he keeps on trying to change who i am, and he's a sexist, and he expects me to do all the work in my house, and my brothers do nothing. !!!
2007-04-06 19:48:08 · 3 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Write him a letter and explain how unfair he is being to you by not making your brothers share the work load. Talk to your mother or another relative and enlist her help. He is going to regret his actions one day if he doesn't change his ways. Don't let him kill your spirit. Good luck.
2007-04-06 19:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling my dad is sexist and also a bigot, and it seems like everything you say to him is wrong or stupid and he never listens to what you have to say. Well, I have been in that situation before and just do your best in school so that you can afford to go wherever you want when youre 18. Just wait it out, and that is the best advice I can offer because if you argue then thats just gonna make things worst.
Also, if you are close to your brothers or mom explain how you feel, and how upset you are, and also ask them to help out. I hope it works out.
2007-04-07 03:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by dancingqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to admit it--it is unfair and a losing battle---just do what you can and keep the peace--you can move out when you hit 18. Fighting over this is only time wasted---you obviously tried that route already and it is going no where. Be smart and appear to be trying to please him--you know what to do and what not to do--believe me--it will go a lot easier.
2007-04-07 02:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋