My sister is studying at university 50 miles away from where I live. Well she has a kid and a husband. During the weekends, she makes me take care of her kid ( my nephew). So like this week, she had a huge fight with my brother in law. She called me today to tell me that whatever happens, don't hand over my nephew to him ( my brother in law). He called a few minutes later demanding to see his child. I don't know what to do? I mean, i know he has rights obviously, but my sister has rights too, and I am caught in the middle. What should I do? Should I call the cops if he causes a scandal? thanks. I really need help!!
2006-12-03 07:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by kjlokk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Actually, if your going to keep the child from his dad then calling the cops wont help. The only thing the cops will do is make you give the boy to his dad. If he has no court order saying he cant have the boy then he has the right to take him. The only person he cant take him from is the mother and you can get in trouble for not giving him his son. If I was you I would tell my sister that you arent going to be in the middle of it. Tell her you'll try to keep him away long enough for her to get there but that she needs to hurry because its out of your hands.
2006-12-03 07:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by mystical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters you're sister should never have involved you but since she did tell her she has to come and stay with you or you go stay with her whichever so that her son is in the same household as her. Or go to your parents. You can't call the cops on the brother in law they will hand the boy over to him and there's nothing she'll be able to do but go to court. So she might never see him again but the brother in law could call the cops on you and you get in trouble, unless she's there too. I went though this with my daughter and the cops and my lawyer told me that I could take my daughter or call the police and they could take my daughter from anyone but my ex husband. And whoever was watching her is the one who gets in trouble if they knowingly did this. So if you've talked to the brother in law and said no you can't have him you know what's going on and is the one keeping the child from him, not your sister unless she is there with you. So guess who's gonna be the one in trouble here you. So you have to tell her to either stay with you and the child or take the child and leave.
2006-12-03 08:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by mommy23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you fear that the father will try to take your nephew away and never be seen again then I would get the cops involved. If your sister trusts you more with her son then her husband then I think there is something to be said there. I wouldn't take this situation lightly because things like this always happen and sometimes they leave fatal results. I hope that everything works out and I pray for you family :)
2006-12-03 07:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your sister should not have put you in this situation, cause it could back fire and you will be the one holding the bag. If there is no legal order saying the father cannot see or pick up his kid, then its your choice, but the father can call the cops. Now, you don't have to let him in your home, but you have no "legal" right to keep him from his kid. Now, "if" your not home, when he gets there, then he will just have to wait until you get home. Its sad when kids are always played this way.
2006-12-03 07:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 22:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually she does NOT have the right to deny him access to his son. If you call the police you are actually the one in the wrong, you have no right to keep a parent from their child.
2006-12-03 07:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a situation that needs other family members from both sides to help, its not proper for a kid to be exposed to this kind of environment, please seek parents, family Friends and social well fare department
2006-12-05 15:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Thoks G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋