my mom and dad might split up what do i do?
2007-02-07 13:14:29 · 4 answers · asked by nice edvice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to a trusted relative or counselor. Im sorry.
PLEASE Dont listen to the comment below me it is NOT right.
2007-02-07 13:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by rybo510 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much that you can do; you are not the problem in this equation. Your parents obviously have their reasons for wanting to be separated, and you should respect that. I does not mean that either parent will love you less; they will love you as much as they did before the split.
Sometimes, people realize that they are not meant to be together, and why it is sad; they will both be better people and parents apart. Your parents are normal people, just like you, whom deserve to be happy and at peace with their lives. Divorce/Separation may be the only answer in this situation.
If you are distraught about this, ask your parents to let you see a counselor by yourself. When you are alone with the counselor you will be able to speak your true feelings without persuasion or guilty from either parent. Also, the counselor will give you unbiased feedback.
Remember, you are not at fault here. Just let your parents work out this situation, do not get involved, do not pick sides. Support each parent equally. Good Luck.
2007-02-07 13:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly there is nothing you can do, as what ever their issues are, are their issues, and all you can do is be there, and dont choose a side. If they are playing take a side. Otherwise talk about it with your parents openly, and ask what they both expect of you, and what they see happening in the future. If your having difficulty coping with it speak with a professional. It's a hard time for the whole family when parents spilt. Good luck.
2007-02-07 13:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know maybe try and fake a suicide, and leaving a note that' it's because of them splitting up. when they start to freak out, jump off the noose and onto the floor. they will either understand and work things out for you, or they will probably kill you for real, anyways it'll be fun, good luck man been there it sucks, only kidding bout the suicide, hope this cheered u up a bit......................
2007-02-07 13:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by WURSTNGHTMARE61 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋