i got in trouble yesterday at school. when i got home my mom sent me to my room after we got into an argument. about an hour later she came up to my room and told me i was grounded for a week and couldn't play xbox for a week. I called her a bad name and she got really mad. she told me i was going to get a spanking and i just laughed at her. she then went for me and i tried to get her to stop and get away but after a minute of fighting her she pull down my pants and spanked me like 12 times. it hurt really bad. i'm 13 years old and to big for this crap. i hadn't been spanked in like 2 years how do i tell her not to do this anymore?
2006-12-02 09:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i called her the b word like "you xxxxx" she's still mad at me and my dad comes home from a trip tomorrow. i am worried.
2006-12-02 09:49:31 · update #1
Grow up, stay out of trouble and keep your potty mouth to yourself. Then you're mom won't have a reason to paddle your @$$ for acting like a 3 year old. Go Mom!
2006-12-02 09:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you tell mom that you won't call her names if she stops spanking you there would at least be room for both of you to grow. Start learning to compromise with people. Your at an age where you'll wanna start dating. Are you gonna cry to your mate that mommy took away your xbox? Are you gonna call your mate a filthy name? If you can grow up and respect her as a friend who is trying to help mold you for this world then maybe you too could grow from this. And little by little the respect can start taking over. Stick to your deals though. Don't promise and then go back on it. Otherwise so will she.
2006-12-02 09:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Me2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well u do. Look i was in the same situation like u. I was 13 and crazy. I got into a lot a fights and it got to the piont where the skool wanted to keep me back. My teachers hated me. they though i was a delinquent who had no possible future. I didnt care i wanted to drop out. But for 1 teacher. they knwe i was headed fro trouble. They helped my find the way. I had some really bad grades ( all f's!!) and didnt give a crap. but she helped me. she help me find a way and now im in the right path. she even help me get accepted into one of the best hi skools in florida. N u know what? im not perfect. i still make mistakes but at least i try to fix them. Stop bieng bad in school and find the right path for you. Tell omeone u really believe in that will believe in you 2. I knw right now u wont care but believe me you will. Right now you really need though spankingd
2006-12-02 09:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your mom are both acting up. Answer this - how can you mom get YOU to
1) stay out of trouble at school and
2) treat her with respect even when you're angry.
What would motivate YOU? If you can answer that, maybe you'll have some idea how to get your mom not to spank you anymore.
2006-12-02 09:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters stop yelling at your mom- cursing and laughing at her is not going to solve your problem, it'll just prove to her that you're still immature. You should not be having physical fights with your mom- that's just plain wrong on her end.
You should explain the way you feel to her about physical punishment.
Violent behaviour on the part of a parent is completely unacceptable- she's just teaching you to be violent.
2006-12-02 09:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rebby H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
... I'm 23 and now that I'm back living with my Mom, its like I'm 13. We got into a really bad argument and she scuffed me up... then said "Go ahead and hit me back"
-that hurt... Deep, as if I would hit my very own Mother...
Well, All I can say is, try to do right and stay out of her way.
**And Never, Ever, Hit your Mother!**
2006-12-02 09:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course this was nine years ago ... even then, you figured you could 'handle' your mom; so why were you worried about when your dad got home? Couldn't you 'take' whatever he'd give you?
2016-01-27 13:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you could act like you are 13 and not 3 that might help kids thinks they are to big to be spanked should act like it then
2006-12-02 09:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chill
2006-12-02 09:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by tarves23 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your mom can still manhandle you, then you are still a canidate for a good spanking...
p.s. never call your mother a bad name...she put you in this world...
2006-12-02 09:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by laxer16 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋