i need help !!!!!!!!?

Question

my mum and dad are getting divorced , by brother has just come out of prision and has a angry problem , my sister ran away from home and has been married twice and she gets beaten up by her boy friend. my brother and father argue and somtimes beat each other up. my mum screams loud and so does everybody else . every day theres at least 3 arguments . my mum brakes every think out of anger and my dad says im worth nothing . my brother and sister dont get on with me and i dont know what to do , im only just 14 . i dont know what to do . my brother just puched the window and broke it this house is in pices :< please help ? what should i do

Answer 1

You get your self out of that home asap. Call family services tell them what is happening. You are not safe at all. Is there a relative you can go to?

Or talk to the school councilor who will have numbers you can contact. What you are going thru is not normal...or healthy for you.

Answer 2

Whoa......you are describing alot of mentally unhealthy people. You're not going to change a thing. If you stay there chances are you will develop the same sickness they have. At your young age, all you see and feel will have a tremendous impact on your future relationships.
Find a relative to live with. If your parents give you any grief over moving away...nicely tell them it's that or you call the police every time there is violence around you.
Just get out!!!

Answer 3

Man, nobody can get to you quite like family. It's so hard to see people you love confused and in pain, and not be able to fix it. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

What should you do? Well, some of this may sound counter-intuitive, but...

> accept that you can't fix these people, and it isn't your job to try. They're out of control and have to find their own way.
> your job is to take care of you, so at least one person comes out of this mess alive. Is there a relative who you trust, who would take you in? If so, ask him/her to invite you to "visit" for a few weeks. You can catch your breath, and if it seems like a good idea, just keep extending the visit.
> If not, then it depends on whether or not you feel you're in danger. If they're violent, and it seems they are, then it's time to approach a teacher, pastor or other adult you trust and tell them that you don't feel safe at home, and why.
> Having been through an unsafe home life, though, I can tell you this - stay out of the way. It's time to join as many clubs at school as you can, go to the library to study, and stay out of harm's way. Think about what kind of life you might like to have once you're out on your own, and aim for it. Get really, really busy so you don't have time to be involved in the mess at home. Also gives you somewhere to be and something else to think about.
> Hopefully, your family will eventually wake up and get a clue, but you have no control over that, so you forgive them (because it's easier on your soul) for not being smarter or better than they are, and you take care of yourself. Be safe, honey!

Answer 4

You need to confidentially report this to a relative and talk with them,one that you may be able ti live with,if not,then talk to your school counselor and or someone in the dept of family and children"s services,but first and foremost let your parents know up front their behavior is effecting your way of life,that you deserve better from them in the way of rrespect,i wish you luck,you may respond personally to [e-mail] if you need an adult perspective on your issues. Eric

Answer 5

Well if u have any aunts, uncles, older cousins, grandparents etc. you can ask if any of them know how to help, or if u can even possibly live with them until the rest of ur family calms themselves down. Try telling them that they will lose u if they dont stop arguing, always take deep breaths and keep ur own attitude under control.

Answer 6

omg.. i have never been in anything as close to that. i really want to help you but i can't cause i have never been in a stituation like that. if i were i would avoid goin home or just being around there. see if you can just hang out with friends and spend like a week at a friends house, just take every chance to get out of there. im sorry you have to go through something like that and i hope you get through this...
best of luck :]

Answer 7

if u have good friends go and see if u can stay w/ them and just stay as far away from home as u can. really hope it helps! i feel real bad for ya dude but try and live through it

Answer 8

call the cops

Answer 9

call the safehouse or boys/girls ranch

Answer 10

go find your friends
thats the only advice i have

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