I ripped my sisters piano book because I was mad that my mom threw away my seventeen magazine, but then I found the seventeen magazine!!
What do I do. Already my dad has stopped talking to me because my sister complained of me and now my mom(who is the only person on my side) will start hating me also!! What do I do!!!.
Its beyond tapeable. I
2007-04-02 15:28:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you already ripped it there is nothing that you can do about it. But you could apologize.. That is your only choice..
2007-04-02 15:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to buy your sister a new piano book. Take whatever money you have, put it in an envelope along with a sincere letter of apology to your sister and your parents for being such an emotional, destructive person. If you don't have enough money yet, give them a plan of how you are going to earn that money and humbly ask your parents if they will advance you the money until you can pay them back.
The key to this is that you have to mean it and you have to stop throwing these hissy fits everytime something happens that you didn't plan or you don't like. You need to develop emotional strength and not take your moods out on other people.
2007-04-02 22:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should sit down with your family and tell them how you were feeling when you did these things. Tell them just what it felt like when you were so mad at that time tell them you were not thinking clear only with anger. Let them know that you are sorry for the past and want to try and be better.Ask them to help you and ask that the family all start a new. It is not good for family to stop talking and be upset with eachother some of us do not have moms and dads or children so we must all be greatfull that we are blessed with family and know that they will not be there forever.... Good luck..
2007-04-02 22:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oooh, boy. Those awkward, awful moments when we've thrown a hissy fit and discovered that we had no reason to. Worse than embarrassing yourself is finding out after the fact that you're in the wrong. What fun.
What to do? Well, look at it this way - you have before you a golden, beautiful opportunity to grow up a little. What you do next depends on what kind of person you want to be.
If you want to be the kind of person who is strong enough to admit her mistakes and try to make them better, you ask for a family meeting. You then apologize, calmly and very sincerely, to your sister for flying off the handle, and for wrecking something you knew she loved. You apologize to your parents for upsetting them. You offer to replace the piano book, out of your savings, allowance, or by doing extra chores to earn the money from your parents. If that's the case, then you ask them to buy her a new book and work out a schedule of chores for you to do to earn it, because it's not fair for her to have to wait for the new book.
If they've already bought her one, then you insist - not offer, insist - on paying for it or working for it.
And next time you start to get in over your head, you make a point of stopping and deciding to get all of the facts before you react.
It's not the mistake - we all make mistakes - that define us, it's the next thing we do after the mistake is made. Good luck!
2007-04-02 23:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to have learned a lesson. Don't assume that people have taken your stuff. And if they did, find out why before reacting....
Now you owe your sister and the family an apology and offer to buy a new book for her.....
Good luck.
2007-04-02 22:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like YOU have to buy another book and sincerely apologize.. and my dear, grow up! Retaliation is not an answer, its an excuse to be foolish.
2007-04-02 22:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by deanie1962 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that what i would do in this situation is i would start saving up your allowance (if you have any) or do some extra house work to save up and buy her a new one and in the future think before you do something like that
2007-04-02 22:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Olibaba KerenOr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize, own up to your actions, and tell them that you understand that what you did was inmature and that you hope they can understand you werent really thinking when you went about doing that
2007-04-02 22:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by a_brendabitches 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all there is to do is take the heat for what you done. i really don't think your mother will hate you! Mothers seem to understand a lot more than what you think.
2007-04-02 22:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offer to buy her a new book.
2007-04-02 22:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋