My Cousin, lost her 28-Year Old Son, a Year ago. He had a deteriorated Heart at Birth. But lasted until he was 28. My Cousin is also dying a slow and painful Death from the loss of her Son. And I can't be there, for her. No Medicine can help her.
Question: Do you kiss your Loved ones, EVERY DAY! And let `em know how you feel? ( I miss you, Chris. We all do)
2007-03-06 01:06:57 · 6 answers · asked by Goggles 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
"Shortstuff" I'd love to speak to you about this. Please contact me?
2007-03-06 01:38:03 · update #1
i agree, never take for granted that your love ones will always be there..... they wont.... my 18 year old daughter knows this... she lost her best friend/ soul mate in 2004... God Loves Him!
we miss Travis
2007-03-06 01:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do kiss my loved ones daily & I tell them I love them also. I too know the pain of losing a child, just as your cousin has. My son was only 15 y/o when he was killed. I know exactly what your cousin is going through & I wish I could be there to give her a big hug & comfort her, even in some small way. Losing a child leaves such a big void in our hearts & lives. Memories are all we have left & they comfort me daily. I found the strength that I didn't know I had, to move forward with my life. I have my sad days but that's to be expected. Tell your cousin that I'm so sorry for her loss. May the love of family & friends, comfort her each & every day. Maybe you can't be there for your cousin, physically, but keep in touch with her by phone & just being there to listen, will comfort her, more than you'll ever know.
2007-03-06 09:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of the hardest human experience ever is to lose someone u love and it would be made worse if he/she was gone without you expressing ur love. but humans have barriers of anger, experiements, and all the things that can stop us from expressing our good feelings to someone and worse we take things for granted surprisingly when death is the most certain thing in our lives. that's why your message is important: we should overcome all the barriers and get out of our comfort zone to express to those we care about how we really feel towards them before it is too late and either they or you would regret it.
2007-03-06 09:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by kate07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be there for your cousin-I feel for you I really do its a terrible time for you-try to stay possitive and know you are doing the very best you can.It never harms to say i love you
2007-03-06 10:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by kate seasider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sooooooooo right!!!!!! let the people you love know it everyday give them a hug if they are within arms reach and call them on the phone if you cant get to them.i just lost my sister to breast-cancer we spent 9 months together everyday talking and telling stories and we left nothing unsaid and for that i am grateful everyday.i love you sister and miss you
2007-03-06 09:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by patbgone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow. i wish i knew a way to help her keep going. failure to thrive can be as real as any disease. i'll pray for her and you.
as for your question - i try to say i love you and mean it every day to each member of my family. i wish i had said it more to my mom and sis before they died. hindsight is 20-20 isn't it?
i hope you cous can find a way to keep living. the world won't be the same without her. god bless
2007-03-06 10:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋