Family - December 2006

I am trying to decide what to get my dad for christmas, i usually get him something involving work and i don't want to do that this time can someone tell me a good presents for dad's? Thanx=)

2006-12-03 10:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 10:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by hi 1

The talking back 'smarting off' is just too much. What am I, or his mother to do?

2006-12-03 10:19:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dear Counselor

My name is Taylor, I am 15 years old and I am soon going to be 16. For many reasons I feel that it is best that I move out, but have no where to go. I have a few questions that I was hoping you could answer for me.

1. I do not have a SIN, and my parents will not sign for one, who else can? I heard they had to be over 18, so I could get my grams to sign for me right?.
2. If I live in a shelter, can I stay at my current school? I home school and I think it best for me, (academically, and emotionally) that I stay where I am. Would I be able to do my work at a shelter?
3. At 16 can I be forced to move back home?
4. What job options are available to me at 16?
5. What are my options for moving out? I have no friends or family to live with. I know shelters are an option, but are their any others?


Those are all the questions I can think of at the moment but I am sure I will have more later.

Thank you for your time

Taylor

2006-12-03 10:18:43 · 2 answers · asked by Girlie 1

I am 20 weeks this week- five months- I don't show- I have no symptoms besides back pain in my ultra sound the baby was smaller than normal in week 16 and I am undergoing alot of stress I go to the doctors friday I'll ask but did anyone else have a baby that was too small in the ultrasound 8.5 normal is 9.3-10.3 I don't know.

2006-12-03 10:04:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i made my mom cry. i dont know my dad and my mom never talks about him.whenever i ask about him i was get the feeling tht shes lying to me.But NE wayz i asked her old my dad was now and she around 40 but then i kept asking questions and caught her in some of her lies. and i started yellin at her to just tell me the truth! but she started cryin...i feel like an asshole 4 yellling at her like that. do u have any idea on how ican make it up to her?

2006-12-03 10:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by Josh B 1

2006-12-03 10:03:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and i can't belive even though my mom's on her own he's still doing! he has serious control freak issues! (his mom is messed up and has them too) and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is (it's our messed up sexist culture) and no1 wud support me (as i said messed up culture) so wut do i do

2006-12-03 09:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by mamama 2

im 14 and my dad still kisses me on my lips. ive told him to stop when i was 10yrs old cuz i told him i was 2 old. but he got really mad and said that it was the only way he felt tht he can show me tht he love me. But now im HS and he was a chaperone at a field trip and he came and kissed me on my lips. and now like every1 at skool say my dad a perv and they call him Micheal Jackson. It gets really mad but i dont what to do. what can i do/say so tht my dad will atleast stop doin tht in public? and how old r u when ur dad usually stops kissing u on the lips?

2006-12-03 09:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Josh B 1

I am 23, living out on my own I pay my own bills and take care of myself and have been doing so for the last 2 years. My mother mother still continues to manipulate me. As a child her favorite things to say to me(when i didnt do what she wanted me to do) was your children will treat you how you treat me, and obey thy parents and live long on this earth. But now thas I am older I realize that i treat my mother the way she treats me, no child is born evil, i have learned my behavior from her because she is usually down right nasty to me even in public and it is belittling and embarrasing. Everytime i go around her, i come home later on that night and cry my eyes out because of the way she is towards me. nothing i say to her seems to help her understand that i cant take it anymore. I want to sever my relationship with her for good, because she is the only one who makes me feel so low. But its hard because she is the only mother i have. Should i contiue to go around her, or stay away? help

2006-12-03 09:37:33 · 11 answers · asked by JASMINE T 1

Why are my grandparents so selfish? It breaks my heart. My husband has been in Afghanistan since last January, and he gets to come home this January for 2 weeks. We decided in June that we would meet in Wisconsin because both our mom's live there. About a month ago, my grandparents who live in Alaska went on this tirade on how he's doing it on purpose just to ruin their Christmas. I'm a full time student with pets and was hired seasonally at a company. They expect me to drop everything and visit them because there may be a power outage and the pipes could freeze. I'm expected to take my finals early, quit my job, and hire a pet sitter to stay at my house for a month. They don't want me visiting my husband at all. They are the ones that raised me, so have the capabilities of makes me feel extremely guilty. I have totally lost my Christmas spirit and have been spending most my days crying as of late. How can people you love be so selfish? I don't know what to do.

2006-12-03 09:27:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so, I always have bad dreams about me getting hurt, me getting kidnapped, someone breaking in my house, or even my lil' sis getting hurt. One time I had a dream that I was in the Wal-Mart parking lot with my mom and some guy ran up to me, picked me up, and kidnapped me and my mom didn't even notice til I started screaming like heck! Then I wake up sweating and I get paranoid and think that someone's in my house and I like hear footsteps and can't go to sleep til like 3 whole hours. And I just freeze, but I keep looking outside.( to see if anyone's out there. But no one EVER is) HELP!

2006-12-03 09:24:32 · 15 answers · asked by maddythecutie2010 1

im the youngest of 4 my sister is 10 yrs older & my 2 brothers are 8 &7 yrs older than me , my father died alomost 3 yrs ago my mom has severe damage in her back my sibilings told me to take her to a back specialist, which i did he ordered an mri & the results are not good back surgery is the only option & now my brothers are mad at me because im leaving this decesion up to my mom as far as what she wants to do, my 2 brothers tell me she will not be having the surgery, i dont understand, i did what they asked & now im on their s**t list. what do i do now? my mom is 71 not 7 i feel this is up to her, not her children.

2006-12-03 08:58:40 · 4 answers · asked by amy j 2

2006-12-03 08:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by yo-yo 3

She has been a nasty, vindictive, manipulative woman to anyone she feels superior to. She has made most holidays extremely stressful for my whole family. My adult son and I are the biggest targets of her insults and venom. I am finding that the stress I am under is taking a toll on my health and marriage. This year my family has decided not to include her in our holiday festivities. In fact I do not plan to ever invite her to my house again. Now I am feeling guilty. So many times in the past I have forgiven her with out any apology coming from her. Am I doing a selfish thing by finally ending this relationship? I know you can't refuse to see certain in-laws forever but with my husbands support I plan to keep my distance whenever possible.

2006-12-03 08:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and i can't belive even though my mom's on her own he's still doing! he has serious control freak issues! (his mom is messed up and has them too) and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is (it's our messed up sexist culture) and no1 wud support me (as i said messed up culture) so wut do i do

2006-12-03 08:36:30 · 6 answers · asked by mamama 2

i have that 2 women in nest prob,im happy but its a pain in the **** livin with parents when ur 29[i know im winnging wouldnt have it any other way just want symphathy]!!!!!!!!!!!!to tell the truth me mams great but im a whingging ****!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-03 08:34:28 · 15 answers · asked by karen. 4

don't know. just need info.

2006-12-03 08:30:45 · 4 answers · asked by princess C 2

After years of neglect and no communication nor him acknowledging me as his daughter, I want my birth father off my birth certificate and no longer want anything to do with my biological father's family or him. Can you get another man to indicate that he was your dad? I am 32 and can get someone else to say he was my dad. I just don't want this loser dad listed as my father anymore. I WANT NOTHING OF HIS NOR HIS FAMILY.

2006-12-03 08:27:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in the dorms and usually every night my mom calls me to makes sure I'm ok (gets very annoying sometimes and she's such a worrywart). Last night I called her and she sounded weird on the phone. Usually when we talk she does all of the talking but this time there was like total silence on the phone so I got fed up and asked to talk to my dad. From my dad I found out that she was drunk which really pissed me off. I needed to talk to her about some personal problems and she wasn't even there to listen.

I spent the entire night crying to myself because she really hurt me that way. Now I don't even want to hear the sound of her vioce it makes me so pissed off. I would have wished she didn't answered the phone than talk to me on the phone drunk! What kind of example are you showing your kids? I mean if I talked on the phone to her while I was drunk she would kill me!

Am I being too dramatic? I feel weird confronting her about this. Any advice would be appreciated.Thanks

2006-12-03 08:22:09 · 27 answers · asked by L.M.L 6

i really need your support right now in everyway. christmas is coming and it makes me sad because i can't make my 8 year old happy i break down into tears what can i do please help me.

2006-12-03 08:17:41 · 8 answers · asked by e m 1

Just wondering if anyone has been in this situation before. Wondering if they looked for their real parents or not and Why ?

2006-12-03 08:01:47 · 14 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7

I am seriously considering adoption of a boy or a girl from a 3rd world country. I have felt very strongly about this for a while and I am finally at a stage in my life where I feel that I can contribute on a larger scale. I am currently single though and cant help but ask myself if a single parent home would be fair to the child or is anything better than the alternative of growing up an orphan?

2006-12-03 07:58:35 · 19 answers · asked by Pc 1

should i do something to prevent this(i.e. call cps) bc he doesnt do it in a abusive way. he does more of in a perverted way.In front of everyone. I asked my nephew about it and he said that its humilating. and i asked him if my bro touched him and said no... but i still have my doubts. what should b done? my mom accused him of molesting is older son a few yrs back and it damn near tore our family apart

2006-12-03 07:53:08 · 32 answers · asked by James 1

2006-12-03 07:52:46 · 29 answers · asked by rmuskath 1

my mum and dad are getting divorced , by brother has just come out of prision and has a angry problem , my sister ran away from home and has been married twice and she gets beaten up by her boy friend. my brother and father argue and somtimes beat each other up. my mum screams loud and so does everybody else . every day theres at least 3 arguments . my mum brakes every think out of anger and my dad says im worth nothing . my brother and sister dont get on with me and i dont know what to do , im only just 14 . i dont know what to do . my brother just puched the window and broke it this house is in pices :< please help ? what should i do

2006-12-03 07:45:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is studying at university 50 miles away from where I live. Well she has a kid and a husband. During the weekends, she makes me take care of her kid ( my nephew). So like this week, she had a huge fight with my brother in law. She called me today to tell me that whatever happens, don't hand over my nephew to him ( my brother in law). He called a few minutes later demanding to see his child. I don't know what to do? I mean, i know he has rights obviously, but my sister has rights too, and I am caught in the middle. What should I do? Should I call the cops if he causes a scandal? thanks. I really need help!!

2006-12-03 07:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by kjlokk 1

My mother annoys me constantly, as we are nothing like each other. we hardly spoke to each other for the first 13 years of my life, because my dad was around. he died a year and a half ago, and now all me and my mum do is argue. i know that i inherited my personality and my brains from my dads side, but recently i have been feeling like my intelligence is creeping away. i cant remember stuff as well as i could any more, and it sucks. i hate my mum. please help

2006-12-03 07:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 5 brothers.

2006-12-03 07:25:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Indiana paddles and it is legal. I know this because i volunteer at a school that paddles and this school special education school, and there is only kids with disabilities and that is all.

It is not a public or private school i don't think. it is a special school.

Don't say it is illegal because it is legal to do this, and it is not any kids that have no disabilities. okay.

2006-12-03 07:10:09 · 2 answers · asked by Rainbow kid 2