even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and i can't belive even though my mom's on her own he's still doing! he has serious control freak issues! (his mom is messed up and has them too) and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is (it's our messed up sexist culture) and no1 wud support me (as i said messed up culture) so wut do i do
2006-12-03 09:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey if ur mom stops dating assholes then u'll be free of them
2006-12-03 09:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lay low until you're old enough to get out of the house. Most families have problems just like yours. I think you need to see your school counselor and talk to them about it. Maybe you can talk to a social worker who could help your mom out. Your mom chooses to accept this behavior from your Dad but it's not really your business what is between them....but it is your problem when it comes to your relationship with your Dad. So you need some good help. Talk to a trusted teacher or counselor. They can help you the most. Godloveya, dear.
2006-12-03 10:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your mom is a very smart person to leave him and if she had the guts to leave him she probly has the brains to stay away from him. It seems like your dad has a problem with letting go but if you refuse to let him keep this grip on you then you can get away and move on with your life. As far as when you are on your own, you have the choice to stay away from him and he can't part of your life if you don't let him. All you can do is stand your ground and refuse to giv him the chace to enter into your life.
2006-12-03 09:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Penguin_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just stand up no matter how hard it is. Don't let it build up, or talk to your mom and convince her to do it, tell her how it makes you feel and don't worry about what everyone else may think of you, that's the problem with society today everyone worries what the next person will think. He'll never stop if you allow it to happen, that's why he does it today people have allowed it to go on. good luck!!!!
2006-12-03 09:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur mom(maybe ur mom stil likes ur dad?) yet on account that theyre no longer 2gwther anymore, and in all probability no longer gonna party in the futre, she could start to stay her existence as though shes no longer gonna stay w/ him anymore. u shouldnt be afraid to talk ur techniques approximately issues u quite have self assurance in, no remember how uncomfortable it could look. anybody has to stay their very own existence and could be courageous sufficient to stand up for the fact. yet another threat isthat ur dad is relatively a good guy and hes being set off off by ur unintended comments and/or habit. think of approximately it.
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2006-12-10 07:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋