Family - December 2006

2006-12-02 11:53:29 · 13 answers · asked by J3NNIF3R S 1

Im 18, and I am moving into the city(manhattan), in 2 weeks alone, im going to be working and going to school, but my mom is having a fit, thinking im going to get killed or end up homeless(I have a room waiting for me there),maybe im being stubborn but I dont see why she is making such a big deal

2006-12-02 11:51:16 · 26 answers · asked by bustybabygrl88 2

2006-12-02 11:43:54 · 3 answers · asked by tyler_shafer11 2

i'm getting married soon and my partner wants to adopt my 4yr old son, we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs. My ex has not seen son for 3yrs but is on birth cert, has never tried for access and never paid maintenance, i don't know if i need to ask his permission but i know he would never agree to it!! We live in Scotland, know the law is slightly different here than England, thanks!!

2006-12-02 11:42:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok im 14 and i got an almost 3 month old son i had him september 11th. and i have a best friend named dylan which i named him after i met dylan 3 or 4 months before i got pregnant when i told him i was pregnant he accepted it because it was mostly not my fault because the father of my son is not the best person in the world he is currently in jail for stagetory rape. but dylan almost killed him when he found out what the guy did to me so yea were close like family and i really like him and he gets along well with me and enjoys being around my son and acts as if hes a father figure and takes care of me at school and comes over alot to hang out Do you all think i should like be with him as if we were dating? because i like him alot and he likes me back and is perfect for me according to alot of people and my parents even approve of him well one does the other is also in prison. but what do you all think? anything will help?

2006-12-02 11:35:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 34 and my brother is 40... we both have 2 kids and live less than a mile from each other. He has only seen my kids twice in 2006 and he and his wife never want to do anything with my family. I have tried to build a relationship with him, but my brother does not seem interested in bringing our families together. Yet he is very disappointed and he is trying to make us feel guilty that my wife and I wont be at Christmas this year. What is you opinion on this?

2006-12-02 11:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The thought it would ware off i started when i was 4

i broke 7 boards and broke my arm 3 times but i still skate and my best friend just got a skatepark in his house and they wont let me skate there. so what can i tell them to lt me skate more and skate there

2006-12-02 11:28:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son always picks on his sister, hits her, trips her takes things from her. He also will not listen to me or my wife about running jumping on furniture, picking up after himself etc. He is good for everyone else, teacher, babysitter, Aunts, Uncles. What can we do to get the information to stick in his head. Usually gets put in the corner after we have asked to listen a few times. What can we do?

2006-12-02 11:26:45 · 18 answers · asked by miky2tones 2

does she whant spaceor is she mad at me?

2006-12-02 11:25:10 · 3 answers · asked by nene 1

I have been with my husband for a total of 8 yrs and married for 3. Me and him have one 3 yr old son together and he has 2 teenage sons that also live with us. When we bought our house 4 yrs ago his sons came to me and asked if they could move in with us. We all have a good relationship and they even considered me and introduce me to people as their mother. (Their real mother is on drugs) I had a talk with them and told them as long as they respected me and followed our rules then there shouldn't be a problem. Well the last 4 yrs have been pure hell. I have been back and forth to schools and courts and jail until I thought I was the one doing something wrong. They have brought drugs into my house and I've called the police on them. They steal things from me and it seems that everything I try with them it doesn't work. I always have headaches and I am not in peace in my own home. I love the boys like they are my own but I have a son to raise and they're a very bad influence on him.

2006-12-02 11:12:51 · 13 answers · asked by Dyme Diva 2

my house was boarded up and i and my doughter were evicted,and the children serveses took my 5yr doughter from me because we are homeless. i need a merical.

2006-12-02 11:10:13 · 3 answers · asked by dherrington961 1

My 8 year old daughter is from a relationship I had when I was 18. Her father and I didnt work out and after she turned 1 I left him. He has remained in her life and been a loving father. He was the type of dad to play in the snow and make jello in the bathtub. She adores her father. this last march, He brutally raped and murdered another little girl. He confessed to what he did and is now in prison for life. He never gave anyone any explanation. My daughter wants to know why her dad just disapeared. She thinks we dont care about him because we arent looking for him. I know this is hurting her, should I tell her what hes done or continue to let her feel abandoned and like she did something wrong?

2006-12-02 10:39:25 · 20 answers · asked by helenas 1

child abuse: the physical, emotional or sexual mistreatment of child; mistreatment of a child by a parent or guardian including neglect, beating, and sexual molestation
neglect-to pay no attention or too little attention to; disregard
okay, theres the definitions. heres what happens
they pay as little attention to me as possible.they beat me,they constantly make me feel bad
Signs:Physical Abuse-Unexplained or repeated injuries such as welts, bruises, or burns. Injuries that are in the shape of an object,injuries not likely to happen given the age or ability of the child. For example, broken bones in a child too young to walk or climb. different explanations of injurys,Unreasonable explanation of the injury.Obvious neglect of the child(dirty, undernourished, inappropriate clothes for the weather, lack of medical or dental care).Fearful behavior.
Most of those are true with me.So tell me what you think, please?most of my friends say yes,but i want to know from other points of view

2006-12-02 10:37:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has 3 children 6, 14, and 16 he is in the middle. about a month ago his father went to jail for threats agaist his mother, him and his dad never had a close relationship, and his father abuse him with harsh words and threaten him a lot as well, he always in troble at school. and so far since the dad left it got worse, actually I thought things was gonna be better for him. his mother got a male friend, which he don't like him and let him know it too. my sister always gave him everything he desired, he recently is hanging around with a group of bad boys that is stealing, she think that he invole too. she says that she would rather put him in jail, and said she is fed up with his behaviour at school, at home, etc. What can she do with a boy this age? and what do you think what is going on with him at this time.

2006-12-02 10:36:30 · 12 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3

What is a good sport for my brother who is 8 years old and is very energetic? Also, I want to get my sister to join something but what would you say she should join? She is 11 and is not active at all.

2006-12-02 10:30:50 · 3 answers · asked by Kevin 4

whats a good present for a 50 year old mom with a budget of 30$?

2006-12-02 10:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by zan c 3

i'm 22 and i live with mother and grandma...i have to stay at home to "babyseat" her cause she is blind...but the thing is i dont think that i ahve to sacrifice my life because i dont go out at all or socialize just to help out in the house and to supervise her. i'm still at home to help my mother out especially when my granma started living with us...i know this isnt her fault, i know...one time i put a blindfold on to see what she was going through...but i cant help but feel a lil bit resentful towards her...i feel very overwhelmed and depressed because of this, i went to live the life of a 22 year old u know...not even partying or drinking or anything like that cause that is not me but like you know what i mean?? i feel that this means i'm a bad person but i'm trying not to be u know..but i dont know..i am praying for this...

2006-12-02 10:21:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help please,

My christmas is going to be ruined. Every other year my partner and i go to my parents house for xmas (we go to my partner's parents place on the other years). This year my mother is insisting on inviting my ex-boyfriend for dinner. She has done this many times in the past - he is now a friend of the family. I cannot bear to be around him and it makes both me and my partner feel extremely uncomfortable. I have tried to talk to my mother about it but she says i should just deal with it - he's moved on and so should I. I have no feelings for him, I just don't like him or want to be around him. I have emailed her to explain how i feel but she got very angry and said i should not be dictating to her and how dare i tell her who she can or cannot invite to her house. I have said we're happy to go any other time but not when he's there.

We're now not talking at all. What should i do?

2006-12-02 10:19:04 · 33 answers · asked by suz 2

I would wish to live with my mom

2006-12-02 10:15:00 · 15 answers · asked by Ams 2

ok my parents wont t me have a cell phone, instant messaging, or go out wit a boy alone at the movies. wat i dont get is why instant messaging is so "bad" evryone has it. can any1 find a reaso y its bad? or convince my mom otherwise? help please i'm in 8t grade!

2006-12-02 10:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom is a alcoholic and she drinks mainly every day well this weekend she did not pick me up because the day before she was drinking. When i do go over there i am home alone because she is drinking. what should i do?? And by the way she has been to many groups but it does not help!

2006-12-02 10:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ams 2

My mother has just sent me this text:

"Would you please accept my biggest apology for all that I've done to upset & offend you & could we just put our differences behind us?"

It is unusual for her to apologise as she is a person who is not always right but is never wrong.

The thing is,I'm not quite ready to forgive her yet & her message sounds like she doesn't realise what she's done to upset me.After all that's gone on she still won't acknowledge these things & so I feel like it isn't a real apology.

I'm too mad at her to really want to speak to her & recently she's taken to blaming my dad (they have been divorced for 13 years & I now live with my dad) & being really nasty to him because I'm not speaking to her,even though I made this decision & it was completely my choice.

She turns everything around to be everyone elses fault but hers.I know she's my mother but I don't agree that just because of this I should forgive her.

So what do I do?Forgive her or not?And why?

2006-12-02 10:02:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know it's a story people generally tell their kids who are too young to face the reality/truth about sex/where babies come frome, but i have never heard the story. Anyone know it? i'd love to hear it; just for laughs! plus you'll get a best answer too if you succeed in answering first, so it should be worth your time! thanks!

2006-12-02 09:55:49 · 2 answers · asked by Bubbles 3

How do you get your 16 year old son to Phone you and let you know where he is and if he is not coming home at night, where he is going to be?. He is very big for 16 and most people think he is 20. So he has gotten into the habit of not letting his mom know anything about his private life. He says he is not a baby and he wishes we all would leave him alone. Help.

2006-12-02 09:44:51 · 9 answers · asked by Diane G 6

i got in trouble yesterday at school. when i got home my mom sent me to my room after we got into an argument. about an hour later she came up to my room and told me i was grounded for a week and couldn't play xbox for a week. I called her a bad name and she got really mad. she told me i was going to get a spanking and i just laughed at her. she then went for me and i tried to get her to stop and get away but after a minute of fighting her she pull down my pants and spanked me like 12 times. it hurt really bad. i'm 13 years old and to big for this crap. i hadn't been spanked in like 2 years how do i tell her not to do this anymore?

2006-12-02 09:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you get rid of gay kids in front of your house??

2006-12-02 09:16:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 09:08:31 · 7 answers · asked by Foxtrot 2

2006-12-02 09:04:19 · 11 answers · asked by carole 5

i fell in love with a wonderful gurl and married her..she and her bro r twins.. ( the siblings r very close) all was fine until i found them behaving like lovers behind my back...(they went to the same school for 12 yrs ..if that helps the understanding)
i am in absolute shock..with all kindsa weird possibilties going thro my mind ..i will turn a wreck plzz help.

2006-12-02 08:55:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother continually sneaks in my room during the wee hours of the morning. Neither my parents nor I have any idea how to solve this. We've tried bribes, a new bed, and other stuff, but nothing seems to work. He either says he scared, or can't get to sleep, which gains him a passage into my top bunk. I am not really bothered by this, but I am just wondering if need be, how do I stop this behavior?

2006-12-02 08:53:25 · 6 answers · asked by laxer16 1