2007-04-01 10:59:49 · 7 answers · asked by melissa r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Let it out you shouldn't keep your feelings on the inside and someone askes you,"Why the hell you crying for." And you anwers and they reply," Get over it! People die it's life!" Ignore them its bad to keep things lock up inside. Hope you or someone you know feels better!
2007-04-01 11:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by xxwolfgurlxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, death is never an easy thing to cope with, especially if its someone that was very close to us. It's only natural that you would react this way...there's no certain period of when you will get over something like this. Everyone has their own time for grieving and healing. One suggestion is to join a group therapy session with others who have experienced the same thing or an individual session with a professional. You need to be with others who are going through with what you are going through or get help from someone else who can offer some good advice for you. Hang in there, sweetie.
2007-04-01 18:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Da Z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit on grieving for a lost loved one.But there are some very good councelling groups out there that will help you deal with it.You are not alone and you should talk to your doctor about this.Look in the phonebook for councelling .
2007-04-01 18:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever forget about your family member, but don't spend all of your life mourning over something that already happened and cannot be changed. Try to turn the person that you lost into memories, it really helps a lot.
2007-04-01 18:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by just me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it took me more than a year to get through the death of my mom and i was 34 at the time. i went to the cemetary every day. i parked near the gravesite and played the same sad song over and over. i literally thought i was going crazy. then,one day, i just felt better. i don't know why it happened,it just did. we all greive in different ways. give yourself some time. get out and do things. see your friends,go to the movies, talk about the one who passed. these things may help you. talk to your family about this. maybe they can help. feel better.
2007-04-01 18:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being i'm going threw this myself and honestly the best medicine for losing a loved one is letting it all out, talk about them, and if you got to cry go right ahead cry. It hurts like hell sometimes but in the end its well worth the time you had with them.
2007-04-01 18:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by simcrazylaura 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i just found out that my grandmother just died this morning april 1st and couldn't belive when i heard it. now i have to fly to michigan for her funeral. i was crying, shock, and kinda can't believe that it actually happened. this totally took my day up side down i have been upset and depressed everysince.
2007-04-01 19:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋