2007-04-07 21:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Depends on whether she actually is cruel or not !!!
I mean wat u are refrng as cruelity could be a genuine act for her. But if she really is cruel, be extra cruel to her. or the best idea is to get divorce.
2007-04-07 22:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by vids007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but if your wife is cruel you will never be happy. Now you need to ask yourself why you choose to live that way? Life is short, everyone deserves happiness. If you are staying with her because you have kids, they have to be miserable also. Only you can change your situation, and if you are that unhappy I would suggest moving on. If you do have kids with her and she is that cruel try to get custody of them. If you dont have children, then dont live that way, you have nothing holding you back. Be happy, life is short!
2007-04-08 02:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is cruel then why do you stay with her? If by cruel you mean that she either verbally and emotionally abuses you or that she hits you, etc.. then you need to get a divorce from her. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. It sounds like you are unhappy and believe me you never will be as long as you let her be cruel to you. Go and don't look back. Do you have children with this woman? Is she cruel to them too? If so make sure that you can get custody of them as well.
2007-04-08 02:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of living happy with a cruel wife, Move far far away and find someone nice..
2007-04-07 21:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot live happy WITH a cruel wife! But if you break the ties with her, there is a high possibility that you can be happy!
So consider the consequences of a divorce and if you are resolved to leaving her, pray to God for strength and to help you through it.
Please, you only have one life to live. Do not waste any moment of it living with someone who cannot seem to respect you.
I hope you can gather strength to move on. I wish for your happiness.
2007-04-08 01:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by ••Tara•• 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 03:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by dezayas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok instead of answering you this question, may I have my doubts cleared first:
1) How cruel is your wife? Please elaborate.
2) Are you a cruel husband in the first place?
Thank you in advance!
2007-04-07 22:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by ckret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, live happily
with your wife
or else
tell me which wife is less cruel.
2007-04-07 23:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by rakesh v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before i answer allow me to ask you this-...ummm
1) do you happen to have a basement or large crawl space under your home?
2) happen to own property in the mountains or out in the desert by chance?
3) does she have family members nearby that would miss her after a long absence?
4) define mean?
2007-04-08 00:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by kickmeloose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you want to put up with that well than you do stop telling everyone how cruel she is and give it back to her . Do unto to others as you would have others do unto you .If she Loved yo she would not treat you that way
2007-04-08 01:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Libra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋