my grandfather is dying and i hardly know him. My grandma divorced him when my mom was a teen and he remarried and he doesnt even spend time w/ his blood daughter but he spent a lot of time w/ his step kids and grandkids , he is not a bad person its just he married someone very mean and she would never let us see him and now he is dying and i dont now him..... and i have never had a grandpa ever.. pray for me and my family plz and give me some advice plz god bless u all
2007-04-06 17:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by ♥AbeRcRoMbiEhOTTiE♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If possible spend some time with your grandpa. Take a tape recorder and record your conversations. Ask him questions about his life and feelings. Tell him you are sorry you were not able to spend time with him while you were growing up. Please spend time with him, you will never regret it. God bless you.
2007-04-06 17:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just prayed for you and your family - yes, everyone. Now, go talk with your Mother, because you both need to go see him. Forget the mean wife ... forget about the past ... today is reality. His days on this earth are numbered, and only God knows the day, hour, second, that He will take him. So don't go through life with regrets. Be the bigger person and make the wrong a right. Do the right thing, please. My guess is that he will welcome you both ... a forgiving heart is priceless and a gift from God. So do God proud and go visit and forgive your grandpa. You can't change yesterday, but you can change tomorrow. Sure it will be a difficult visit but I assure you that you will be a stronger person for it, and many years from now you will be ever-so-glad that you chose to do the right thing. God bless you and keep you always.
2007-04-07 00:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you never had a relationship with him this is sad, but it doesn't really affect you...like if it were someone close to you. People always try to get close when people are dying and that makes no sense to me. If it mattered it would have been done before.
God Bless.
2007-04-07 00:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by aprilandroland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you judging him as good without actually knowing him and bad your grandma who you do know??? if you can, go and see him. If not, just call any of his step kids and say how you feel, ask them to share with you how he was and get some closure on it. He could have tried harder to see you but it is too late to try to understand what happened plus it is none of your business. Jut look for closure, go and see him or call anybody that really knows him well. They may even pass the message to him even if you can't go yourself to say goodbye.
2007-04-07 00:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by SuperDomesticEngineer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry that you didn't know your grandfather, but I am sure he loves all of you, and he should of kept in touch with you all even though he married someone else. If you know his address send him a card .and tell him how you feel. my prayers are with you and your family .
2007-04-07 00:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know my grandfather died when i was six, and for me he was the coolest granpa. i loved him dearly eventhough i was 6, anyway it just that i think the little time you have with your grandpa talk to him, tell him stuff (jokes, stories etc...) becuase you don't want him to go without having no good memories in your heart and in his.
2007-04-07 00:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by skayla_skirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are...but if possible, go see your grandfather. Talk with him and get to know him as he gets to know you. If his wife won't permit it then maybe you can call him...but if she has any heart at all, she will allow you to visit with him
2007-04-07 00:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sad :(...Is there a way now you can see him? Do what you can to be able to, even if you have to put up with stepgranmonster...I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers...
2007-04-07 00:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please visit him and pay your respects when it dose happen and as far as step grandparent kill her with kindness get what few memories you can get while you still have a chance stories about his family his child hood so you can pass them to your child some day get a photo also with you and him together they are priceless after death will keep you in my prayers
2007-04-07 00:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by family fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him as much as you can with the time you have left with him.
2007-04-07 00:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋