my boyfriend had cancer, you would think he would look after himself and excise after his recovery, but all he does is eating fatty crap food and drink sugar frizzy drinks, he rarely exercise.. i've told him that he is going to have another bout of cancer if he doesn't stop, but he got angry and defensive. I've been thru alot with his cancer and i don't want to go thru that again, should i break up with him? we are both 27, been dating for 18 months
2007-02-07 22:48:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This guy needs counselling if you can get him to go. He is depressed and is in a downward spiral. If he won't go, you probably need to. It will help you make a wise decision for you.
2007-02-07 23:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be re-educated on his eating plan. Speak to a nutritionist ,better still ask him to speak to one ,it is his responsibility to himself. How much does he think you can cope with. Eating healthily is imperative. Fresh food,fruit, vegetables, wholemeal bread, pasta, high protein food is the best thing for cancer. Perhaps counseling would help you both to deal with the trauma you have suffered.Remedial action is needed if you are both to cope with the situation.Try to encourage him to eat healthily by doing so yourself, make sure he understands the fact of healthy eating ,buy him a book to read.
2007-02-07 23:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, stay with him. try to help him. little help can be so much.
my bf's cousin has cancer, and she smokes like hell. her cousin died of marrow cancer and she hasnt learned.
her bf stayed with her trying to help her, she changed for a while for her daughter, but old habits kicked in and started chain smoking again and actually thinks death is better, and her bf left her due to maybe couldnt endure the pain.
its up to what you feel and your belief in this.
can you stay with him and show him support or will it keep saddening you?
2007-02-07 23:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love him?...if yes....do not....has he asked you to change?? have you?...you cannot force change..if he wants to he will...anything can cause cancer....some of the things you eat and drink have problably been linked to it..are you giving it up? if you are not exercising and eating right...how can you ask him? I am just giving you food for thought....good luck
2007-02-07 22:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Michael K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels Let me be myself I'm going to die any way.Break up,only if you can't take it.Seems like he needs something more then food.How about counseling?
2007-02-08 01:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's having a pitty party. Tell him to stop or you'll leave and mean it.
2007-02-11 17:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him stay with him and try more to help him.
2007-02-07 22:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋