my nephew girlfriend who's also the mother of his two children cursed out his mother something awful so my sister don't allow her in her house anymore only the children are allowed my nephew who I helped raise never comes to see me nor did he bring the kids to see me now that he's not allowed to bring the girlfriend to his mother house he wants to bring the girlfriend along with the kids to spend the night I told him she can't come cause I don't agree with what she did was I wrong for this,everytime he was suppose to come over all before this happened I never saw him I think he's just using me cause she's not allowed at 'his moms house I need your help with this one.
2007-04-07 08:55:42 · 7 answers · asked by raaunt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Its really dumb to take sides in a family feud. You werent there you only heard 1 side of it and all your doing is cutting yourself off from seeing the kids.
You should stay out of it and let those 2 work it out. A problem between 2 people should not become a family feud.
2007-04-07 10:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no can do. You don't put up with such things. How could he curse out his mother like that and now want to turn to you. You just might get your share of cursing out too if you should get into some form of disagreement with either her or your nephew. Tell him you don't agree with what he did to his mother so until they apologise you are not going to shelter them, if you were not good enough for a visit before why now? That is definately trying to use you.
2007-04-07 09:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your wrong. I think we all get used by the young. I'm sick of it. I would tell him to take his wife and his kid's and stay the hell out of my life. He should have gotten mad at the little ***** for cursing out his mother. Please take my advice, got yourself a new hair do, massage. new cloths and go to a casino or someplace fun. You don't know but it's later than we think. I've been in may situations like you have. I learned once they grow up they make strangers more important than their own flesh and blood. Your nephew, and his manner-less *** girlfriend sound like losers . If someone cursed my mom out I'd get away from them. I sure hope i didn't offend you. I was only trying to help.
2007-04-07 09:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to be is the grown up here, and handle the problem since you let yourself get involved with there fight, but you really should have been neutral. My advice to you is to talk to his girlfriend and tell her to apologize to his mother if she wants to keep the peace between the families that is the grown up thing to do.
2007-04-07 09:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, please stay out of the drama over there. Let him invite you to be with his family, say, out at dinner at a restaurant that you like where he pays the bill.
Otherwise, keep a low profile.
2007-04-07 09:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it to Jerry Springer for help.
2007-04-07 08:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAND FAST, DONT WAIVER, YOUR RIGHT AND HE IS TRYING TO USE YOU
2007-04-07 09:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by buddy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋