Family - February 2007

2007-02-08 06:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by nikki s 1

Help I have an annoying Neighbor?

I live in a new community where all the properties are not divided by fences in the fron yard, and they are not allowed either. I live in a culdesac with only 4 houses on the street but there is this neighbor that is a renter not a home owner that everytime I take out my trash they shove my trashbins further into my driveway. Since there is no fence to seperate us I think they think that it is their territory. So I moved my bins a little closer to my driveway, but last week they put them right behind my garage door that I almost hit when I was pulling out. and I can't put my bins on the other side cause that neighbor puts hers there and there is no room for mine. Should I write them a letter? Is this considered tresspassing? Should I go to the police? Help.!!!!!

2007-02-08 06:45:04 · 9 answers · asked by star 1

Also we know about DNA and we can't have children so don't waste your breath. I would like real answers if their is one.

2007-02-08 06:39:42 · 23 answers · asked by hoodwink 2

Okay, what should I do here, my brother (who is 12.) worries about me and acts like an old man, treating me like a little child and looks on my phone and mp3 player. He also looks over my shoulder when I'm on the internet (one of my pet hates!!!) and he won't leave when I tell him to. He also bosses me around and is very lazy, like once, he was laid on the setee eating his meal then he told me to fetch a tray!

Bascially, I've had enough of it, what should I do to stop him from acting like he is at the moment?

2007-02-08 06:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by xxsleepy_starxx 2

I can go in to this website and feel drawn to people i feel for them hurt with them.. but my teenage son can drive me insane with his antiks..... its like he knows what buttons to push.. and how to get symathy or make me madder than h*ll and he does it all on purpose.. what oh what can i do??????
he quit school.. wont work.. wont live with his dad.. or even ask his dad for anything.. is there ant suggestions

2007-02-08 06:22:04 · 12 answers · asked by nurse_driller 3

I have a boyfriend that my family doesn't know about yet and he has proposed to me. There are a few reasons why I have been worried to tell them. He is almost 5 years older then me, he has a 10 month old daughter, and we live 800 miles apart. I need some advice on how to tell my family, especially my mom cause we are really close. Any ideas?

2007-02-08 06:05:51 · 12 answers · asked by princesskate235 2

We have reached the rock of the rock bottom and just do not see a way out apart from the obvious. Any help, suggestions or advice from anyone who has been through it? We argue all the time, always ends in tears, always about silly things. Its can't get any worse. Have been married for abt 2 yrs. Most of it has been in misery

2007-02-08 06:04:46 · 21 answers · asked by Happy S 1

I am currently living with my dad who is gay and has a boyfriend who lives with us and im cool with it i accept my dad and there for him BUT there is 1 prob . I get along with his boyfriend really well we are cool and friends and i dont think my dad likes that too much . He sometimes gives me a hard time about it . I know what the right thing is to do and thats to be fare to my dad and move out the only place i can think of is my moms in Texas but i hate it there. Everything i have is because of my dad and im very grateful for it. I have been looking around miami for a apartment and its been hard its very expensive here. The main thing is i feel if i move i will lose everything i have here. My job , my space, my car , having fun with my dad . I know that one day i will have to face this and move out but i feel im not ready im scared . I was hoping there can be a way to still live with my dad but give him his space too . Whatcha think ?

2007-02-08 05:42:51 · 17 answers · asked by I_luv_my_kids<3 1

I live with my daughter & her husband. My daughter had her first child, my first grandchild. I take care of my grandbaby so they do not have to pay for day care. I spend more time with my grandchild then either parent does, I even stay up with him at night so they can sleep, I also, clean house, fix the meals, do the laundry, take out the trash, feed the dogs & do anything I can to help out. I do not mind doing these things since I have no income to contribute to bills. My problem is, I'm not allowed to voice when I feel something is wrong without being reminded I do not work. My son in-law is a slob, and he feels the only way to dicipline the dogs is to beat them! We have talked about this and I ask him to stop. He is a person who thinks he is "never" wrong! With the last dog beating, my daughter & I argued and all she said, he is my husband, so I moved out. I love my daughter & grandbaby very much, I'm afraid he will dicipline the baby the same way someday.
Am I wrong?

2007-02-08 05:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by petalwings 2

i always have verble fights with my parents...is there anyway to make me and better person and prevent this from happening? please help thanks!

2007-02-08 05:20:56 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley 2

My mother is pretending like I don't exist. I am 18 years old and I really do miss talking to my mom. She got mad at me because I am doing better than she is when she was my age and now I heard she is jealous and wants nothing to do with me what should I do to get my mom to start talking to me she is also keeping me away from my 8 year old brother who is down syndrome and keeps asking about me according to my relatives. WHAT SHOULD I DO IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO!
I don't live with her anymore she kicked me out and she refuses to let me anywhere near her house I never did anything wrong!

2007-02-08 05:19:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 05:16:36 · 7 answers · asked by Dadirac 1

im almost 17 years old and my parents and i still fight a lot. is there anything i could do to make my house a more happy and loving place to live???? thanks bunches!

2007-02-08 05:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 2

2007-02-08 05:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by Dadirac 1

2007-02-08 05:10:26 · 4 answers · asked by Brooke_C 1

About a non permanent restarined orden?..i mean ,someone told me the worst can happen its that the judge can decide that i have to keep it and leave it permanent .Does anybody knows about it?
Its just that my ex stepfathe put cameras on my room to watch me change my clothes and my husband got mad on him and they figth but my husban did not hit him ,but then my stepfather put a restained orden to get me out of the house so he could get rid of the evidence (the cameras) ,and we are waiting for the hearing ,im concern about it cuz we did not do anything to him but he is saying that we hit him ,its true that we shouted him and all that stuff but we did nothit him ,and he has money to pay witness that say that we really hit him.

2007-02-08 05:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

THAT I PAID FOR!!!

2007-02-08 05:06:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i claim dependents? to help not to have to pay.only 2 dependents

2007-02-08 04:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 04:56:39 · 8 answers · asked by jing v 1

When my son was about 8 we were visiting my mil. For her birthday we had bought her an elephant ornament. Before she opened it my son told her we had bought her something old, gray and wrinkely just like her

2007-02-08 04:51:07 · 17 answers · asked by unicorn867 3

even though before they used to be the boys taking your daughter out

2007-02-08 04:50:40 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Only I must make. How do I tell her?

2007-02-08 04:49:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I kick this ****? 10 years and miserable. I hate it. Help

2007-02-08 04:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by porchpup552003 2

I am a 31(going on 32 year old) who has not spoken to my parents for 7 years...(they only know what goes on with me due to me speaking with my sister--six years younger than me--via email).

I am considering speaking with them, since I found a very special girl...yet, I still have that uncomfortable feeling when I think of them.

Growing up, they were more strict with me than my sister, pushing the Jehovah Witness religion 'down my throat'...and being more bullying than parental.

Of course, I wasn't allowed to date, play sports, go out with people my age. I was regulated to my room.

If my father had any issues with the congregation or at his job, he would take it out on me. Moreover, as he began to lose his jobs, he would take money from me getting upset if I didn't have a certain amount.

When my parents left from Long Beach to the Bay, they managed to take all my money (while I didn't have a job) to make their own life.

And the list goes on...

2007-02-08 04:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by anhjoel 3

my dads being gay because i didnt go to school today and i had a stomache virus last night i feell better now n want to go be able to go over my boyfriends house for just a couple hours, i already stayed in all day yesterday to rest. hes saying i cant go out but im 17 almost 18 whats the worst that can happen if i decide to go anyways?

2007-02-08 04:38:58 · 21 answers · asked by xslipknot54x 1

I need some advice. Here goes.. I am a very passive person. I tend to let things go for a long time, till I reach my point where I snap. I am almost at this point now. My sister in law in a free loader. She lives about an hour and half away from me. I live in the city and she lives in a more remote area. She has a friend coming into town this weekend, and invited herself and her friend to stay at my house. She does nothing when she comes to visit, expect me to do meals, clean up dishes, and she'll sit around waiting to be served. I have my daughter's birthday party on Sunday and am quite busy getting everything ready for it. Having her, and the frined stay at my house Saturday, is really putting me out. Having company, (I am a clean freak) I have to give my house a good going over to prepare. I made some comments to her on the phone about being very busy, which she ignores. Should I have it out with her, and cause the family to think that I am the bad guy, or live with it?

2007-02-08 04:34:50 · 7 answers · asked by Kim B 3

I am a gay female and proud of it. Most people don't wanna understand they just wanna try and change me but little do they know, I have been feeling like this since the second grade but never knew how to go about it. I didn't start talking to females until I was at least 14. I didn't come out until recently. I'm only 17. My mom says I don't know what I want but I know I'm more satisfied with women than I am with men. My sperm donar doesn't want anything to do with me because of this and my grandmother criticises me all day. But like I always tell them, "you either accept me for who i am or leave me be because i'm not gonna keep hiding for anyone or change for nobody's satisfaction but my own."

2007-02-08 04:25:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I knew this was going to happen... my fiancé has no money for rent. We got a 3 day notice on the 5th. He has asked me to borrow money, but I told him NO! He did not work one day in JAN. just got a p/t job at togos. He was not sick, not hurt, he just made some bad decisions. His license was suspended in Dec., his car registration is late, he has no car ins. He had a job but spent all his $ on weed and cigs. He stayed at home played video games, hung out w/ friends and didn't do anything around the house. Now he is asking me to help pay for his rent b/c the cash advance loan he is trying to get is still in pending for approval process. I've helped him before for rent. He owes me about $1,000. I could easily get the money but he f*ed up my credit (I co-signed for his car, which will get repoed any day). If we get kicked out so will our 2 room mates. But I can move home w/ parents (I'm 22) and go back to school. He said he would leave me if I didn't! Am I doing the right thing?

2007-02-08 04:24:43 · 17 answers · asked by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5

i told one of his family members that i was having a boy which is true i am having a boy but then i wrote to her telling her a lie and i said i dont know what im having but that nottrue i do know what im having then i felt bad about telling her that i was lieing that i wrote to her saying that my baby is realy a boy and that i just like her asking for her uncle my baby dad i dont like that she said to me that she dont even tk to her uncle about me or anything but i know she does so now i dont know whats going to happend if i go for child money from her uncle my babys daddy can i get in to trouble for saying that i was lieing to her about my baby being a boy cd i get in to trouble for that when i go for child money and no im not young either im 21 years old what should do the next time she calles which will not b for another 2 to 3 weeks bec she got what she wanted from me was for me to tell her what i was having i told her on the phone that i was not going to say anything to her

2007-02-08 04:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

This isn't necessarily a serious question i'm just looking for funny and or quirky answers, they could be a bit stupid, but also make sure they are at least a little believeable! i don't want any 'tell the truth' or 'i'm ill' excuses, got all those covered! thanks x

2007-02-08 04:19:52 · 4 answers · asked by smellygrunge 1