn't answer so I left him a message saying hi and told him what was new in my life and school, and I told him that I was leaving to go back home in one month.

Why would he be calling me now? I mean, I haven't heard from him or his daughter who broke my heart in over 6 months.

Before the breakup there was mention of me transferring to another school, and in one month I have to go back to Arkansas for the summer. Could my ex have told him to call? Should I see her before I leave to go back home?

2007-04-08 19:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help me. i am only 17 and english is not my base language.and add more if you want . i am a amature photographer and want to send this mail to all of my friend.

thanks for your help.

dear rians

hope you are fine. beauty is very true and very hard to capture.
Most of the time I miss all the scenario what I want to capture by my camera.
here I tried little. India is a very nice country. And the sights are very beautiful.
i aslo believe you will agree with me. and please send me your photo comments on it.


thanks,
sonali

2007-04-08 18:28:49 · 3 answers · asked by golden_dream 1

one night in May 2006 my mother made my father go live with his mother, then that night unbeknownst to my brother, 22, sister, 19, and I, 21 she unplugged & hid the phone & went out and got her crazy online gf from Albany, NY who had taken the bus to MD and the next day rented a moving truck and we had to get everything we could in 1 day and everything else was abandoned, & move to Albany. In August my mother drove me back to MD for college, but her gf came along and yelled at me the entire way and cursed my mother's parents out when we got here and my mother did nothing but sit in the vehicle and look sad. But my mom's gf would just go on and on complaining about me and expect me to just sit there and LISTEN to her complain about me and do NOTHING.If I even tried to leave or cover my ears she would physically attack me and I would be in tears and no one would do ANYTHING. So was I really just supposed to sit there and LISTEN to her talk crap about me and do NOTHING? What would you do?

2007-04-08 17:56:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think graduating from High School is an important milestone and it should be celebrated. My 17 year old son wants nothing to do with a party. Do I go against his wishes and have one anyway? I have asked him why and he tells me no one would come (not true, of course) also said he doesn't want to be the center of attention. I would really appreciate some feedback on this. Thanks in advance.

2007-04-08 17:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by seashell 6

2007-04-08 16:22:04 · 10 answers · asked by brwneyes 1

2007-04-08 16:18:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont mean like spank, I mean hit you like in the arm or something. Cuz once my mom hit me with a wooden clothes hanger on my side, and it actually left a bruise. And this other time, she hit my across my face (I think that's what I remember I could be wrong) and another, it was on my arm. It was cuz she said I got an attitude, but should parents hit you about it, or is that just abuse? And I refuse to tell because we still love eachother and she told me she has a problem with controlling her anger.

2007-04-08 15:40:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my friend is pregnant and she asked me to be the god mother. well i dont have any kids, neices, or nephews so i took it to heart. but now she is "back friends" with a person she knew before me and now the other friend is the god mother. i was really emotional about this. do u think i have a right to be?

2007-04-08 15:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Bee 1

2007-04-08 14:50:04 · 18 answers · asked by Dalila 1

currently i live with my father and after 2 years i am close to killing him. we butt heads over every thing. now with in the past week i finalyy got a job but it only goes for 6 months.

would it be a good idea to move out even for just 4 months?

my father wants me to stay but i honestly grow to hate him every day.

i see him was weak and pathedic and i just cat stand him any more.

2007-04-08 13:13:20 · 17 answers · asked by strangequestions 1

i am a 29 years old and have a 56 abusive mother, all my life i remember she slapps me, bang my head to the wall, also verbally put me down on a daily basis, i've moved out 6 years ago and happily live with my boyfriend. I tried to keep a superficial relationship with my mother, but everytime i see her i feel insulted and abused emotionally, she says things like 'you are not very good looking', or 'you will never be as successful as me', or 'your boyfriend only loves you because he is sick, otherwise he wouldn't go out with you'. She is so poisonous and jealous of my life, always try to put me down with every chance. So i've decided to cut her out of my life by stop visiting or calling her. She calls me recently and said if i be a 'good' daughter, she may give me a house after she die, I have a well paid job but with house market so expensive its good to know i will get a free house, but is it worth it?

2007-04-08 12:07:38 · 23 answers · asked by df a 1

2007-04-08 12:06:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I am on disability and I get married will my new step children be eligable for benifits under me?

2007-04-08 11:56:36 · 1 answers · asked by aad1279 1

I think about how my mother will react, which pulls me back.

Sometimes I feel like a coward thinking of suicide and sometimes I feel like a coward not actually doing it.

I love this girl, 4 years and going. We wanted to get married in December, but at the last minute she couldn't make it. She thinks it is a sign, that it was never meant to be. She refuses to even pick up the phone.

She has a son, who is my world too. I love the both of them more than the whole world. It is impossible to not think about them. It is as if my home was broken even before it started.

Every morning I wake up wishing I did not. I just dont know ...

2007-04-08 11:31:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neighbours make my life hell, they are a family of four, the parents, one girl 12 and one boy 11, they keep diconnecting my phone line because they have acces to the main control box of the phone company, because she is the daughter of the owner of our block she thinks she can throw her weight about, they also do many other things to annoy me but I can't prove anything, especially as they seem to make the children do all the dirty work for them. What would you do?

2007-04-08 11:21:34 · 39 answers · asked by tencat 1

Ok so i'm 14 and 6 weeks pregnant!! I know i'm way 2 young but i messed up!! n i'm dealing with it.....me and my boyfriend told my parents....they just cryed and told me they were so disapointed but they'd help!! I have an older brother he's 17...when my parents and me told him he freaked out n started like screaming n sayin he was gonna kick my boyfriends a** ....there in the same year in highschool and go to the same school!! I'm really nervous incase they fight...whys he being like this?? is there anything i could say 2 make him calm down?? or things better?? please please help!!!!

2007-04-08 10:56:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She just moved in, because of her daughter, and i want her out and her dog! It may not happen soon but I am looking for a good answer.

2007-04-08 10:18:45 · 26 answers · asked by blue_eagle74 4

I have been divorced for a few years now. My parents are pressuring me to get resettled. They keep saying that I look too much at other married couples and compare their lives to mine.

I do feel lonely and can not talk to my parents much. I am taking my time finding someone though.

I am currently living with my parents. Its difficult dealing with them because they tell me their true feelings all of the time. They say "I don't know what I want to do with myself" and that they "can read my mind."

They say that if I really wanted to I would have been resettled by now. They want to find someone for me and I don't want them to.

Then I get pressure from my ex-husband that my child is not doing well. Its so confusing. I am getting hammered from every side.

My daughter is 14 and she lives in another state. I gave her Dad sole physical and legal custody during the divorce. Now he says I am responsible for her not doing well.

2007-04-08 09:33:25 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

i just saw a tv commercial where a man was trying to help his daughter with her homework over the computer and the mother walks in and asks him why he hasn't washed the dog yet, he tells her that he is helping his daughter with her homework and the women replies "jack, leave her alone" and his daughter gives her father a look of contempt. then the mother says "go wash the dog" or something like that.

i am very offended by that commercial and NO that is not funny. that's the most vulgar form of sexism i've ever seen.

could you imagine a commercial where a father tells his wife to leave her son alone and to go iron his shirt?

and don't give me that "men always did that on tv" crap either. i've never in my life seen a commerical or tv show where a man is openly nasty to his wife and deliberately makes her look like a fool in front of her children and it's supposed to be funny.

you can make all the excuses you want, but that is just downright wrong!!! why do we allow it?

2007-04-08 07:11:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom has been gone about 5 yrs now. My stepmom always calls me her daughter and her my mom on introductution. She has been good to me to some extent, but feel I might betray the bond I have with my mom even though she is gone if I did so. Any ideas?

2007-04-08 06:52:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Big Sister/ Brother Little Sister/brother program? Where can i sign up ?

2007-04-08 05:49:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today is Easter, and I am going to my grandmother's party in an hour. A lot of my relatives are going to be there. And it sometimes at her house can boring after a will. She has a TV in her Bedroom. I was thinking of bringing my PS2 and playing it in her bedroom partly today. Do you think I should?

2007-04-08 05:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous