Family - February 2007

hi is there grandparents right in pa,it hrut me so much if i not not see my grand baby..pls help me, my daurhgter is hurt of all of this her hubby well not let me see my grand bay pls help..

2007-02-07 15:17:02 · 2 answers · asked by m w 1

My parents are having a hard time bonding with me, because im totally different from them. Like personality, lifestyle, likes/dislikes etc.

Im youngest in the family, i have a sister(22) & a brother(19), they both share the same interests, almost same personality & they get along well with their parents, cause they all like the same things, except me.

Sometimes they don't accept what i choose to do, they don't like the type of food i eat? they are very social, im not, they're disappointed with me because i choose to study photography instead of business marketer, lawyer, doctor blabla.

Seeing their disappointing faces all day, makes me feel so guilty.
Should i stay myself or be like them? Though im more comfortable & happy with me, their not. help?

2007-02-07 15:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by D 2

My daughter goes to a youth group. The Youth Director is great but when they break into smaller groups, my daughter's 6th grade leader doesn't seem friendly toward her.

Should I let my 12 year daughter figure this out? Or should I jump in and have a talk with this leader? My daughter has a hard time telling people how she feels.

Here is an example: My daughter comes in the room, and the leader will be plain with her, but when three girls walk in the room, she talks with enthuiaism toward them. It is very subtle but my daughter picks it up big time. I reaasure my daughter that it's not her and that adults have baggages from past. Is this too much for my daughter to understand? Should I interfere? Sometimes I think my daughter wants to solve her problems for her.

2007-02-07 15:00:36 · 10 answers · asked by cmachiela 2

Help!! My sister has a 2 year step-child that takes off her diaper has much as 5times a day, and goes poo everywhere. She even plays in it? Its so frustrating. Her biological mother used drugs when she was pregant. Is there anyone that can give advice on this matter? Is it possible that she is doing this for attention? Do you think we need to take her to a doctor? Maybe she is acting up for a real medical reason? any advice will help my sister! We have even tried to start potty training and that was no luck........ HELP!!!! Thanks!

2007-02-07 14:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by scarlet4375 2

I'm turning 18 soon and want to move out so I can shag well that and other things. I am not her little boy anymore. But I don't know how to tell my mum without getting her to beg me to stay. I have told her before. I skived off school today and posted flatmate want ads. I know I want this. I need the independence.

2007-02-07 14:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Heathcliff 2

2007-02-07 14:50:35 · 4 answers · asked by someone 1

Okay here it is. This is my cousin whom shall remain nameless. They come over and use my laptop with out asking then they come over and eat my food. Then they are messy (ie leaving dishes laying all over my house). They complained to my mother about me being mad because I missed a phone call. So my mother has the nerve to come and get mad at me. Like I am the bad guy. Then she tells me that I should cater to my poor depressed cousin because omg she might try to kill herself. I mean come on. Am I the bad guy for getting mad because she only comes over to bum off of me? My husband makes a lot of money for the town we live in, but nobody takes into consideration that we have rent, and bills to pay. We also have to eat ourselves. Am I bad for being upset and telling my mother he is more important than anyone else?

2007-02-07 14:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by Jorge's Wife 4

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianclub)... and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-02-07 14:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

Do you have a older or younger sibling? I have a twin little brother and sister who are 4 years old!!

2007-02-07 14:22:42 · 20 answers · asked by Kate 3

The dad is and always has been aware that he is not his biological father.

2007-02-07 14:04:18 · 16 answers · asked by heeeeelp! 1

For me, going to school is very stressful because my parents pressure me to get good grades. So everyday when I come back after school I go on the computer and play games for 1-2 hours before my parents come home (I'm not supposed to for weekdays). Today my freaking rat uncle (who is unemployed and living with me and my parents) spilled the beans about me playing games right in front of my freaking face. In the past I had experiences where my parents took out the harddrive of my computer (so I couldn't use it) and sometimes if I did something that they didn't like they'd threaten to throw me out of the house. I'm freaking pissed. Can someone give me words of advice or something?

2007-02-07 14:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by darkauramaverick 1

What age do you become a tween at?

2007-02-07 14:03:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my family, we are expected to go to college right out high school and I am not sure if that is what I want. Many times I have been yelled at by my parents because I am not doing something that will help my chances for a good college. My step-dad especially gets on me because of this. I have yet to even tell my parents for fear of just more yelling. I don't know how to handle the situation.

2007-02-07 13:55:59 · 14 answers · asked by bakingrl11 1

What do I do it's been about a month that I haven't talked to my aunt and we are or I should say were close,I think she is mad at me and i really don't know why I think she thinks that I talked about her to my mother which is her sister last time I heard from her she had ask me if i had told my mom something about her i answer her and that was the end of it i haven't heard from her what should I do I really miss her but I don't feel I should call her first cause she the one who's upset?

2007-02-07 13:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live with my mom, brother, and my aunt in a two rooms appartmnet. Her duaghter always botter me when I try to do my work. She stole my supplies, yelling, crying, try to hurt me, and all that thing. I cann't do my work. I don't have my own room. When I tole my aunt, she doen't care at all. When my mom was here, she help me out. But she is in my uncle's house right now.

2007-02-07 13:51:01 · 2 answers · asked by OMG 3

My mom was there for me, loved me and whatever. My dad was a philanderer, didn't find that our till high school. They divorced when I was 19. Old history. Now, my mom is ths same. My step-mom (my dad's high school sweetheart who he didn't marry till 2 divorces, but very happy now) is awesome. She's a total pragmatist, very willing to listen to other people, able to accept alternate points of view, very compatible with my own political persuasions and willing to be an activist about it...the problem is this: my mom is my mom, but she's a coward. My step-mom is tremendous. How do I get over feeling that my step-mom is stronger? I know that my mom is my mom, and that's that. But my step-mom's so much more in line with me...feeling ambivalent...

2007-02-07 13:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by KD 4

Recently my mother-inlaw said all daughter-inlaws should kiss butt. Do you agree? If so please explain.

2007-02-07 13:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by texas mom 5

When i met my fiance's family everything was going ok.
they always thought that between my fiance and i everything was going ok.
They did not know that everytime their son and i had an argument he would get really verbally abusive.i never said anything to them.
when we move to a new house i was tired of putting up with the way he treated me.
so couple of times i went out without coming home until 4am or later. His brother lives next door from us and he does not respect me. he said he was not gonna let me marry his brother that i was not good enough for his brother. Everybory is looking at me bad
the think that my fiance is the victim. I dont know what to do.

2007-02-07 13:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by surflinda21 1

Ok...i live in california n everyone is like filthy rich! I swear they dont know what to do with their mony so they just spend it on drugs like weed, and also alcohol ALOT OF ALCOHOL!!!! Unfortunetly im a part of that! :(. U kno wat im only i a freshman in high school! Is it just like this in Cali or everywhere else too??

2007-02-07 13:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by CaLiFoRnIA GirL 1

My 'mother' asked me what I wanted from her (past history of being abused by my step-father AND her). I said (extremely leniently) "To say sorry...and to mean it". Her reply was "I could say sorry...but I wouldn't mean it"! She told me to remember that it was my choice - I told her "You've just made it for me". That was our last conversation, about 3 1/2 years ago now. I have read that to heal, it is best to find it in your heart to forgive but can you really forgive someone who openly has no remorse for their actions?!

2007-02-07 13:15:21 · 44 answers · asked by catwoman alex 2

my mom and dad might split up what do i do?

2007-02-07 13:14:29 · 4 answers · asked by nice edvice 1

I've heard nothing ever good about him and only that he was a junky and tons of other bad stuff. Now I have his address 21 years later and I don't know what to do with it. No one in my family supports me finding him, but part of me what's to know and the other part is scared to death if they all are right. Which part should I listen to?

2007-02-07 13:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by Angelica 3

She complains every morning that her chocolate milk tastes funny. He has been adding something that he calls "daddy's special protein addative". What should I do?

2007-02-07 13:09:13 · 20 answers · asked by jc20155 4

I have just recovered from a detox of off pain killers and my partner is getting to me as I thought might happen. she will not let me have money, (If I have it she works it out in the way of what we've spent; good help me if it's not right) Most men have a job (I cn't work due to health) and friends, of which you see them at times in the pub. we have two children one is 2 and the other is 8weeks. I do most if not all the house work and then the children but how do i know and how can I say enough is enough? some one please help.

2007-02-07 13:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter is in high school and lives with me.
i take her to school and doctor appointments , wic, ect but i told her she needs to take city bus to school and she wount do it and i told her take the cab (it's free) to wic and doc appointments and she wount do it what should i do ?
im thinking of renting her an apartment asap just to teach her about real life.( should i?)

2007-02-07 13:00:18 · 15 answers · asked by N/A 1

My husband's grandma may have died, but we don't know.... and his family wont talk to him. He found out through my niece... because she goes to school with his niece..... would you ever do something like this to a family member? have something major happen and then, just because you're mad at someone not tell them?

2007-02-07 12:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by myparentskid 2

i have wanted a myspace for over2 years now!
everyone at school has one!
i know im only 11 but i want one BAD!!!!!!!!!
please help
-taylor

2007-02-07 12:45:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad said he would take me to practice basketball 1 hour ago and i called like 45 minutes ago and he said "yeah, i got caught up in something i will be there in less than a half hour" he always tells me he got caught up in something should i be mad? it really annoys me?

2007-02-07 12:43:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know my parents wan't the best for me,but when they do not allow me to have a social relationship,it makes me felt so sad..i wanna hv a social activities,wat can i do? is it ok if i'm lied to them?

2007-02-07 12:43:34 · 5 answers · asked by anna 1

My grandparents got so mad when my little sister said freeking and they think that I taught it to her and they think it's a curse word.

2007-02-07 12:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jess 2