What do you do if you're gothic and your family won't accept that fact?My parents think im going through a phase.Okay,so what if it is a phase?Can't they just support me?Some of my siblings treat me differently because im gothic,and now my feelings for them aren't the same.I don't cut myself,but I get depressed easily,and my older sister and younger brother(17 and 13 respectively)call me Emo all the time and it drives me crazy.What do I do?Im tired of my family and people I know at school treating me weird.I don't even wear black lipstick,all I wear is black eyeliner and black nail polish on my nails and toenails!!And I can't even dress gothic because of my parents!Im 14,and I have to wait until im 18 to dress gothic.It's driving me crazy!Please help!!
2007-04-08 05:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by BakaNekoShojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
WoW...that stinks....I'm kinda goth....except...my hair is blue and not black...(but I think people get the idea) I also don't cut myself...
I think....ur parents....won't let u dress that way...because not cause your too young....but because they don't except that You are goth, or emo.....it might change (*wink wink*) Maybe if you put up a good argument.....or maybe after a while they will realize it's not a phase..maybe they won't....if not well...
Your could dress goth without dressing goth... What I mean is wear close that aren't completely black....maybe black with a little purple or red...maybe dark green....people will still get the idea your goth, you can still express your goth-ness, without your parents being mad...
Hope it helps :D (Keep On Rockn')
Oh Yeah You Don't Have To Be Depressed To Be Goth...
2007-04-08 05:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by bark.bark.bark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might just be a phase and if it is not so what. My children went through the same thing and my daughter is doing it now. I do not mind as I know no matter what they are my children. Sit down with your parents and explain to them that you are just expressing yourself and you are still thier child no matter what. Good luck !!!
2007-04-08 12:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats tough they should be more open minded. yu should figure out why yu get depressed easily tho, gothic doesnt equal depressed. there are alot of people who are into goth that are very happy. try to ignore your family did your parents not teach yu to accept people for who they are not what they look like , ask them that?
2007-04-08 12:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you live in their house, their rules go!!!
2007-04-08 12:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by prop4u 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋