It's not me. It's my sibling. Beautiful children; reasonable in-laws - but the wife is of the most horrid kind! A control freak; a puritan; and a tyrant who always gets her way - and runs her husband etc. like clockwork!
Does anybody have something similar? Any survival tips - when you have to visit/ meet your 'estranged' family (because it's unavoidable, right?).
(Note: F.y.i. Jekyll is the good doctor; while Hyde is the monster.)
2007-03-06 00:35:12 · 8 answers · asked by Yahoo user 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think they change, I think when you date people are on there best behavior. Signs come out. Some choose to ignore those signs. People who are control freaks can not hide that well I am sure your sibling is aware of his wife.
I choose to be nice and distance myself. In my case when I visit and keep conversations light. I would have a relationship with my sibling one on one and keep the conversation of the marriage out of it.
2007-03-06 01:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly come on there have been indicators... you in basic terms elect to forget approximately approximately them... I say this out of expierence... i'm a guy who had a spouse try this. The little alerts the place there yet i elect to look away be it the intercourse or different motives. So do not positioned all the blame on him. If im incorrect I ask for forgiveness in simple terms happening my own Mis Hyde. Do what i did get out collectively as you are able to and discover somebody who makes you happy.
2016-12-18 06:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a common happening..you come to the wedding with an Angel and wake up on your honeymoon with the devil...
smarter people then you have let this happen and more then once is about average....so let the good times roll
2007-03-06 00:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people have two sides to some degree,
anyway.
Which might explain why so many people who
"move in together," never make it to the altar.
2007-03-06 00:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by kyle.keyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes my step mother did, she was nice at first then wanted me out of my dads life at 15 did everything in her power to destroy my father and i'( relationship), i had put up with this evil woman for years I'm glad it's over now
2007-03-06 00:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband and my husband's ex-wife....
Also my ex-mother in law. I learned to drown her out when she was talking and politely smile and nod.
2007-03-06 04:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that was me but not after we got married after we got kids ,don't know how he put's up with me
2007-03-06 00:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* My mum says my dad was nice before they got married i cant imagine that ( him being nice ) coz he is mean and nasty *
2007-03-06 00:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋