Family - March 2007

My husband bought me some 20" rims and tires for Christmas. BUt to put them on my explorer i needed some adapters (which costed like $250) so at the time we didn't have the money to buy the adapters. So what he did is put the rims on his daddy's truck so they wouldn't get stolen out of the yard. Now two weeks ago we went to get them off and now his daddy won't give them to us. He called to cops out there and sent a paper stating we are to stay off his property and away from him. Since then he has hid the truck. We are planning on filing a warrant what should I do? by the way there are 2 kids in the midst (my kids) that is choose not to see by doing all this and they aren't gonna understand (ages 2 and 3) Help...

2007-03-06 02:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Krista 3

when she was a child growing up. I have done all I can to win her approval! I have never tried to replace her mother. I tried to be a friend to her when she needed it and when I see she is accepting it, she all of sudden pulls back!! In the past she has reminded me out loud that I am not her mother! she has always argued they way I try to raise her?? she is now 29 and still disrepect me! we grew into a hate love relationship. I leave all conversations to her father. In the present she has blamed her father for how her life is today?

2007-03-06 02:31:32 · 14 answers · asked by veja94 1

2007-03-06 02:31:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I need some help here, We are thinking of moving my 89 yr old father in with us. I asked my husband first if it was ok with him and that I wanted a truthfull answer because it is his home too and he said " that will be fine" but in the next breath he says, What about the grandchildren they won't be able to spend the night anymore, I just don't think you have thought of the negative things to the move". I told him that I had weighed the neg and postive and I thought it would work but if he had any reservations at all I needed to know them, then he said no I told you its ok. To me I see this as a two sided answer, is that wrong? I think he wants to please me by saying yes its ok when he really doesn't want it to happen. If they are other people around he says "You don't listen to a thing I have to say, you just ignore me, I told him no I was not ignoring him I was listening to what someelse had to say. He has to have my undivided attention is that why he is against this?

2007-03-06 02:31:16 · 8 answers · asked by MaryAnn C 1

Shortly after my mother-in-law met my parents she pulled me aside to tell me how much she hated fat people and told me that she thought fat people were disgusting; my father is obese. She then wanted to organise further gatherings with my family for Christmas and other occasions. I have told my husband that I will never allow his mother anywhere near my parents ever again. Am I correct in taking this stand?

2007-03-06 02:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by pacshore 2

she was pregnant when we first meet she was 5 weeks gone the farthers have nothing to do with them at all iam scared that if me & my wife ever split up i will lose them has i dont have any rites to them i have often spoke of adopting them but this just falls on deaf ears is there anything i can do ?

2007-03-06 02:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

when me and my bloke first got together me and his mum got on really well, till we moved in together. given he was 27 when he moved out and his mum had done everythin for him..foreva. then she started txtin him sayin come home if u dont like living away, she gives him money at the drop of a hat and completley slags me off all the time, i have tried with her but it has gotten me no-where i want us to get along for my blokes sake but she is viscious and makes things up about me just to wind my bloke up, at first i got on with his dad too but now he doesnt speak to me either. i know i have done nothin wrong yet she still is nasty... do i bother to try nd talk to her???

2007-03-06 02:23:27 · 11 answers · asked by binxyuk 1

OK, this is a long story......
My father moved to Texas when I my a teenager and luckily for me married a loving caring lady who has become a wonderful step-mum. I don't have much in the way of 'real' family in the UK so her parents quickly came to feel like grand parents.
My Grandad in Texas has been diagnosed with cancer, and several other pre-existing medical conditions mean that it may not be operable. I am finding this news really hard to cope with because I don't want to lose him. I've only known him for 5 years but I love him like a grandparent. I was so happy that I had a chance to be part of a 'normal' family.
The problem I'm posting here today is that my boyfriend of 1 year basically doesn't give a s***. I emailed him to tell him today and he was like "oh dear... anyway..". I rang him this afternoon because I really felt like I needed some support or, dare i say it, sympathy and he said: "yeah, well my thoughts are with your step-mum's family", like I don't count.

2007-03-06 02:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by tigerfly 4

I'm getting out of a 3 1/2 year relationship and I don't really have a place to live starting in May. I'm 26 and I'll be moving back home for a few months (I'm limiting myself to 6 months, tops) so that I can regroup and find a place. Will I be marked for life as "That Guy who lived With His Parents"?

2007-03-06 02:03:42 · 11 answers · asked by Year of the Monkey 5

Dear friends ! Recently i am finding it hard to stay in my home . I completed my studies & was trying to prepare 4 upcoming competetive exams. But i feel like my parents do not care . Its true indeed & i have trouble expressing myself to them . My dad always hated me from the very beginning & i even had to take a counselling for sorting this problem.I am feeling so miserable sometimes i feel like suicide is the best way . When the ones like your own parents are like this what about others. I am completely ashamed of the fact that i had to go & meet a counsellor for solving my problem.But i cannot tell my problems to anyone as no one would ever belive this . My parents are viewed as the ideal couples yes they are but never the best parents . I do not have any grandparents to seek advice for .So please do help me that what i can do to live peacefully without carrying the emotional baggage.

2007-03-06 01:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

where does it say in the bible that you as a child owe your parents anything

2007-03-06 01:57:58 · 9 answers · asked by Esther C 1

I'm worried about telling my 10 year old that I'm going to have a baby! She used to want a baby brother or sister, but changed her mind and now cries if I bring it up. She doesn't want to give up being an only child and grandchild. She's a wonderful big sister to a little brother at her dad's house...she just doesn't want ME to have one! I'm sure she'll get used to the idea and even be happy.But I'm just dreading the moment of telling her and the tears. Any ideas of how to break it to her?

2007-03-06 01:13:12 · 12 answers · asked by dog8it 4

please can anybody tell me what rights people have to access their great grand children?

2007-03-06 01:12:00 · 6 answers · asked by leejrobinson 2

My Cousin, lost her 28-Year Old Son, a Year ago. He had a deteriorated Heart at Birth. But lasted until he was 28. My Cousin is also dying a slow and painful Death from the loss of her Son. And I can't be there, for her. No Medicine can help her.
Question: Do you kiss your Loved ones, EVERY DAY! And let `em know how you feel? ( I miss you, Chris. We all do)

2007-03-06 01:06:57 · 6 answers · asked by Goggles 7

My friends and I are planning a vacation this summer to celebrate the end of A Level exams-the only problem is that my parents arent too keen and think itll be a big drunken orgy...im nearly 18 and will be going to university alone next year surely they can trust me and ive saved up enough money so that i will be able to pay for my accomodation and spending money, i just need them to pay for my flight...a few suggestions please!

2007-03-06 00:48:28 · 18 answers · asked by umbrellophone 1

It's not me. It's my sibling. Beautiful children; reasonable in-laws - but the wife is of the most horrid kind! A control freak; a puritan; and a tyrant who always gets her way - and runs her husband etc. like clockwork!

Does anybody have something similar? Any survival tips - when you have to visit/ meet your 'estranged' family (because it's unavoidable, right?).

(Note: F.y.i. Jekyll is the good doctor; while Hyde is the monster.)

2007-03-06 00:35:12 · 8 answers · asked by Yahoo user 4

now i feel guilty about it do i need a psychriatist

2007-03-06 00:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by lovely 1

my mum left when i was young and i've never met anyone who had lived under the same circumstances.... if anybody has then do you think it affected the person you are now?

2007-03-06 00:20:43 · 9 answers · asked by youdidnotjustsaythat 5

2007-03-06 00:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by she flirts 2

2007-03-06 00:02:12 · 10 answers · asked by mummy to 3 miracles 5

2007-03-06 00:02:12 · 17 answers · asked by red 2

Ok. I'v been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and i found out yesturday I'm pregnant. His family are really happy about it and so is my sister. Only thing is my mum hates my boyfriend for some reason and as she had me at a young age she didnt want me to end up down the same path. I'm 20 and need some help telling her prefibly with out her chasing me with a kitchen knife! any ideas?

2007-03-05 23:31:59 · 18 answers · asked by zubes87 1

Please help me.....I know proably alot of people are asking this but I am looking for the coke codes that are on the 12pk can cases and the bottle cap lids that are red. I am trying to get something for my husband whos birthday is coming up.

2007-03-05 23:22:33 · 1 answers · asked by l_peplow 2

2007-03-05 23:19:57 · 21 answers · asked by rocky 1

2007-03-05 23:06:21 · 10 answers · asked by pachai_kili 1

he's killing me emotionally, he says he love me on one hand, but wants to kick our two year old, me, my unborn child out, all because i got Pregant, ever since i told him i was pregnant, he says he cant handle it. In October last year, yes only 6months ago, i gave birth to our still born son at 26 weeks, & he wasnt even there for the delivery, was there for our first son oscar. he claims he cant cope with two kids!! but in febuary Bobby wouldve been here! Now i'm pregnant & he wants me to leave. I turned into an aclcholic when bobby died, he said he didnt want to be with a drunk, but never offered to help me stop, i was dying inside because i lost Bobby. I've been with him for almost 3 years in august. he doesnt seem to love our children. he also has another son Adam from a previou relationship,she wont let him come to our house coz she hates me, we've fighted so much about him seeing Adam in the old family home, its destroyed us. i want him to go to court to get visitations 4 adam.

2007-03-05 22:50:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He will not let me meet his girlfriend & perhaps I don't want to, but I don't agree that someone else is being a mother to my child, someone I don't know, and something I didn't agree to...I gave birth to her, not the father & not the girlfriend...any words of advice?

2007-03-05 22:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by victali 2

this is a bit cryptic but too long to explain all the facts! if a family member has been appalling to you and not done right by your kids(their flesh and blood also) and you have believed in karma for that person, then something happens to them where you can choose the outcome, and you could either think serves you right or be mega forgiving and help them, but put yourself at risk of upset and harrassment if they let you down again(the trust has gone, as this has happened in the past) what would you do?

2007-03-05 20:59:33 · 26 answers · asked by slsvenus 4

I am looking for relatives from New Jersy, US that they were from Thraki, greece.

2007-03-05 20:41:08 · 1 answers · asked by Alex L 1

slime/gunge = like custard or baked beans

2007-03-05 20:23:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous