Family - December 2006

i dont know how
im so sad :{{{ cry cry
please help they compete with eachother and thye fight when they see eachother its soo saad....
and im only 11

2006-12-03 03:32:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. Mother
2. Father
3. Brother/Sister
4. BF/GF

or someone else and why?

2006-12-03 03:24:31 · 16 answers · asked by Sky Boy 3

2006-12-03 03:23:55 · 13 answers · asked by Yo-Duh 1

I gotta question:?
now you see iam right handed, whe iam eating luch or dinner i usually take the fork with my right hand and the knife with my left-hand, is thta normal? instead of taking the fork with my left hand and the knife with my right.
i need to know i think my friend finds it abnormal

2006-12-03 03:18:26 · 13 answers · asked by tino r 1

I don't know where to start, and have very little information to go with.

2006-12-03 03:12:06 · 1 answers · asked by denny 1

THis is the time of year we spend with family . I hate that I have to be around my in laws cause for 1 my mother in law loves to make me the butt of her racial comments just as she did for Thanksgiving.I love my husband & want to make him happy but I'm dreading going to the house of hell for the holidays.He knows how I feel & I try to remain calm around them when they are so nasty but this year I don't think I can be calm cause enough is enough.Help!

2006-12-03 02:57:56 · 5 answers · asked by "karma" 4

Specifically, my husband's brother and his wife. Every time we see them all we get is snide remarks and masked jealousy (they have 3 kids they can't afford, she is an unemployed highschool dropout. We both have decent jobs, no kids, and college educations). We have tried reaching out to them many many times but nothing works. The seem to think that we are "rubbing our money in their faces" (it's not like we are rich!!) Now the holidays are coming and that side of the family is getting together, but I don't think I can take another year of being guilt-tripped for being responsible! I am afraid that either myself or my husband are going to be goaded into an arguement and possibly an explosion. What should we do???

2006-12-03 02:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by Blondonna 2

My father die, He was black and had a baby by a white woman. Now she won't let my fathers famliy see the baby. I want to get the baby and rise him myself. Do i have any rights to do so?

2006-12-03 02:46:25 · 8 answers · asked by asbemk 1

my mother is doing my head in i have 3 kids myself who love xmas and she dosnt belive that we should start celebrating to soon

2006-12-03 02:43:23 · 17 answers · asked by washerwoman 3

Im not being picky, but when my wife curses in anger she curses everything the home the kids, me, her mom her sister the cat. I tell her the wall have ears and cursing things have a negative effect I believe. Yea we curse like thats a FU*#! cool game, or Shi! I smashed my Fu@#^& hand but can't stand cursing people, things or objects. I was so pist at it once she cursed my mother I slapped her hard I left my hand on her face. I went to jail and served probation $2,300 later she still does it. I derserved it, the punishment, but what does she deserve, she still curses, I'm sick of it!!!!

2006-12-03 02:42:07 · 4 answers · asked by speeqtruth 2

your spouse or your child?

2006-12-03 02:21:57 · 10 answers · asked by budi 2

my dad died a year and a half ago, and i miss him so much. i feel really depressed, and i feel like my intelligence has suddenly dropped. i know i should talk to someone, but my friends have already been there for me so many times, i don't want to keep asking them for support. i don't trust my mother or my sister, or any other adult members of my family. my friends and my school work have become my life since my dad died.

please help

2006-12-03 02:13:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two sons and my wife has one of her own. My wifes son doesn't know his father. I get assuced of not giving her son what he needs. I get accused of not treating the three boys the same, their ages 5, 11, and 12. This is happening a lot. Things like Why did he get a penut butter sandwhich and yours got a pizza from the freezer, responce. There were only two slices and he said a sandwhich was fine. I get the hand and attitude. When I bought a t shirt for my sons band needs, I get sarcasim because I did not think to buy her son a school logo shirt. Argument always beging with the things she thinks/assume/congers I do not do for her son. I yell back I am the wrong man to say these thing to. She should tell the other. His biofather. I tire of this shi!! She refuces to see that this is unhealthy appologies but short after here we are again. I am tired of it, I am so fustrated it hurt me that she think and says this about me. I love my sons and her son but I am starting to resent hers..

2006-12-03 02:04:29 · 13 answers · asked by speeqtruth 2

I work a few days a week and my husband works long hours usually 6 days a week.

I primarily take care of our home, clean, take care of the children, feed them etc.
I take pride in having a nice, neat, well put together house and like it tidy and clean.

My mother is the only baby sitter I have for the few days a week that I work, and we CAN'T afford a baby sitter for 10-11 hours three days a week.
When I get home after working a long day after my mom has watched my kids,
my house looks like a tornado came through.
OK I'm not exaggerating AT ALL--The cusions and pillows are all over the floors, there is splatter all over the cabinets, she will cook all day and leave a huge sink of dirty dishes that they have been using the entire day, there will be sticky spots on my carpets, dark spots, sometimes even feces on my sofa and floor, my kitchen floor is sticky, dirty and gross, the kids room is so bad, you can't even step in it.

2006-12-03 01:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 01:34:30 · 13 answers · asked by Tracy B 1

My nephews Father has moved in with me and my husband, he has been divorced from my sister for 5 years now. My nephew stays here on the weekends with his dad. The problem is my nephew has a girlfriend who's Mother has a drinking problem. She has been known to leave her daughter alone at home in the past because she obviously just doesnt care. Last night this happened and the girl had to spend the night here. I dont want this to continue in my home anymore but I feel if I tell my nephew shes not allowed over here anymore then my nephew wont visit his dad here. My sister allows his girlfriend to spend the night at her house when the mom forgets to get her daughter but I dont think its appropriate at 14 yrs. old. The Mom left her daughter alone for 3 days without contact and my sister let her stay at her house. I cant be apart of this behavior, what would you do? Please help!!

2006-12-03 01:27:55 · 13 answers · asked by julia4evert 4

We're recently relocated out of state from the entire family. Husband takes the train into DC everyday. I had the great idea to take a photo of the kids dressed in business suits underneath the train station sign which says the name of our city. One kid is looking at her watch, one is looking at the local newspaper and one is looking at his watch, as if waiting for the train. It is really cute.

I'd like to use it as the front of our Christmas cards, but don't have a clever line to put with it. Can you help me come up with something?!

2006-12-03 01:25:44 · 3 answers · asked by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5

Time passes...do you make the first move to reconcile, or do you let her stew until she comes to her senses? What if she never does...and a lot of time has passed??

2006-12-03 01:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5

2006-12-03 00:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by joe 3

Now a days money is the new god. people work day and night to bring in more money. The women are also working. I believe that being a real home maker is a full time job. It is because children need mother all the time. Working mothers have to leave childern to baby sitters. This results into many horrible things like child pornography, drug addiction and god knows what more. Therefore the women should be encouraged to be full time home makers. Working women can at the best be called house makers. Great difference.

2006-12-03 00:30:57 · 23 answers · asked by RD 1

First off my younger sister lives with me (17) and are 4 older brothers (19.21.23) my dad is out of the question and when my mom moved away with her new husband she decided to live with my brothers and I. One night she came home around 3am completely drunk and smeelt like drugs. The next morning when i went to talk to her about it she just keept telling me to f*** off and shyt like that so i took her over the knee and spanked her(clothes on of course) now she's not talking to me but i don't feel bad about it was i wrong?

2006-12-03 00:29:18 · 11 answers · asked by jt_soccer11 1

I don't know if she even knows what she is doing...she always makes excuses as to who gets what..and it is her daughter and all her family that are the recipients...my husband, our daughter, son-in-law, grandson and I do receive things but it is not nearly equal...we are good and kind to her and I know she loves us as well....we feel hurt, but try not to let it bother us, but it is underlying and won't go away

2006-12-03 00:20:54 · 5 answers · asked by basport_2000 5

she won't eat any of the food i have in
should she go to the shop for something she likes or should i?
what do i do about the boredom? she wants me to take her out but i was planning on a day of catching up with housework

2006-12-02 23:41:26 · 20 answers · asked by jay dee 1

i am worried about my husband, he gets compared with his brothers he is the eldest but because he has been married b4 with 3 children b4 he met me, his mother is always comparing him that the other boys have more than him.
he says it's starting to get like a chore to see her, his brothers have their own house we don't we rent. we would love to own but it's to dear where we live.
i have spoken to my mother in law about this but she denies saying " that she doesn't compare them to each other", the other day was a prime example she said to my husband that " if the boys were in trouble she would have no hesitation , but to help them" .

and yet she won't help us, can some1 help me as i am worried my husband may say something he won't regret. or he will do something

2006-12-02 22:37:32 · 13 answers · asked by T O 1

I'm a 19-year-old girl and I decided to quit my family, my studies and my country and start a new life abroad. My parents are really angry knowing this, the present situation at home is unbearable, nobody speaks to me... I'm in a permanent depression. My parents seem not to see that I could be happier abroad-my boyfriend is living there and I want to study at a university there as well...

2006-12-02 22:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i have this friend and she iz younger than me..and people say i boss her around i personally don't think i do anything to her but alot of people say im too mean 2 her and everything..wat should i do to be less bossy and controllive?

2006-12-02 21:47:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jazmine R 1

My dad who I am so proud of is a recovering alcoholic. He almost died 1yr ago. Since then--sober. Hes very unhealthy. He has Hepetitis B--makes his body weaker every day. He has had both hips replaced & a TERRIBLE back. Hes n pain 24/7. He cant work b/c of his disability, He just lies on the couch 24/7 & watches TV. My mom is a mentally depressed woman who is not happy w/ life. She has been put through hell & back with my dad. She has no family they all abandoned her. And has had depression symptoms b/c of that. They live in a small trailer & have nothing 2 look forward to. Has any1 been in my situation? I just want to hear how other ppl handled it. I love my family but it breaks my heart to see them like that. I feel helpless and so sorry for them.

I have a 8 yr old brother who lives there w/ them. I feel like our parents are affecting him mentally. And he may steer into trouble. So I will be taking him in to live w/ me when I graduate college in about 3 yrs.

2006-12-02 20:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by Britni Gayle 2

last year my mum bought me a brand new really expensive bed for xmas!!! Three weeks ago i took my bed when i moved in with my b/f she is now saying that i stole my own bed!!!
She hasn't spoke to me since!!

I cant really have stole my own xmas prezzie, Could i???

2006-12-02 20:46:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am chinese and 19. my dad is a businessman and very old-tradition. my boyfriend is mexican and i have been with him for five years now. but this whole time, my dad does not like me going out with him bc he thinks my boyfriend will not be able to provide me with a life that i might have with a more well-off guy (financially). my dad is always trying to hook me up with one of his business partner's sons! my mom on the other hand loves my boyfriend. everyone who knows my boyfriend says he is a good kid but they claim that he is not good enough for me! (i am just always one step ahead than kids my age) my mom told me to do whatever i want but i don't want my father to make my bf feel bad all the time! i just feel so tired of everyone thinking less of my bf.
should i listen to my father and leave my boyfriend? or should i just do whatever i want?
thank you!!

2006-12-02 20:05:25 · 4 answers · asked by BlueGirl007 2

This will be my 3 children and my first Christmas without their father (my husband) with us (he left 9 mnths ago & now living with another woman and her two children). Although I always liked our traditional Christmas, (putting out food/carrat for Santa, 'key' at door, opening stocking fillers, then gifts from Santa, etc the basic run of the mill traditional Christmas) I want to change or add to somehow make our Christmas's different - more magical. I just don't want us to be doing the same routine with a gaping big emotional vaccum of memories of Christmas's past.

2006-12-02 19:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Hope 2