She thinks that she makes the rules for him. (Even as a baby, I could say don't give him something specific to eat, it would make him sick. Later in the day, she would give it to him--just to see if I knew what I was talking about. Then she'd tell me you know I was actually right, it did make him sick. (I think that is cruel)
I say he can't have something, she tells him that's o.k. she'll get it for him. They bad mouth me constantly.
When my husband (her son) was in the hospital with cancer--I stayed in the hospital with him 24-7, yes so did she, but she would have the doctors giving her his medical reports. (I'm his wife, legally I should be able to make the decisions, I'm the one on the living will and his medical power of attorney--like always I swallowed my feelings and just let it go.) One time in the hospital, she actually turned to me and said, "I guess I have to say you love him. You never once complained any time he asks you to help him."
2007-02-07
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