last year my mum bought me a brand new really expensive bed for xmas!!! Three weeks ago i took my bed when i moved in with my b/f she is now saying that i stole my own bed!!!
She hasn't spoke to me since!!
I cant really have stole my own xmas prezzie, Could i???
2006-12-02 20:46:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
explain it to her. tell her that the gift meant so much to you that you wanted to take it with you to your b/f house. tell her that she means the world to you and you dont want to fall out over a bed. make sure she knows how much the bed means to you, even if it does sound stupid. maybe shes just goin through a bad time and feels like you are abandoning her, therefore falling out with you would get her the attention from you that she wants. make sure she knows that you love her and you will always be mother and daughter no matter what happens you will always lover her and be there for her
gud lukk
xxx
2006-12-03 01:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by LifeLiveLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Maybe your mum is not happy that you moved in your boyfriends house. Because you will be far from her and she will miss her beautiful daughter. That is why she had said that to you. But deep inside your mothers heart , is full of loneliness of letting you go away from her. Don't worry she will be fine later. Don't forget to visit her on Christmas and buy her a Christmas presents too. Don't worry and just calm down. Because when you reach at the stage of being a mother. That is the time that you will understand why she was acting like this.
2006-12-02 21:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by MAGNIFICENT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like much of a christmas present to me... without hearing her side of the story I can't make a judgement on that.
Mums never stop loving their children, even when they are not talking to them. I bet if your boyfriend dumped you she would still be on your side and support you. Perhaps she's a little irritated because you moved out and didn't ask to take the bed with you?
Either way, she is still your mum and she still loves you. Send her a bunch of flowers and a card, and tell her how much you love her and ask if there is anything that you can do to make her happy with you again.
Good Luck
2006-12-02 21:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by lothlorien_priestess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she bought you the bed as a present, it's yours to do whatever you like with. I don't think this is about the bed at all; I think what she's really angry about is you moving out and "leaving" her (as she probably sees it). She's not showing it in a very mature way, though. In fact, she's being really childish. Let her do the running, seeing as she's the one who created this situation.
2006-12-03 05:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by chemical_sister_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that's not the only reason she will not speak to you b/cus that is quite StUpId on her part. Maybe there's a deeper reason, maybe she felt like she was giving you a good home and you just got up and left her. She may feel unappreciated. Ya'll should have a momma daughter talk. I hope you two can reconcile and make things better. A daughter needs her mom. Best of luck to you and her.
2006-12-02 21:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Britni Gayle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum loves you, she doesn't hate you, but she surely is annoyed at you that you have moved out of home and in with your b/f.
My parents have the habit of giving my brothers and I stuff, only to later reclaim the stuff when we do something that annoys them. It is their way of asserting their control/power over you. Don't worry, legally the bed is yours. But it looks like there needs to be some work on communications to mend this relationship.
2006-12-02 20:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt state your age, i presume you are in your teens... She doesnt hate you, she buys you really expensive things, your bed among others. She loves you and is just concerned because you are moving out of your home to be with your b/f. I think she wants you back, not the bed....
2006-12-02 20:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by edith i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, presents are a gift and belong to you ... however, I am sure she didn't intend for it to be a shacking-up gift for you AND your b/f .... My guess is she feels you conned her into buying the bed for you (and your b/f )and then betrayed her by moving out before the next christmas ... Since you are shacking up, perhaps she is more inclined to save the bed for you when you get married than possibly lose it to your b/f when he kicks you out.
2006-12-02 20:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it back and see what her responds is to your returning the gift! Moms are strange in that way when they feel that there baby,s are leaving nest! and they are feeling afraid,not needed any more, so they lash out because they feel hurt so they want to hurt back!But that bed was only a present to you when you were living at home!what are you going to sleep in when you go home to visit!?
2006-12-02 20:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just upset about you moving in with your boyfriend and is using the bed to annoy you.
2006-12-02 20:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by leper madonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋