i fell in love with a wonderful gurl and married her..she and her bro r twins.. ( the siblings r very close) all was fine until i found them behaving like lovers behind my back...(they went to the same school for 12 yrs ..if that helps the understanding)
i am in absolute shock..with all kindsa weird possibilties going thro my mind ..i will turn a wreck plzz help.
2006-12-02 08:55:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are probably just reading to much into there natural bond but if you aren't sure ask she might get offended(the reaction u want) or defensive which is not good, if she is offended tell her you are sorry you just are jealous of their relationship because you want to be closer with her she should understand if she is defensive well thats well you know
2006-12-02 09:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by marion r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a possibilty that you misght have misunderstood them, or just watch for some days, if you are sure they r lovers more than siblings, leave her. If you just have doubt then talk to her. Dont keep things in mind and suffer, one thing will lead to another. Just talk and clarify. Buddy all the best
2006-12-05 07:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by myself_keeru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you assume to be be behaviour of lovers. If they were huging, then that is acceptable as everyone needs a hug, no matter how old and from family. However, if it was more than that, sit them both down together and ask gently what the situation is. The momnt you start to fly of the handle, you will have lost and ended up with no explainations.
2006-12-03 14:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not mentioned what did u observed . the relation of brother and sister is very close . what if they went to the ssame school for 12 years , those girls who dont get married they live with there brothers family for rest of there lives what will you say about that ? you should not think like this its bad . dont you have a sister ?
2006-12-04 02:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about your concerns with a cool and balanced head. I am sure you people will sort out your differences and everything will be fine. It may just be a misunderstanding.
Best of Luck
2006-12-03 05:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should chek if you are just dreaming!!!! twins in LOVE?!! Maybe they are just being close.Maybe she has something that she isnt ready to tell u about.maybe she is avoiding u of something u did. talk to her and keep eyecontact.try to be sweet and do NOT rush through it. good luck!!
2006-12-02 17:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by maya 92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh good lord!
i feel really bad for u.........and how can siblings...........be lovers????????? i feel like puking!!!!!!!!
just try and catch them red handed and tell yr wife that she ows u an explanation...
r u sure abt this..............like maybe it's just a misconception on yr part...
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-03 08:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!???? What the heck is up with that??? Like, what were they doing. Maybe they are just... errrr.... really close or something.
2006-12-02 17:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Penelope ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is true talk with them do no get angry bring them psychiatrics
2006-12-05 12:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by indian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew...thats gross. i think you should talk to them seperatately and see whats going on
2006-12-02 16:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋