my husband and i moved in this past august with my parents.and there have been a lot of problems in our marriage b/c of it.my mom is prying into our business (looking at our bills/pay/bank statements) to make sure we aren't mooching off of her (not going out to eat, or making unnecessary purchases.) the agreement was to clean the house every week, which is fine. my hubby got a 2nd job so we could have a little spending money, but now are under such scrutiny every time we go out. where are you going, why are you going, don't spend any money. it's awful. i really feel as if i'm 15 again. i understand that my parents have gone out of their way for us, but no matter what i do, my mom is looking to pick a fight (just like when i was in high school)...i mean, i've graduated college and have been married for almost 2 years. she just is out to fight with me. anyway, we want to move, but are worried she will hate us forever...we're really not in a financial position to move again.
2007-04-01
07:33:17
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