do u guys think this is fair my bf only makes 400 bucks amonth so he cant pay for his share of rent or anythin

Question

else and when he does get paid he takes my roomates to the bar and out to eat so he usally only has 15 dollars after each check he gets paid every week and when i get paid my whole check has to go to the rent food and bills he doesent want a new job and wont ask for more hours he doesent think its fair that i get mad becuase i bust my *** working 90 to 100 hours every two weeks and dont get a dime of it becuase i would rather have a roof over my head than fun

we have been together nine years and four of them he has had this problom with working and paying his share

Answer 1

Unless you have kids with him, dump this loser. After nine years, he should be a lot more stable. He prefers to go to bars than to pay his share. He is only using you. He could pay his share but he prefers to have fun and let you do all the work. Dump him. You can do better.

Answer 2

have you told him that he should contribute more for the rent and so on. If you have it sounds to be like he is just using you and maybe you should give him an ultimatum saying that he has to lose some of his spending money on bills, rent, and food or he is going to have to lose you. Then if nothing seems to change I would leave him because then he is only using you for your money. :)

Answer 3

Drop him like a hot rock. He's a loser, and if you stay with him, that makes you a loser, too!