I was in a trip to Puerto Rico, with my family, and something went really wroung, with my Grandfather. He die on my Birthday. How can u forget that, or u can't? What can you do about it? Thank you for answering
2007-02-07 16:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im really sorry that your granddad died on your birthday.If you are a christan then every year while you are celebrating your birthday you can also celebrate his new birthday in heaven.My birthday is sept 11. yup 9-11. I celebrate my birthday with many people now.
2007-02-07 16:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat19582002 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
April 12
2016-05-24 05:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the best way to deal with it is to focus on how he lived not how he died. That day can represent your birth and your grandfather's long life. I know it is hard to think about it in that context but remember that life is cyclical.
Life would not be so precious and special if it lasted forever. Therefor birth and death should be celebrated.
Remember times you had with him especially the ones on past birthdays.
2007-02-07 19:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by smikeymouse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Natural law says we are all going to die--that is a fact. We are not on a schedule. Sorry for your loss and it couldn't have happened on a worse day. Always remember the man for who he was and what he accomplished in his life--what you may have learned from him and how much he loved his family. I don't blame you for feeling upset..that is natural. Try to remember him--you shouldn't expect to forget him. Again, my condolances to you and your family---he is in a better place and I believe we will all see each other again in a better life. He will always be watching over you so feel good about that.
2007-02-07 16:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like most deaths, it will affect you a lot. my older brother died just two days after my b-day when i turned ten and he was just 18. it really hurt me, but in the end, i just have to remember that he isn't siffering anymore (he died of cancer) and it took a while to just feel eased from the pain, it i eventually did. everything goes on and you'll see that soon (well not too soon, but in time) you will see that even if he did die on your birthday, you'll never forget, but it won't hurt too much after some time.
2007-02-07 16:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you wont forget and for some time it will be difficult to enjoy the day you were born for it was the day he died too.After 11 years i still cant bring myself new years for my father died that day it does get easier but you dont forget and hope that they are in a better place without pain .GOD bless you and may you remember that you are as impportant as he and try to find a peice inside that allows you to enjoy your b-day
2007-02-07 16:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by resigned 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Debbie i am sorry but there is no way quicker easier to forget it it will just take time
some time u will get over your fathers death =)
2007-02-07 16:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i lost my father on my birthday, i am defiantly daddy's girl, i just try to remember that he is the one that made my birthday great every year and that he would want me to remember to celebrate the life he gave me insted of his death.
2007-02-08 06:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just try to let it go. People die soon or later. But I think you'll always remember about this.
2007-02-07 16:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
maybe go to his grave just to bring him a flower or something special, just from you. that way it might make it easier... im sorry :-(
2007-02-07 16:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋