Family - April 2007

I really don't like my step grandmother or aunt. My grandmother is weird, religous, and annoying. My aunt is overweight, which I can handle, but she smokes and she REEKS. I just got home from my vacation with my grandparents, and my mom said I was really short with my grandmother and blah. Over the summer, my aunt is visiting, but I'm going to try to hang out at a friend's...what should I do?

2007-04-10 15:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by jose c 1

Sunday she said " your just a freak all you do is sit in your room trying to slice your rest know one even cares

2007-04-10 14:54:59 · 2 answers · asked by penny p 1

2007-04-10 14:35:37 · 33 answers · asked by ♥ Tia Alexandria ♥ 3

We have no formal or court ordered custody agreement, only a child support judgement. I have decided that until his father gets professional help for his alcoholism, that I will not allow him to take him from where we live, back to his home. He can only come here and visit with him. If he pursues this in court, do I have a right to request he have only be allowed visitation in my son's primary home (mine). It doesn't necessarily have to be supervised, just away from the alcohol. Aside from his alcoholism, he and I are probably as close as people can be without being together. We both love our son very much, and care for eachother very deeply. I have no problem with him being in my home, thats not the issue, I just don't want his son growing up around a drunk. I don't want him to have a lifetime of dissapointments because his father can't get his act together. He hasn't been a threat as of yet, but who knows...it can only get worse if he doesn't get professional help.

2007-04-10 14:35:26 · 5 answers · asked by AnswerWhore 2

ok he's tha prob i want 2 get my cell phone updated rite my dad said yes but my mom said no and its not likeshe pays 4 it anyway my mom is being very bitchy 2 me when i ask her ......... spike tha fact she took my phone and put it in tha tarsh no lie and told me leave it ......................what should i do

2007-04-10 14:27:30 · 8 answers · asked by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3

i recently just saved up enough money for a ps3 20gb, from money from relatives from holidays and other little things, my parents have honestly barely helped me get the 500. anyway, i got enough money, and today i asked my parents if they would simply give me a ride and pay the difference for the tax (i need like 30 bucks for tax, not too much) so i ask them tonight at the table if they would give me a ride and pay difference, my dad immediatly refuses with no reason as to why and refuses to pay difference (mind you he never helped me get the money for the ps3). now my dad starts work at 8am and is finished at 6. thats 10 hours. skool for me is 7. he claims to be tired everyday after work. its BS b/c he so,etimes does stuff arounmd the house easily and watches tv and eats, so his not rele tired alot. anyway, bottom line, im 15 and it took me months to get 500 bucks. im simply asking my folks to pay a simple 30 bucks and gimme a ride. they say NO with no reason. is this fair?

2007-04-10 14:19:58 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend been trying to get child custody of his son and trying to prove the court that the the mother only using the child for money. She's been filing false charges against my friend but they been dropped due to lack of evidence. Ok to make the story short, the child is presently staying with the mom but the child is constantly absent from school. He's either late or absent and when he's in school he seems like he's not interested like before. Everytime the child is absent my friend would ask his ex why is not in school, she would always say that is is not feeling well. My friend is the one providing health insurance to his son but when he asked the Physician's office to if he can see the medical records they declined because the mom gave a letter saying not to give any information to the dad and even included in the letter that she has a restraining order against the dad (of course it's not true). Can she do that or the Physician office deny access medical records?

2007-04-10 13:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Yna28 1

racial slurs against her boyfriend?

2007-04-10 13:08:30 · 15 answers · asked by judy f 3

He is addicted to meth and gets really crazy. He has ADHD too. He has guns. He's had trouble with the law many times. I am worried about my two little grandchildren. My daughter keeps hoping he will just get better. She focuses more on him than the kids. We know he won't get better any time soon. Should I make a report to a family services agency? The children have shown signs of abuse. CPS has already visited them. Would they do anything with this additional information, and would my daughter have the children taken away? I can't just watch and wait while this damage is being done. What else can grandparents do?

2007-04-10 13:03:00 · 6 answers · asked by ladystardonna 2

I am sure there are countless mothers whose child is about , or is sure to be deployed. Our children are the most precious thing in life to us. We are proud of them beyond measure and at the same terrified at what they are about to face. What we say may be our last words spoken to this precious being. We want them to have comfort and strength in our words. We want them to return to us safe and sound , to know our pride and love . I know my own child will remember every word I say , and maybe at a point that these words could be the thought on his mind at a crucial time.
I do not want him to remember a terrified tearful mom. I will be, but I want to give him strength , to know my pride and love. I want him to be safe and careful. I know this man child is so brave , to the point that he would be the hero. I want him to be brave and proud, I want him to come home safe too. I am so torn at the right thing to say. I want someone that has been there to talk to me.
A proud terrifed Mom.

2007-04-10 13:01:19 · 5 answers · asked by linda b 1

hii.. I was just wondering if you were ever pttyy trained and how old you were...i just turned 13 and my parents still think im tooo young..but w/e theyre usually right.plus im homeschooled soo..a diaper never hurts..theyre actually quitew comfy on my lil bottiiie haha srry TMI .. .THANKS for your answers i greatly appreciate your help.<3

2007-04-10 12:41:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever been in situations where you had no other choice but to trust god instead of relying on yourself?

2007-04-10 11:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by wiser 1 3

my dad lives in maine and i just got a report card wih 2 Fs 2 Ds and a C+ so i was wondering how to break the news to him over the phone. My grades are always pretty vbad but thi is the worst of the year. And please when you answer this dont lecture me on how its my fault about the grades and whatever you want to say because ive been brought up by my mother and we dont believe in the school system and im probably just goin to be homeschooled next year anyways. So i would just like some advice and if you were wondering no he's not in support of the homeschooling as a matter of fact he doesnt even know yet.

2007-04-10 11:38:19 · 29 answers · asked by your biggest fan 1

ok, i owe my mom $195. and i need a way to pay here back without giving here any $$$.
what are good ideas for a way to pay a mother back without giving here any $$$. if there are mothers reading this, what are the type of jobs a mother would want there son to do for $195 dollars.

2007-04-10 10:37:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

A trust fund was set up for my cousin in the 1980s. He was married about 12 years ago and his wife claims he is now broke. How can this be verified? His father said he had put away enough for him to live comfortably after he had passed.

2007-04-10 08:44:23 · 2 answers · asked by shirline g 2

i have had some bumps in my life and my friends influences and i blew that last few times. Any suggestions for them to trust me again

2007-04-10 07:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by blackshadowbabe33 1

I just found out that the father of my 11 yo is not her father. How do I tell her? Her real father is in the picture now - we are dating again.

2007-04-10 07:10:56 · 14 answers · asked by sunshine39kkla 1

My daughter's 1st birthday party will be taking place in about 3 months from now. Sadly I recently lost my cousin and his father (my uncle) within the past 4 months (these are close relatives on my dad's side of the family). My original plan was to invite my relatives from both my mom and dad's side of the family to my child's 1st birthday party in July. I am planning to invite my other aunts and cousins from my dad's side. Is it better to send my greiving relatives an invitation too, or should I not send one to them at all. I don't want them to feel hurt (if I do not send them an invite) and I don't want to be rude (if they have no desire to attend). Please help me in this delima.

2007-04-10 06:58:53 · 16 answers · asked by Tacymevol 5

I am wondering if my daughters biological father gives up all his rights so he doesn't have to pay child support will his mother still be able to file for grandparents rights?

2007-04-10 06:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by cat 1

My 22 year old cousin move in with us and while he lived there i partied and drank. He never did anything wrong though. But when he left they raid my room and found alcohol. So now that they found out i still talk to him they want to call my probation officer and have me removed from my house.idk what to do!

2007-04-10 06:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by Danyell M 1

Long story short, our families do not like each other, but my family just wants us to be happy so they're not a problem. But my in-laws from day 1 has made it their mission to tear us apart. Now, they want me to cut off my family. What do I do?

2007-04-10 06:18:23 · 28 answers · asked by hsk 1

okay so I spoke with a lawyer and she informed me that I can do one of two things......I could 1-Not put him on the BC since we were never married I don't have to and if child support is all he's worried about then he won't take me to court (this worries me just because if he decides to then I don't know what my chances are of getting Sole or Physical Custody. The 2nd potion she gave me was to go ahead and put his name on the BC ,file my custody paperwork but he has every right to the baby as much as I do and if I were to tell him one day no I don't want you to take the baby today then he could get the Sherrifs to come and make me. She then pulled up his record and showed me that he had a little bit of one.........a support order already on him by some woman...a restraing order that had been put on him by another woman....and a domestic violence or dipute against him by his now current wife....which she had file a couple years ago on him. It made me nervous then as to what to do

2007-04-10 06:05:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl is my sister in law and for 7 years she has tried to turn our family against me and my husband against me too. she wont stop. she harasses on myspace and all my emails and has even talked to my friends about me saying lies. i am 6 months pregnant and the stress is kicking in alot. what is it i can do legally?

2007-04-10 05:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Wendy T 1

My brother is 19 and was arrested yesterday and is in jail becuase my paents won't pay bond to get him released. It's not that much - $600 - but they say they are trying to teach him a lesson but this is his first time in trouble.

I'm 21 and been there twice - once for 30 days and once for 6 months - and know what it's like and I don't think it's right that they want to leave him there. I'm trying to get the cash together for him.

2007-04-10 04:14:48 · 14 answers · asked by Jamie 1

I am 17 and i haven't seen my dad since i was 4 years old. I have brothers and sisters i have never met and would like to find out about them. My dad's name is/was Toby Mitchell. Or atleast that's what i know him as! Does anyone know how i could find out who they are? Please help me if you can!

2007-04-10 02:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by sahara 1

My siginificant other works all day, then goes to school every night, while I work and take care of his child. I am a great mom, to his kid and mine, I also work too. I am just so mad that I do all household stuff, he has no responsibility except to himself, and the only thing he says when he comes home last night is to complain about how my son wasted half a can of diet soda by not drinking it all. No kind words, nothing nice, just come home complaining after I took wonderful care of 3 boys all day. All I wanted was to be held or kissed or to talk about our days, but I got nothing. I pay my fair share of expenses too, and do everything at the house.

2007-04-10 02:32:14 · 16 answers · asked by T C 2

I have the persons social security number, date of birth and that they may be living in bronx ny

2007-04-10 01:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by Leasing O 1

My parents have three 8" x 10" pictures of myself and my ex-husband prominently displayed in their living room. I have asked a couple of times if they wouldn't mind moving them as I find it upsetting to see them every time I visit but they refuse on the grounds that it reminds them of "a lovely day".

I have now met someone else who I'd like to introduce to my parents but these pictures are putting me off taking him there. Should I broach the subject again or am I being too sensitive?

2007-04-10 01:43:50 · 22 answers · asked by Acey_Face_67 1

i'm 18 highschool dude, and i used to work at grocery store for months and made some big chunk of money
my father tells me to save the whole thing for college
and i kinda agree w/ em since i need a laptop anyways

today i was gonna get my paycheck and cashed out, cuz i needed a haircut. but then my parent called me and said 'dont u get yer paycheck cashed out! take money from my drawer and save the paycheck!'

well, i got a haircut anyways but whenever i needed to spend money, i need to use his money, not mine
and he has to know wat im spendin money on. he thinks im gonna do drugs or somethin if he doesnt care. lol wat the hell?

how should i persuade him to let me use my own money?

trust me, i tried almost everything. but my father is stubborn as hell

help me!

2007-04-10 01:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son is 12 and my daughter is 9. over the last 2 months or so their attitude has changed drastically! No changes in the household at all...everything is pretty much the same. They are still reasonably happy, but they seem to be finding any reason possible to be lazy, find trouble, talk back, give attitude, and generally drive me nuts! Love them dearly but I have no clue as to why the sudden change....and in both of them! Help?

2007-04-10 01:04:14 · 11 answers · asked by groundpounders'R'us 2