Family - April 2007

I brought him home - he met my dad and mom - they spoke for sometime - he even gave them chocolates - my guy asked dad about his golfing and spoke about the church which dad is fond of most - I offered them some sprite - they chatted about the weather in my boyfriends hometown - he was so cheerful and friendly - he didnt mess up - he kinda created a good impression - He talked about the small business he does for a living - I was so shy and feeling edgy - dad is possessive about me - feels I am his little baby - wants a guy who is a devouted christian - my guy and I dated many years now - he is a convert to christianity - can it work? - can things go well? - I am so happy they met after almost 9 years - can I make him a devouted christian? - I am unsure and afraid and insecure... I want him to love the lord Jesus. He comes from a hindu family. But realises the value of Christ. Does he have to keep comin to meet my parents? How often before the wedding?

Thank you very much !

2007-04-03 04:26:47 · 10 answers · asked by MafiaGal 4

For 5 years now I've put up with her snide comments, bringing up his ex girlfriends in conversation (even though I'm told she detested every single one of em) and her telling me how to run my own home and bring up my daughter! I'm starting to lose patience. The hubby knows what she's like but his hands are tied. HELP!!

2007-04-03 03:59:15 · 21 answers · asked by angel.eyes5560 2

Last night I had trouble sleeping. When I did get to sleep, I dreamt about my sister who died a month ago today. All we could do was hold each other in the dream. She was saying stuff that didn't make any sense, but the one thing she said I heard clear as day. She said, "Mom and Dad ran me out of town." Our dad threw her out of the house when she was a teenager and has hated him ever since.

I haven't had any dreams about her since she died, and I'm kind of unsettled by it. In fact, it's making me remember how much I miss her, and I'm trying not to cry my eyes out again. Is it normal to have dreams about dead loved ones, and how long will this continue? In addition, is she trying to communicate with me?

2007-04-03 03:31:39 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle T 2

I am 21 and my sister is 30....for a while now we have only seen each other on holidays, just about two weeks ago I started calling her for recipes and then I got her e-mail address, so I e-mailed her and asked her to be the maid of honor in my wedding and for my niece to be the flower girl....but she was very rude to me and said things like "me bieng your maid of honor isn't going to magically make us closer" and things like that? what should i do?

2007-04-03 02:16:13 · 6 answers · asked by Sam Fisher 3

he has blue eyes and no hair go tee and mustace he does proctor roofing and worked on farm a little big and he just had an operation he is funny and play pool and once he meets you he will like you as a friend if that is how you treat him

2007-04-03 01:51:59 · 11 answers · asked by fleo 3

Step daughter left her mothers home to go and live with her boyfriend. My husband took her to court to stop child support and won. The judge declared her to be emancipated. This was bag in Aug/Sept. She applied to school and was accepted. She now lives on campus. Her mother just petitioned for child support. Can she do that?

2007-04-03 01:29:18 · 8 answers · asked by mackey208 2

she belive's i may have sex with my boyfriend in her bed we have sex but never ever in her bed now he cant even come in our house now she doesn't trust me how can i get my mother's trust back

2007-04-03 01:24:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

on sunday nite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! after vodka frenzy, all i know is i got 3 violation notices!!!!!!!!! ooooops!! sorry if i caused offence to anyone out there

2007-04-02 22:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by oldybutgoody 2

my dad told me the music i listen to is rubbish but i have to listen to their music all the time in the house and i dont discriminate against it

2007-04-02 19:50:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is really anoying and he asks questions all the time he says "will you play baseball,basketball,football,bones playstation,, get me this go get me that..

2007-04-02 15:38:37 · 1 answers · asked by fleo 3

My mom has a huge drinking problem.... every day she gets drunk and then comes home and starts blabbering about some stupid **** and the smallest thing will start an angry frenzy when shes drunk and we keep getting into fights and shes being a little ***** and says that she doesnt need to help her drinking problem.......plz help.........

2007-04-02 15:37:40 · 12 answers · asked by I hate the world 1

I ripped my sisters piano book because I was mad that my mom threw away my seventeen magazine, but then I found the seventeen magazine!!

What do I do. Already my dad has stopped talking to me because my sister complained of me and now my mom(who is the only person on my side) will start hating me also!! What do I do!!!.


Its beyond tapeable. I

2007-04-02 15:28:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother was never there for us and left my to raise my two younger siblings. She comes and goes as she pleases these past 10 years. Well now she is back and says it has all changed, wants to be with us again. She done this before and left, so i dont know if i can trust her to even for give her? i believe in second chances but how many after that are you suppose to give?

2007-04-02 15:01:32 · 29 answers · asked by papillongirl 3

I am currently 13 years old and for the past two months, I have been crying every single night. At school, I am always grinning ear to ear and joking and am so relieved when the weekend gets over(because schools back). I stay as long as possible after school, because I dread coming home.

At home, I am always frowning, and my parents are always yelling at me. Sometimes, I feel like I fall into a depression right after I arrive home from school. For the first half an hour its ok; my sister doesnt get home yet. But after that half an hour, I feel like im in hell

I have stopped eating at home, to avoid my family, and am usually locked up in my room. My dad doesnt talk to me anymore because I didnt want to eat that much.

Is it possible that im in a half-depression? I am jolly and happy in school, but sad and frowny at home

2007-04-02 14:50:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my sister are locked out and my sister really needs to use the bathroom. reasons why she cant....
1. were locked out
2. we live near woods in an unpopulated area so not alot of neighibors
3. our parents arnt home

She really needs help (i have my laptop)

2007-04-02 14:48:18 · 20 answers · asked by cutiek 1

My little brother is 9 years old and I am 13, and his hobby is annoying me. And it always works, and it always amuses him. What can I do to stop him from annoying me?

2007-04-02 14:38:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday I posted a question regarding my father speaking badly about me. Well, today I went to speak with the life insurance guy about life insurance and low and behold guess who had been in there talking about me not even an hour before I got there?!!!! My father!!!!! I have had it. My husband and I own a business which includes our last name in it and this is only destroying our business image that my husband has worked so hard to make successful. I don't want to sue him for money, I think that is stupid. But is there some type of court order ordering him to stop talking to others about me? I don't want this jerk to ruin our business b/c he wants everyone to feel sorry for him.

2007-04-02 14:32:13 · 5 answers · asked by insuringu 1

2007-04-02 14:24:37 · 1 answers · asked by tuesday 2

2007-04-02 14:14:58 · 15 answers · asked by racer 51 7

My son 13 doesn't want to participate in anything. We have to make him and his attitude stinks at times. Is this just a phase or problems with self-esteem at this age?

2007-04-02 14:05:44 · 8 answers · asked by anjoek5859 3

When I was in high school there were a group of girls that made fun of me because I was fat, nerdy with glasses, and a social outkast. Since now it has been 3 years in high school and I am the man. I now lift weights and wear the baddgest urban wear. I also have alot of women after me. When I went back home I rejected and disses some of those same girls who now wanted me after being mean to me in the past. Is this great revenge?

2007-04-02 12:19:30 · 14 answers · asked by Shawn G 1

My mom is a single parent of 2 (including myself), never married. I moved out of her house 3 years ago. I live 2 hours away from her. As of January, my half-brother also moved out of the house, only until June, and lives 2-3 hours away from her. Him moving out was hard on her. She'd cry a lot and told me she thinks she depressed. She has thought of going to a doctor for depression pills, which I think is not neccessary.
Now, she comes home from work, to an empty house.
As of November, she has been talking to a guy, 5 years older than me, who lives in India. She called me up last week and told me that she is thinking of marrying this guy, and moving to India to be with him! She has never met this guy in person.
Is she going through a phase? What should I do? Should I tell her that I think she's going through a mid-life crisis? Any thoughts or advice?

2007-04-02 12:18:30 · 27 answers · asked by Red 3

My step daughter has claimed my son has molested her, and everywhere I call doesn't offer help for the accused. I need information and help on how to talk to my son and where to get him professional help. DCFS and the schools are involved. I have no one I can talk to, my husband doesn't want any family to know.

2007-04-02 11:42:12 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle V 1

I am quite upset w/my cousin , his wife & my daughter for them all going against my wishes for my daughter to allow them to supposedly have a temporary custody (verbal agreement for now) to have my 4 yr. old grandaughter. There are many reasons given by my daughter for doing this that I can't go into but basically; depression. She has two other kids 2 yr., & 5 yr. & they all live w/me & only the youngest's father is involved. My cousins mother condones this & they all talk behind my daughters & I back, but my cousin & his wife wouldn't stay away from my house until they got my grandaughter. I hate that my daughter allowed this to happen & am asking her why she didn't let me have her to raise, but she won't talk to me about it. My son & I bother are upset & don't want anything to do w/them as we feel my cousins wife manipulates her in-laws, & whenever I'am w/my grand it hurts too much to send her back to them when I can see she is getting very distant from her immediate family.

2007-04-02 11:23:24 · 3 answers · asked by sissytwo 3

I'm 21 and am still living at home. I'm the only child and will be starting college in september to get my bsn (bachelor of nursing) degree. The thing is that I will be going to school local, and still living at home; I plan to graduate than maybe live at home until I can get enough money to buy a house, but the thing is my mother does'nt ever want me to leave home. If she had it her way I would be living with her forever, but I don't want to. She's very overprotecting, and I kinda feel dependant on her. Do you think I'm in a strange family situation. Love my mom; but man do I wanna get away sometimes.

2007-04-02 10:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by LG_89 2

my mom had put a restraining order on my x-boyfriend last year when i was 16 and he just turned 19. the judge had mentioned that he wasnt sure if i could change it when i turned 17 in october, and i was wondering if anyone knew if i could. im 17 1/2 now and he just had turned 20 a couple days ago. the restraining order is until july, however i would rather it be off. Im not sure if i can get if off now that i am older. There was no abuse or any reason for the restraining order besides my mothers grudge and jelousy towards him. Does anyone know if there's anything i can do?

2007-04-02 10:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my sister she must hate me like seriously, she told me many times today that she did hate me. I told her that it really sucks to hear that, but i'll pray for her. I really feel crappy. All of this was brought on because she goes to her b/f's house and she'll come home and you know that they messed around, well my mom found out they were messin around. My Gram (mom's mom) died 3 weeks ago so my mom is like sooo sad, and then she finds out this crap about my sis. I think that my sister is sooo selfish. But I lover her. What should i do to make her not hate me anymore? Lotsa answers plzzzz....Thanks

2007-04-02 10:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by Hayley 3

My brother and his girlfriend just had a baby about 5 months ago. But now they're going through some trouble and she doesn't want to let him see the baby. The thing is that he had to go to work when they brought papers to sign at the hospital and right after he left the hospital was when his girlfriend signed them, but she didn't put his name on the birth certificate. Could she have put his name on it even though he wasn't there or did he need to be there? Because she is claiming she couldn't. But I think she is doing it on purpose so he won't have any rights over the baby. What can my brother do?

2007-04-02 10:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bro is a pain in an @zz :-)

2007-04-02 09:58:27 · 5 answers · asked by gnlcs13 2

I have been out of my parent's house since I got married in 2002, My sister has always been really rude to my Dad, but lately it is out of control. She is about to turn 21, but still lives with our parents, it is their house and she refuses to "put up or shut up".

My Dad has started having health problems lately every now & then.. the doctors thought he had cancer on his tongue, when she found out her reply was "good, maybe they will cut your tongue out so you can't talk to me anymore".. My mom just told me that she had said this and I'm completely appalled by this.

So, My question is.. What can I do to make her see what she is doing to our Dad, he has always been there for us, and provided a really nice life for our family when we were kids, but my sister still refuses to have any respect for him whatsoever. What could I say to make her realize that words really can scar the soul?

2007-04-02 09:56:51 · 4 answers · asked by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6