Any young woman in need of a loving and supportive father?

Question

Check out this post. I have a feeling it's legit. What do you think?
http://phoenix.craigslist.org/stp/275213732.html

I sent him this email:

Dear Sir,

Wow, what a post and a potentially beautiful opportunity for someone and for you. My intuition is that your offer is at face value. Quite a responsibility to support and nurture someone and try to teach them without spoiling them. This will be a particular challenge because you may be helping someone who has been hurt and may not have had much guidance. I hope you don't get too badly hurt. Daughters can hurt. I'm sure you're wise enough not to expect a fairytale though. There are so many young women who would value you and your offer. There are hundreds or thousands of young women right here in this city who could really use a father, because, sadly, fathers are notoriously bad. haha It's almost epidemic. Most aren't equipped to handle a teenager's or young woman's emotional needs. We need our fathers, and if we don't have good

fatherly support, the consequences are often devastating. I need you myself!--but it would hurt my dad's feelings, even though we only see each other two or three times a year. It's sad because we only live about twenty-five miles apart. He has never, not once, called to see how I'm doing. He's content to wait for me to call, or just to see me on the holidays. I guess Cats in the Cradle was over his head. Or he just doesn't really care. He's always really happy to see me those three or four times a year though.

You've put your request/offer out and the Universe will provide. I believe you and the right daughter will be matched eventually, and much joy will be bourne from it. Thank you for your desire to make a difference in peoples' lives. The world needs more people like you. Enjoy your grandchildren!

Sincerely,

Mia

Answer 1

Truly this does sound legit. But this is if you believe the words this man writes. Please be careful. There are so many sickos out there. If this guy is legit, that is great. But he could be looking for something else. What gets me is that he keeps using the word "attractive". If he just wants to be the father that he has never had the chance to be, why does he keep saying "attractive". Fathers can not choose what there daughters are going to look like. It just seems sort of fishy. I would be very careful and do not divulge very much personal information(address, phone number, etc) until you can find out if this guy is honest and truthful.

Answer 2

This guy could always be a big brother to someone. Why does he want a young woman with children? It might be completely legit, or it might be a way to get access to young kids. A lot of predators look for a single woman with kids, because she won't be suspicious if "grandpa" wants to take the kids out, and then molest them.

As for you, you can find someone to be a boyfriend and then a husband and be the support you didn't get from your father. I would hope that you would give your dad a break, he's probably trying but doesn't know how to be a good dad.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

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