i just found my 2 step sisters and 1 step brother i like them but i dont know how to act w/ them they dont know our dad the way i do and when i hear them talk about the lies he has told them i always wonder if i should tell them the truth they are a lot older then me but our dad took off on them to be with me and my mom when 2 of them were teenagers and 1 was a baby like me now that i have found them should i tell them what a ***hole our dad really is or let them find out for themselves?
2007-02-07 15:43:52 · 6 answers · asked by lilbluemaninmyhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
They probably have a right to know your opinion but be careful in claiming it is the truth. There are probably things which you know that they don't but equally they will know things which you don't. Try to support each other and share experiences. It should bring you closer together.
2007-02-07 15:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by John B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dads are only ***holes until you are about 22 or 23. Then you realize oh, I needed to grow up. Even if you attempted to tell you step brothers and sisters they have a completely different perspective of who the man is compared to you due to the fact they never grew up with him like you did. So should you say anything? No because you will look like the ***hole in the end.
2007-02-07 15:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by coffeegod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let them find it themselve..... you may not be knowing the complete truth....
People make mistakes... you dont have to punish your loved ones....
They, or your father might get hurt.... and the pain may stay for life...
it is immpossible to mend a broken relationship....scares remain all through the life...
You are lucky.... you have so many sibling and your father with you.....
Truth unknown .. is better than a pain in your life.
2007-02-07 16:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by importer911 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth. They need to know everything about your dad. Good luck!!!!
2007-02-07 16:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say leave it alone. Let them find out on their own. If you open your mouth about this one, you will be the one caught in the middle. You will be the one that everyone blames for trying to start drama.
2007-02-07 15:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u can't keep lieing all your life sooner or later u will have to tell the truth so yea i would do it asap =)
2007-02-07 16:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋