I brought him home - he met my dad and mom - they spoke for sometime - he even gave them chocolates - my guy asked dad about his golfing and spoke about the church which dad is fond of most - I offered them some sprite - they chatted about the weather in my boyfriends hometown - he was so cheerful and friendly - he didnt mess up - he kinda created a good impression - He talked about the small business he does for a living - I was so shy and feeling edgy - dad is possessive about me - feels I am his little baby - wants a guy who is a devouted christian - my guy and I dated many years now - he is a convert to christianity - can it work? - can things go well? - I am so happy they met after almost 9 years - can I make him a devouted christian? - I am unsure and afraid and insecure... I want him to love the lord Jesus. He comes from a hindu family. But realises the value of Christ. Does he have to keep comin to meet my parents? How often before the wedding?
Thank you very much !
2007-04-03 04:26:47 · 10 answers · asked by MafiaGal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He even met the church pastor today. All went wonderfully well; by gods grace. I feel god was there and ordained this to happen. ...
2007-04-03 05:26:45 · update #1
sounds like you're with a good guy who's willing to convert and become a christian for you! i'm sure talking about your dad's favorite church really helped win your parents over. he should not have to continually meet with your parents but i'm sure you want them to have a relationship. i would talk to your parents and your church's pastor to see if there's any sort of waiting period that's mandatory or that they would like you to have before marrying.
2007-04-03 04:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by JM 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he should try to build some kind of relationship with the family and seems to have gotten off to a good start. Why would you even question how often he should meet your parents? They are your parents after all and if you marry him he will be thier son-in-law. Family are still part of your life whether you get married or not. He will just be an extention of that family. Why is it that you waited so long to introduce him to your family?
2007-04-03 04:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by susie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woah, you are rushing this, aren't you? I don't mean to offend you, but take it as you will. If you really like, and even love somebody, why does it matter if they love the "good lord Jesus"? Don't you bible huggers believe you can pray someone into heaven? Let me tell you something, if you let your parents control your life like that to where you are trying to convert him to a new religion and make him love a god, you will never be happy. You will try to control and smother every boy you meet. Is your boyfriend dating your dad, or you??
2007-04-03 04:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by cosmicmonster 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot make him a Christian. This needs to come from him.
Why have you been dating for 9 years without getting married? Is it because you are not sure you want to marry him, or because he is not sure he wants to marry you?
If either of you is not sure after 9 years, you are wasting your time. Break up and find somebody who really wants you, and whom you really want.
2007-04-03 04:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE CHANCE THEIR CHRISTIAN BELIEFS FOR YOU!!!! THAT IS JUST SELFISH....
I suggest you chill and let things flow the way they are... if you change it, you might mess it all UP... just be happy that you have a great guy on your side, don't try to make him PERFECT like Jesus... please...
Good Luck...
2007-04-03 04:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems you are walking down a good path the both of you
meeting with the parents as ofthen as you like and as ofthen as they want
God Bless You Both
2007-04-03 04:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a looser. Instead of being proud of being a hindu the pu$$y wipped guy decides to convert himself and give up his great religion. Please keep away from such coward pu$$y wipped guys. He will be to no good in the long run. If he meets a pretty muslim girl he may convert to islam and leave you. JMHO.
2007-04-03 08:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Prabhu 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
what are you doing. mafia?? if you want to change his believes you want to make him like you, thats bad and wont work. second if he tryes to change then he dont have a true and powerfull personality. maybe i am wrong but thats what i think right now, so, think and take the best decision. go find a real christian.
2007-04-03 19:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by histvel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hahahahaha corky is riggghttttt. Your crazy, do you know that? God is scared of your kind of people.
2007-04-04 05:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by mmm 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your boyfriend must be blind and your parents were drunk when they conceived you.
2007-04-04 05:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Satellite Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋