What do I do it's been about a month that I haven't talked to my aunt and we are or I should say were close,I think she is mad at me and i really don't know why I think she thinks that I talked about her to my mother which is her sister last time I heard from her she had ask me if i had told my mom something about her i answer her and that was the end of it i haven't heard from her what should I do I really miss her but I don't feel I should call her first cause she the one who's upset?
2007-02-07 13:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and should I say she not a easy person to talk to
2007-02-07 13:59:56 · update #1
and I don't feel that i did or said anything wrong!
2007-02-07 14:01:21 · update #2
Call her before it gets blown out of proportion, It shouldnt matter who calls first if you guys are really close
2007-02-07 13:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by f_jayce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would say a prayer... and ask for God to help me say the right thing. I would probably call my Aunt.
Ask her if there is a reason why you have not heard from her.. she might say she was wondering the same thing>?
Was she upset at your answer? you say she asked IF? you told
something to your mom/her sis... if you did, is that why she is mad? because you say you answered her and thought that was the end of it..
Maybe? she thought she told you something in confidence? we do not know if you told or not.
Sometimes even when you do NOT want to admit to any wrong doings so people are stubborn and you might have to say your sorry even though you feel you did no wrong.
Good Luck..
2007-02-07 22:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the exact same thing with my stepmom. It has been a month now and she acts like I didn't exist anymore. The only difference is, we live together. For weeks, I waited for her to confront me, but she never did. So, I went to my father and he gave me some clues. After 4 weeks of not talking, I finally couldn't take it anymore so, I sent her an e-mail apologizing for anything I ever did to hurt or offend her. She finally responded to that and wants to talk. That's all it takes to solve any problem - COMMUNICATION! I wish I would have been the bigger person to step up in the beginning and say, "What is wrong?" Good Luck
2007-02-07 22:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter. She can't hang up in your face and she will hear everything you have to say. If you did something wrong admit it and apologize. Easier to forgive than to know someone lied and is still lying.
2007-02-07 21:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by texas mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Just ask her why she's being so distant. and tell her that if you've done anything wrong that you are sorry. and tell her u miss her and want it back the way it was.....the best thing is to be truthful...hope all goes well! :)
2007-02-07 22:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lil-Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call your aunt first cause no matter what she will keep on getting mad and more mad for you not calling her
2007-02-07 21:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by AnAlUp3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about that but i think you should call her and ask her wats up and if you did say something about her accept responsibility and apologise, make it up to her.......a good relationship is worth saving.
2007-02-07 21:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and see what wrong u cant lose her
2007-02-07 21:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by staceydv4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋